Ramezu
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I’m 19. My dick is 21cm (8”3) when hard and 16cm (6”3) when flaccid. These are not numbers meant to brag (the intention is pretty much the contrary), I know how often men lie about their sizes but I have measured it carefully. It’s ruining my sex life and by extension my love life and self esteem.
I am lucky in the sense that it’s not hard to get women’s sexual attention, but every single time I meet up with someone in person it just ends up in frustration and disappointment. I’m quite girthy as well, so without extensive lube and foreplay there’s usually no way it fits, and when it does it often hurts for the girl. Blowjobs often end up being 50% teeth. I know sex isn’t everything in life and in relationships, but I’m cursed with a high sex drive. The only girl I’ve been with that could comfortably take me ended up spreading my dick pics all over school after a fight which was a terrible experience.
Finding big enough condoms is hard. Finding big enough boxers can be hard. I’m constantly afraid of it being visible through my pants even when flaccid. Getting a boner in public is a death sentence, I’ve literally been escorted out of a McDonalds by security and threatened with them calling the police on me just because of a random boner that came out of nowhere. It was extremely humiliating and I’ve learned to bolt for the bathroom when it happens. Trust me, you do not want this life, the sexual attention becomes shallow after a while. How I wish I could just chop this thing in half
EDIT: I’m extremely grateful and overwhelmed by all the advice, comments and suggestions. I can’t reply to it all but I’ll try working on myself and looking at it all from a different perspective
I am lucky in the sense that it’s not hard to get women’s sexual attention, but every single time I meet up with someone in person it just ends up in frustration and disappointment. I’m quite girthy as well, so without extensive lube and foreplay there’s usually no way it fits, and when it does it often hurts for the girl. Blowjobs often end up being 50% teeth. I know sex isn’t everything in life and in relationships, but I’m cursed with a high sex drive. The only girl I’ve been with that could comfortably take me ended up spreading my dick pics all over school after a fight which was a terrible experience.
Finding big enough condoms is hard. Finding big enough boxers can be hard. I’m constantly afraid of it being visible through my pants even when flaccid. Getting a boner in public is a death sentence, I’ve literally been escorted out of a McDonalds by security and threatened with them calling the police on me just because of a random boner that came out of nowhere. It was extremely humiliating and I’ve learned to bolt for the bathroom when it happens. Trust me, you do not want this life, the sexual attention becomes shallow after a while. How I wish I could just chop this thing in half
EDIT: I’m extremely grateful and overwhelmed by all the advice, comments and suggestions. I can’t reply to it all but I’ll try working on myself and looking at it all from a different perspective
