Much like black women, black men are seen as loud and ghetto and if you are not loud and ghetto you are seen as an autistic social cell that watches anime all day. In the eyes of most people you are either a thugmaxxed bbc or some archetype that just isn’t attractive. From what I’ve seen the only way around is to be a full blown Tyrone or extremely close to Tyrone (so really high tier Tyrone lite). This gives you the halo you need to just be a normal person and still be attractive without having to thugmaxx or even need the bbc halo. This also goes for black women too you need to be minimum Stacy or Stacy lite.