Discussion The female support system ruins many relationships

[BigDihDiddy]

Something I notice is if guys talk about their relationship problems with their male friends they tend to be much more objective. If he’s in the wrong they say so if she is they say so too.

Although in female friend group’s they tend to incentivise their friends acts be them right or wrong. And they do even worse, like even if she brings something up like “oh I’m helping my boyfriend with this” her friends will make sure to give their opinion on why they think that’s wrong.

It’s always the trickiest part when dealing with this cause even if the girl herself is Good and self reflects on stuff her friends will 99% of the time say she was right anyway it’s the same logic that when a fat girl asks she’s fat her friends say no it’s gaslighting tho when it comes to the context of relationship advice they will make her think she’s right on everything

 

[BigDihDiddy]

Tbh I don’t see a solution to this since it involves biological tendencies but it’s kinda annoying

 

[Deleted Member 102155]

That’s why you gotta know her friends

 

[Monsieur Meow]

unfortunately

 

[Foid]

Something I notice is if guys talk about their relationship problems with their male friends they tend to be much more objective. If he’s in the wrong they say so if she is they say so too.

Although in female friend group’s they tend to incentivise their friends acts be them right or wrong. And they do even worse, like even if she brings something up like “oh I’m helping my boyfriend with this” her friends will make sure to give their opinion on why they think that’s wrong.

It’s always the trickiest part when dealing with this cause even if the girl herself is Good and self reflects on stuff her friends will 99% of the time say she was right anyway it’s the same logic that when a fat girl asks she’s fat her friends say no it’s gaslighting tho when it comes to the context of relationship advice they will make her think she’s right on everything

My friend was the exact opposite, even if I didn't ask for help or advice with my relationship she just proceeded to say how horrible I am and how no one deserves to be with me
I mean she was right but damn

 

[TonyDr]

Although in female friend group’s they tend to incentivise their friends acts be them right or wrong. And they do even worse even if she brings something up like “oh I’m helping my boyfriend with this” her friends will make sure to give their opinion on why they think that’s wrong.

My fiancée cut off a female friend like that who was telling her all the time that i was "lovebombing" her

+1 year strong, a ring, and i brush her hair and massage her tummy during her period times, def lovebombing huh

 

[BigDihDiddy]

That’s why you gotta know her friends

Yeah it’s important to at least leave a good mark on them so they won’t be too harsh on u when talking to her

 

[Deleted Member 102155]

Yeah it’s important to at least leave a good mark on them so they won’t be too harsh on u when talking to her

Learn incels learn,

 

[Deleted Member 105011]

Even if you tell a girl that their friends are bad for them they will stay with them till what you said or introduced to them being a possibility yo happen, happens.

It's a waiting game, and it's sad how that's how it is nowaday.

 

[BigDihDiddy]

My friend was the exact opposite, even if I didn't ask for help or advice with my relationship she just proceeded to say how horrible I am and how no one deserves to be with me
I mean she was right but damn

That’s definitely not a friend then that’s someone trying to keep u down

Usually when ppl are insecure they hang around with such “friends” who do nothing but put them down

Even tho extreme positive gaslighters are also bad so are extreme negative gaslighters

 

[BigDihDiddy]

Even if you tell a girl that their friends are bad for them they will stay with them till what you said or introduced to them being a possibility happen, happens.

It's a waiting game, and it's sad how that's how it is nowaday.

Yeah that’s what makes it so hard to get a good girl since there’s so many bad girls even if u find a good one she will definitely have friends who wanna project their views onto her

Also men rarely talk about relationship with each other or even listen that much women put much more importance into their friend’s opinions so it ends up being guaranteed any girl with a boyfriend will talk to her friends about it

 

[emeraldpill]

Doesn’t even have to be them bringing an issue up, I’ve seen girls say something positive or neutral (like just general info, I’m seeing him tomorrow etc) about their bf and their friends will still sometimes find a way to make it negative

 

[BigDihDiddy]

Doesn’t even have to be them bringing an issue up, I’ve seen girls say something positive or neutral (like just general info, I’m seeing him tomorrow etc) about their bf and their friends will still sometimes find a way to make it negative

Jfl that’s another annoying thing good luck having a girl say she helps her boyfriend with something one of her friends will definitely lecture her on why that’s bad

Many times just projecting since they wanna bring everyone down to their level of entitlement

 

[emeraldpill]

Jfl that’s another annoying thing good luck having a girl say she helps her boyfriend with something one of her friends will definitely lecture her on why that’s bad

Many times just projecting since they wanna bring everyone down to their level of entitlement

It’s never all of them, well maybe I guess but that’s bad luck, it tends to be the retarded ones or those with nothing going for themself

 

[faithful]

Something I notice is if guys talk about their relationship problems with their male friends they tend to be much more objective. If he’s in the wrong they say so if she is they say so too.

Although in female friend group’s they tend to incentivise their friends acts be them right or wrong. And they do even worse, like even if she brings something up like “oh I’m helping my boyfriend with this” her friends will make sure to give their opinion on why they think that’s wrong.

It’s always the trickiest part when dealing with this cause even if the girl herself is Good and self reflects on stuff her friends will 99% of the time say she was right anyway it’s the same logic that when a fat girl asks she’s fat her friends say no it’s gaslighting tho when it comes to the context of relationship advice they will make her think she’s right on everything

it has its pros and cons. thats why men have their male loneliness epidemic shit and women dont

 

[BigDihDiddy]

it has its pros and cons. thats why men have their male loneliness epidemic shit and women dont

Not because of gaslighting shit tho women are more likely to be seen as valuable by other women and even men

Has nothing to do with being gaslit into thinking everything you do is right by friends

 

[faithful]

Not because of gaslighting shit tho women are more likely to be seen as valuable by other women and even men

Has nothing to do with being gaslit into thinking everything you do is right by friends

women focus alot more on emotional intimacy and vulnerability so its harder to be honest as opposed to guys who are more action based and loyal so its easier for them to just be blunt with less emotion