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[nomi]

what if I'm just the person people use to get over their past relationships? maybe I give in too easily idk, sulking in the past isn't going to benefit me but ts is all I can think about rn, ik there's time to move on from this esp me being 14 but I cant get this thought out my head it's so annoying. most hs relationships don't last forever but I really don't want to always be the girl who's just a temporary filler for someone's problems

 

[AXII.CO]

That doesn't exist

Don't overthink on it or it will manifest itself onto you

 

[BigDihDiddy]

That doesn't exist

Don't overthink on it or it will manifest itself onto you

I think op thinks this happens because girls tend to do this where they will date nice or an uglier guy because of bad past relationship

But I don’t think any guy dates someone because they are the opposite of their past relationship

 

[BecomingX]

Not to be that guy but ur 14. The only ppl using you are other minors who dont know shit. Snap out of this victim mindset asap.

 

[emeraldpill]

relationships at 14 matter little, none of you know anything

 

[AXII.CO]

relationships at 14 matter little

Many incelibate men kill themselves after missing out on a small teen love
Did you know that?

They are almost a fundamental necessity

 

[emeraldpill]

Many incelibate men kill themselves after missing out on a small teen love
Did you know that?

They are almost a fundamental necessity

Maybe I worded it wrong, I didn’t mean don’t have them or that people shouldn’t try to have them, just that whatever you go through during them likely won’t affect your future life that much. In the context of what op is saying especially - it’s not like she’s lacking attention she just isn’t sure it’s good