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what do u say when u approach girls

hannah

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i dont wanna hear any “i dont approach women” like okayyy eyeroll this is for the ppl that do 🙄 i feel like all guys say the same thing its always along the lines of “whats your name, i thought u were really beautiful, can i get ur ig”
 
i legit have never approached a guy in my life i feel like approaching is so like masculine
It is

Never approach first

Let guy do the j*b

Just don’t look like you’re hard to get if you want him to approach

Give him signs and he’ll do his work if he wants it and has the balls
 
“whats your name, i thought u were really beautiful, can i get ur ig”
Yea it’s always this. I’ve never heard anything else before.
 
i legit have never approached a guy in my life i feel like approaching is so like masculine
me neither i just smile very awkwardly if they don't say hi i don't say hi
 
I have done this only in a club, and it was like ''do you have a lighter?'' or ''do you have a cigarette?'' if i saw her smoking
 
If she is familiar, I will usually greet her by her name
If I am not acquainted with the person in question, I will typically initiate the conversation with a compliment or a remark about the current situation..

Could you please clarify whether you are accustomed to producing threads of a meaningless and time-wasting nature, or whether this is simply the limit of your intellectual capabilities?
 
i dont wanna hear any “i dont approach women” like okayyy eyeroll this is for the ppl that do 🙄 i feel like all guys say the same thing its always along the lines of “whats your name, i thought u were really beautiful, can i get ur ig”
Hello, my name is "x", are you from here?
 
It is

Never approach first

Let guy do the j*b

Just don’t look like you’re hard to get if you want him to approach

Give him signs and he’ll do his work if he wants it and has the balls
yeah i think usually the best thing if ur a girl is just to give them small glances, ik some ppl also suggest adding in a smile but i usually dont and it still works fine
 
It is

Never approach first

Let guy do the j*b

Just don’t look like you’re hard to get if you want him to approach

Give him signs and he’ll do his work if he wants it and has the balls
Tbh in approaching as in cold approaching, you’ll prob never see the person again, and the chances of them approaching you is pretty low, so it might be best to approach even for girls if they really like him.
 
yeah i think usually the best thing if ur a girl is just to give them small glances, ik some ppl also suggest adding in a smile but i usually dont and it still works fine
Guys aren’t dumb, they’ll know if you make it clear

It’s a good approach to minimize chances of awkwardness and rejection

1) you give him IOIs
2) he either picks up on them and acts more confidently (because he got an IOI), or he doesn’t and neither of you was rejected
 
If she is familiar, I will usually greet her by her name
If I am not acquainted with the person in question, I will typically initiate the conversation with a compliment or a remark about the current situation..

Could you please clarify whether you are accustomed to producing threads of a meaningless and time-wasting nature, or whether this is simply the limit of your intellectual capabilities?
i just dont like putting high effort into my posts, the only time ill usually put in effort on here is when someone is asking for advice, then i might acc try
 
yeah i think usually the best thing if ur a girl is just to give them small glances, ik some ppl also suggest adding in a smile but i usually dont and it still works fine
Small glances are general af bro... most guys won’t understand at all.
 
i dont wanna hear any “i dont approach women” like okayyy eyeroll this is for the ppl that do 🙄 i feel like all guys say the same thing its always along the lines of “whats your name, i thought u were really beautiful, can i get ur ig”
Depends of the context. Any small talk about the current situation : waiting in line, something is happening etc and then presenting yourself and talk about of what she does etc before considering asking her name & number

Also being NT enough to see if she's interested or not at all
 
i dont wanna hear any “i dont approach women” like okayyy eyeroll this is for the ppl that do 🙄 i feel like all guys say the same thing its always along the lines of “whats your name, i thought u were really beautiful, can i get ur ig”
"I lost my number can I get yours?😏"
 
i dont wanna hear any “i dont approach women” like okayyy eyeroll this is for the ppl that do 🙄 i feel like all guys say the same thing its always along the lines of “whats your name, i thought u were really beautiful, can i get ur ig”
if I did that i would face a 10 year prison sentence minimum
 
i just dont like putting high effort into my posts, the only time ill usually put in effort on here is when someone is asking for advice, then i might acc try
Thank you for explaining the matter to me. I was curious about the reasons behind your behaviour, but now I understand. I can go ahead and add you to my ignore list.
 
just walk up to her with le fone out (17promaccs) liek a curry picking up his doordash order
 
If glances are happening often it’s pretty much an ioi
Yea tbh, but you’d be surprised at how oblivious most guys ik irl are to iois.
Thoughts on this?
Tbh in approaching as in cold approaching, you’ll prob never see the person again, and the chances of them approaching you is pretty low, so it might be best to approach even for girls if they really like him.
 
same with smiles, girls do that to almost everybody they walk by
Depends on the girl

Just look at the whole picture

If she only smiled - probably not an ioi

But if she glanced at you a lot, smiled, was touchy, that’s almost certainly a romantic interest
 
Depends on the girl

Just look at the whole picture

If she only smiled - probably not an ioi

But if she glanced at you a lot, smiled, was touchy, that’s almost certainly a romantic interest
yea but the glances have to be like often idk man. would you say her looking you up and down is an ioi?
 
it goes like:
"hi, will you be my e-kitten" ~~~
works 10/10, srsly recommend it ~~~
 
yea but the glances have to be like often idk man. would you say her looking you up and down is an ioi?
Of course no

I mean if she for example turns around multiple times from the distance to look directly at you

Or smiles directly at your face

Just trust your intuition
 
i think it’s sweet when a guy takes an interest in something and approaches u based on that, i had a keychain on my bag and a guy complimented it and we talked abt the show the keychain was from then he asked for my contact stuff
 
i think it’s sweet when a guy takes an interest in something and approaches u based on that, i had a keychain on my bag and a guy complimented it and we talked abt the show the keychain was from then he asked for my contact stuff
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i think it’s sweet when a guy takes an interest in something and approaches u based on that, i had a keychain on my bag and a guy complimented it and we talked abt the show the keychain was from then he asked for my contact stuff
And then ? It worked out ?
 

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