This month was awful

[rand anon]

Been forced to hangout more and more with my oneitis, literally feel like putting my head in a blender afterwards every time

Turned 26 while on vaca. Every yr since I turned 24 I’ve noticed my match rate on OLD get worse and worse, but it was still workable. Ever since turning 26 though hinge has been radio silent. I’ve just been collecting matches these past 3 yrs instead of trying to go on dates, cause I wanted to wait till I graduated. Retarded decision, seems like I’ve finally aged out of the demographic of women that were tolerant of my manletism. So flippin ova

guess I could optimize my profile cause rn I’m just using aspie pics. Could also try remaking hinge to rematch with some girls, but besides that idk what to do. Calling upon my relationship having oldheads once again, @TonyDr @Randomized Shame u guys don’t use the apps right? Where do y’all meet women asides from there

 

[recai]

im bomesmasjing with my orher hamd while typing this

 

[Grilldaddy❤️]

This entire summer was awful

 

[GayGymMaxx]

im bomesmasjing with my orher hamd while typing this

Bonemashing with right hand, typing with left hand, sucking my own dick with my mouth

 

[Randomized Shame]

I actually met my wife on OkCupid. Hinge and Tinder were nightmares for me.

 

[Ben07]

Been forced to hangout more and more with my oneitis, literally feel like putting my head in a blender afterwards every time

Turned 26 while on vaca. Every yr since I turned 24 I’ve noticed my match rate on OLD get worse and worse, but it was still workable. Ever since turning 26 though hinge has been radio silent. I’ve just been collecting matches these past 3 yrs instead of trying to go on dates, cause I wanted to wait till I graduated. Retarded decision, seems like I’ve finally aged out of the demographic of women that were tolerant of my manletism. So flippin ova

guess I could optimize my profile cause rn I’m just using aspie pics. Could also try remaking hinge to rematch with some girls, but besides that idk what to do. Calling upon my relationship having oldheads once again, @TonyDr @Randomized Shame u guys don’t use the apps right? Where do y’all meet women asides from there

My only advice would be to not stress and do things that is you females notice when u have a "fake persona"t

anyways i wouldnt recommend tinder or hinge etc for somthing real, those sites are usually just for one night stands i would recommend sites like eharmony

 

[Ben07]

My only advice would be to not stress and do things that is you females notice when u have a "fake persona"t

anyways i wouldnt recommend tinder or hinge etc for somthing real, those sites are usually just for one night stands i would recommend sites like eharmony

i jsut read ur thread again and noticed how water my reply was

 

[rand anon]

I actually met my wife on OkCupid. Hinge and Tinder were nightmares for me.

Wait ur married?! Mirin

Aren’t u younger than me though, wasn’t aware that women in our age range even use okcupid

 

[rand anon]

My only advice would be to not stress and do things that is you females notice when u have a "fake persona"t

I mean I’m not even getting to the stage where that matters though

anyways i wouldnt recommend tinder or hinge etc for somthing real, those sites are usually just for one night stands i would recommend sites like eharmony

I mean from what I’ve heard most people use hinge for ltrs, and I have my profile set for “long-term” on there. Wasn’t aware that us 20 somethings even use eharmony or okcupid though

 

[Ben07]

I mean I’m not even getting to the stage where that matters though

I mean from what I’ve heard most people use hinge for ltrs, and I have my profile set for “long-term” on there. Wasn’t aware that us 20 somethings even use eharmony or okcupid though

i would say eharmony is pretty normal for older 20s like 28+? But how have u set up ur profile. Pics etc like ur not just staring into the camera right? Pretty important that ur doing somthing that could show that u got energy of some sort if u get wim or just ur vibe

 

[Randomized Shame]

Wait ur married?! Mirin

Aren’t u younger than me though, wasn’t aware that women in our age range even use okcupid

Yeah. And I'm 23 and she's 29. But we met when she was 26 and I was 20. We've been married over a year technically, but I was kinda shy admitting that at first which might be why you weren't aware.

I really liked OkCupid in comparison due to the questions features. When you're kind of desperate you signups to every free dating app as possible ngl so I wasn't expecting to like it as much as I did.

 

[Ben07]

Yeah. And I'm 23 and she's 29. But we met when she was 26 and I was 20. We've been married over a year technically, but I was kinda shy admitting that at first which might be why you weren't aware.

I really liked OkCupid in comparison due to the questions features. When you're kind of desperate you signups to every free dating app as possible ngl so I wasn't expecting to like it as much as I did.

Mirin bro

 

[rand anon]

i would say eharmony is pretty normal for older 20s like 28+? But how have u set up ur profile. Pics etc like ur not just staring into the camera right? Pretty important that ur doing somthing that could show that u got energy of some sort if u get wim or just ur vibe

my profile’s tera aspie lol, like 3 selfies, and then 2 mirror pics. Yeah I guess I could make it more NT looking but I don’t see the point if that isn’t who I actually am though.

I think the main reason for the sudden crash in matches though is cause mid 20s+ women are just turned off by my manletism. Cause like when I was getting matches most of them were in the 18 to 20s range. It’s a shame I never tried cause they would’ve been more tolerant of my inexperience too

 

[rand anon]

Yeah. And I'm 23 and she's 29. But we met when she was 26 and I was 20. We've been married over a year technically, but I was kinda shy admitting that at first which might be why you weren't aware.

Well congrats! And nothing to be embarrassed about

I really liked OkCupid in comparison due to the questions features. When you're kind of desperate you signups to every free dating app as possible ngl so I wasn't expecting to like it as much as I did.

Interesting, guess I’ll check it out then

 

[Ben07]

my profile’s tera aspie lol, like 3 selfies, and then 2 mirror pics. Yeah I guess I could make it more NT looking but I don’t see the point if that isn’t who I actually am though.

I think the main reason for the sudden crash in matches though is cause mid 20s+ women are just turned off by my manletism. Cause like when I was getting matches most of them were in the 18 to 20s range. It’s a shame I never tried cause they would’ve been more tolerant of my inexperience too

Well honestly just be yourself even if ur not getting matches right now just take it easy, im sure you will get somthing thats worth ur time if you just wait maybe try doing somthing thats good for you aswell? who knows it might help u

 

[TonyDr]

Been forced to hangout more and more with my oneitis, literally feel like putting my head in a blender afterwards every time

This is fucking torture it should be the opposite bro. Why you just can't say no ? Or saying you aren't interested ?

Turned 26 while on vaca. Every yr since I turned 24 I’ve noticed my match rate on OLD get worse and worse, but it was still workable. Ever since turning 26 though hinge has been radio silent. I’ve just been collecting matches these past 3 yrs instead of trying to go on dates, cause I wanted to wait till I graduated. Retarded decision, seems like I’ve finally aged out of the demographic of women that were tolerant of my manletism. So flippin ova

Tbh you should never "wait" and just take actions quick, planning dates and build a connection with a girl or multiple girls and see which one is worth a LTR
You can still get girls in their early 20s also.
(For example i'm 27 and my gf is 24, and got serious IOIs from women who was 20-21yo).
Also fraud a bit your height or don't mention it at first ?
Dating apps are a double edged sword, because there are women who can't get a man IRL? having delulu standards and dating choices over a simple pic of a guy.

guess I could optimize my profile cause rn I’m just using aspie pics. Could also try remaking hinge to rematch with some girls, but besides that idk what to do. Calling upon my relationship having oldheads once again, @TonyDr @Randomized Shame u guys don’t use the apps right? Where do y’all meet women asides from there

Never used dating apps.
I've always heard you should never post selfie/mirror pics, but more pro/model pics ? Can't you find someone helping you with that ?
Also yeah i've always met women IRL my whole life, through school, in public transports, at work etc. I would say try to meet IRL women and cold approach. Not necessarily getting numbers but building connections overtime, especially if it's girls you can met everyday through school/work and see if she developp IOIs from it

 

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Brutal, i’m sorry

 

[rand anon]

This is fucking torture it should be the opposite bro. Why you just can't say no ? Or saying you aren't interested ?

Cause my oneitis’ sister and my mom are friends. My oneitis often tags along when they hangout and she and her sister always bug me to join them. Even if I firmly said no to going out, she’s still coming to our house like multiple times a week

Tbh you should never "wait" and just take actions quick, planning dates and build a connection with a girl or multiple girls and see which one is worth a LTR
You can still get girls in their early 20s also.
(For example i'm 27 and my gf is 24, and got serious IOIs from women who was 20-21yo).

U rly think? Why would my match rate suddenly crash though after turning 26 then? My hypothesis was that older women are just turned off by my manletism.

Also fraud a bit your height or don't mention it at first ?
Dating apps are a double edged sword, because there are women who can't get a man IRL? having delulu standards and dating choices over a simple pic of a guy.

I don’t see the point in frauding my height though, what’s the point in lying if I want an ltr? On hinge u have to mention ur height. I feel like it’s better than the alternative though, when I use to omit my height on tinder and bumble, I would get a lot of matches but it was always brootal to mention my height in the messages, would often get unmatched after. That hasn’t happened on Hinge

Never used dating apps.
I've always heard you should never post selfie/mirror pics, but more pro/model pics ? Can't you find someone helping you with that ?

Idk about professional photos, usually that looks too forced. But yeah I could take more photos doing stuff outside. Idk what the point would be though if I’m actually just a room rotter jfl

Also yeah i've always met women IRL my whole life, through school, in public transports, at work etc. I would say try to meet IRL women and cold approach. Not necessarily getting numbers but building connections overtime, especially if it's girls you can met everyday through school/work and see if she developp IOIs from it

Mirin

I get some iois occasionally but I’m always too afraid to cold approach. And I’m done with school, currently job hunting rn so I guess we’ll see when I’m finally employed. There aren’t a ton of women in tech though, so that doesn’t seem promising. Asides from that idk where I could build those connections, not hving a social circle is brootal

 

[TonyDr]

Cause my oneitis’ sister and my mom are friends. My oneitis often tags along when they hangout and she and her sister always bug me to join them. Even if I firmly said no to going out, she’s still coming to our house like multiple times a week

Ah yeah that's sucks, in your place i would just avoid the maximum or not being around the house when she is here

U rly think? Why would my match rate suddenly crash though after turning 26 then? My hypothesis was that older women are just turned off by my manletism.

I thought it was the opposite ? Younger women being immature about height and and older women being more tolerant

I don’t see the point in frauding my height though, what’s the point in lying if I want an ltr? On hinge u have to mention ur height. I feel like it’s better than the alternative though, when I use to omit my height on tinder and bumble, I would get a lot of matches but it was always brootal to mention my height in the messages, would often get unmatched after. That hasn’t happened on Hinge

By frauding i mean adding an inch. My gf and my aunts think i'm 6'3, and i'm 6'2

Idk about professional photos, usually that looks too forced. But yeah I could take more photos doing stuff outside. Idk what the point would be though if I’m actually just a room rotter jfl

This is what i always heard about. Could be a good photo doing with a good phone. You eating at a restaurant, chilling in a park, a beach, a forest etc

I get some iois occasionally but I’m always too afraid to cold approach. And I’m done with school, currently job hunting rn so I guess we’ll see when I’m finally employed. There aren’t a ton of women in tech though, so that doesn’t seem promising. Asides from that idk where I could build those connections, not hving a social circle is brootal

You should always cold approach. Rejection isn't that bad tbh
Also if you can find a part time job doing social interactions like salesman, waiter, bartender etc

 

[rand anon]

Ah yeah that's sucks, in your place i would just avoid the maximum or not being around the house when she is here

I guess I can try

I thought it was the opposite ? Younger women being immature about height and and older women being more tolerant

From my experience I feel like younger women are more immature about face than height, and older women value height more cause everyone’s losing collagen by then. Idk, u could be right too

By frauding i mean adding an inch. My gf and my aunts think i'm 6'3, and i'm 6'2

Is that rly gonna make a difference though at my height? 5’3 to 5’4, still giga manlet. Also, most of the women I match with tend to be my height or a few inches taller so it would be apparent if I lied.

This is what i always heard about. Could be a good photo doing with a good phone. You eating at a restaurant, chilling in a park, a beach, a forest etc

guess I’ll can try that, I don’t hve anyone to take pics for me though jfl

You should always cold approach. Rejection isn't that bad tbh
Also if you can find a part time job doing social interactions like salesman, waiter, bartender etc

too nerve wracking for me, I’d have go through a shit ton of rejection cause of my height, sounds like torture. I rly wanna work part time while I’m searching for my career job but my parents are pressuring me not to lol. Since I took too long to graduate they wanna see me pursuing my career immediately

 

[TonyDr]

guess I’ll can try that, I don’t hve anyone to take pics for me though jfl

Why not asking your crush LOL ? I mean she can do that for you ig

too nerve wracking for me, I’d have go through a shit ton of rejection cause of my height, sounds like torture. I rly wanna work part time while I’m searching for my career job but my parents are pressuring me not to lol. Since I took too long to graduate they wanna see me pursuing my career immediately

Thats sucks, they should let you do few months part-timing to build social skills, you need to convince them ?

 

[rand anon]

Why not asking your crush LOL ? I mean she can do that for you ig

I guess I could lol, that’s def an idea. Her sister actually asked me why I haven’t been going on dates through dating apps, and I told her my whole spiel lol. Idk how to bring up the topic with my oneitis though

Thats sucks, they should let you do few months part-timing to build social skills, you need to convince them ?

I’m trying, they aren’t budging unfortunately, at the very least they want me to work a part time office job instead of retail/labor

I miss when I worked my first job, at a warehouse, 3 yrs ago. The wage was good, some women were engaging in convos and flirting too

 

[TonyDr]

I guess I could lol, that’s def an idea. Her sister actually asked me why I haven’t been going on dates through dating apps, and I told her my whole spiel lol. Idk how to bring up the topic with my oneitis though

I would say during a convo about photography "oh i was thinking do you take good pics ? I need some to actualise socials etc"

I’m trying, they aren’t budging unfortunately, at the very least they want me to work a part time office job instead of retail/labor

I miss when I worked my first job, at a warehouse, 3 yrs ago. The wage was good, some women were engaging in convos and flirting too

Maybe half office half salesman..? Idk how you can plan that but why not