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I pity those who do harm to others. They don't know that the damage that they're doing to someone they're also doing to themselves. It's human nature to be good to others, to live in a society and uplift each other, not to have ill intent and hurt people. Hurting others leaves you with the same scars that you leave on those who you wrong. Think about how deeply you're hurting someone and realize what you have done. Think about the psychological damage, think about how you're hurting their future.
If you knew what you were doing was unethical, immoral, was wrong or even illegal would it still take you any willpower to stop it? If someone told you that the behavior, the acts that you're engaged in are actually harming you and harming others and you saw the validity in their statement how would you react? Would you be ashamed, would you regret, would you acknowledge and accept that what you were doing is wrong?
How would you see someone else who commits the same mistakes that you do? We sometimes believe that when others do something wrong, that they're evil and that when we do something wrong that it's just a mistake rather than intentful evil-doing. We are misguided at times and blinded by emotion and pain so we have to be understanding but of course there are levels to it.
Retrospectively, when you think back on a time that you were mistaken or misguided, when you were doing wrong, don't you feel that you were wasting your time? When you were hurting people, illogically, for no reason, being irrational, don't you feel like you were wasting your life?
Remember that those people who were trying to harm you were harming themselves. They might be offending you because you think they're doing it on purpose, or with Intent or consciously or willingly or knowingly but they're often just hurt themselves and doing to others what was done onto them. They are misguided, they're ignorant they're mistaken, they're insecure, they're tripping and falling and they're hurting themselves, not you. Misery loves company, understand where they're coming from and perhaps that helps you shrug off their attempt and perhaps you'll even pity them as well.
Even if they really were evil, they can't make YOU evil. Understand that being a victim is not your fault either.
When you think of the times when you were mistaken, misguided or engaged in some behavior that you'd never do now, you know that the greatest harm that you were doing at that time, you were doing to yourself. Even if you hurt someone else, because you chose to do that and you're the reason why that pain was inflicted and you're responsible for hurting them and maybe even ruining their life even tho it might not seem like it, even if it seems like they're in compliance with it.
We're all humans, we were all born innocent babies and innocent little children and maybe something happened and we diverged, maybe that's how some differences started but almost nobody was born evil. We have the responsibility to be good, especially adults. Don't behave as you wouldn't want others to behave towards you or your loved ones. Golden rule, hearing it again helps.
We're not always perfect and I invite you to take a look at your life and your decisions objectively to fix what you know you should, to not hurt others and to not blame yourself for the harm that others have done to you. God has a plan and sometimes it might feel brutal to get punished for your wrongdoings and sometimes it might feel like you were given a second chance. If your decisions haven't caught up with you then consider it the latter and make a change. you might still face the repercussions in the future, in life or in your mind. If someone has wronged you overcome it and become better than them don't continue the cycle. Spread love and positivity.
Good will prevail over evil.
If you knew what you were doing was unethical, immoral, was wrong or even illegal would it still take you any willpower to stop it? If someone told you that the behavior, the acts that you're engaged in are actually harming you and harming others and you saw the validity in their statement how would you react? Would you be ashamed, would you regret, would you acknowledge and accept that what you were doing is wrong?
How would you see someone else who commits the same mistakes that you do? We sometimes believe that when others do something wrong, that they're evil and that when we do something wrong that it's just a mistake rather than intentful evil-doing. We are misguided at times and blinded by emotion and pain so we have to be understanding but of course there are levels to it.
Retrospectively, when you think back on a time that you were mistaken or misguided, when you were doing wrong, don't you feel that you were wasting your time? When you were hurting people, illogically, for no reason, being irrational, don't you feel like you were wasting your life?
Remember that those people who were trying to harm you were harming themselves. They might be offending you because you think they're doing it on purpose, or with Intent or consciously or willingly or knowingly but they're often just hurt themselves and doing to others what was done onto them. They are misguided, they're ignorant they're mistaken, they're insecure, they're tripping and falling and they're hurting themselves, not you. Misery loves company, understand where they're coming from and perhaps that helps you shrug off their attempt and perhaps you'll even pity them as well.
Even if they really were evil, they can't make YOU evil. Understand that being a victim is not your fault either.
When you think of the times when you were mistaken, misguided or engaged in some behavior that you'd never do now, you know that the greatest harm that you were doing at that time, you were doing to yourself. Even if you hurt someone else, because you chose to do that and you're the reason why that pain was inflicted and you're responsible for hurting them and maybe even ruining their life even tho it might not seem like it, even if it seems like they're in compliance with it.
We're all humans, we were all born innocent babies and innocent little children and maybe something happened and we diverged, maybe that's how some differences started but almost nobody was born evil. We have the responsibility to be good, especially adults. Don't behave as you wouldn't want others to behave towards you or your loved ones. Golden rule, hearing it again helps.
We're not always perfect and I invite you to take a look at your life and your decisions objectively to fix what you know you should, to not hurt others and to not blame yourself for the harm that others have done to you. God has a plan and sometimes it might feel brutal to get punished for your wrongdoings and sometimes it might feel like you were given a second chance. If your decisions haven't caught up with you then consider it the latter and make a change. you might still face the repercussions in the future, in life or in your mind. If someone has wronged you overcome it and become better than them don't continue the cycle. Spread love and positivity.
Good will prevail over evil.
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