What happens if I ascend

[Stardust_]

I mean I’m going to the gym tomorrow to do a workout and eventually ascend but I feel like my life will be the same with guys

 

[dipenhydramine]

you will feel better

 

[Stardust_]

you will feel better

Feel like I won’t be able to escape it though? The judgement is only on me I won’t judge anyone else here

 

[over0]

It won't be the same it's night and day it's really fucking wierd

 

[dipenhydramine]

Feel like I won’t be able to escape it though? The judgement is only on me I won’t judge anyone else here

so you work until you cant judge more

 

[ADAM]

i will be nice to you if do

 

[Stardust_]

It won't be the same it's night and day it's really fucking wierd

I did it before and I noticed it but still

 

[over0]

I did it before and I noticed it but still

Depends how hard you ascend tbh but if you have any major ascension (vast weight loss, surgery, puberty) then you'll definitely notice a huge difference

 

[vespertine]

you get a thousand dollars

 

[TonyDr]

I mean I’m going to the gym tomorrow to do a workout and eventually ascend but I feel like my life will be the same with guys

With gym, meaning building muscles, losing fat, getting an appealing body, will attract more options, better options.

BUT you still need mental clarity and boundaries, in hope a man LTR you

 

[TheAncientMacedonia]

u will get fucked

 

[vespertine]

It won't be the same it's night and day it's really fucking wierd

wym

 

[ADAM]

With gym, meaning building muscles, losing fat, getting an appealing body, will attract more options, better options.

BUT you still need mental clarity and boundaries, in hope a man LTR you

her face is fat so hopefully she will lose that from dieting and working out

 

[over0]

wym

The treatment you get mainly, you'll get chased, put on a pedestal and get away with ALOT more. Then all the obvious stuff like a bigger dating pool, better options and all that stuff

 

[Stardust_]

The treatment you get mainly, you'll get chased, put on a pedestal and get away with ALOT more. Then all the obvious stuff like a bigger dating pool, better options and all that stuff

But I already get 200+ matches and guys just treat you like trash anyway so would it really make a difference? I don’t want to do it for them trash guys, I want it to be for me only

 

[Schizotypalcel]

nothing, another 80 years you will be in a grave with worms and centipedes.

 

[over0]

But I already get 200+ matches and guys just treat you like trash anyway so would it really make a difference? I don’t want to do it for them trash guys, I want it to be for me only

The treatment you get mainly, you'll get chased, put on a pedestal and get away with ALOT more. Then all the obvious stuff like a bigger dating pool, better options and all that stuff

 

[Stardust_]

nothing, another 80 years you will be in a grave with worms and centipedes.

lol I know that

 

[Schizotypalcel]

But I already get 200+ matches and guys just treat you like trash anyway so would it really make a difference?

Because you are on a app where every swipe is a validation boost for the other. You swipe and have everything good or personally told to you right on their profile. You are better off getting a hobby learning about someone flaws and all instead of taking a chance on a app where you are just used as another fuck buddy till they find someone with a better profile and matched interests.
With these apps flaws aren't expected due to looks and like i said, everything presented without them telling you only displayed.

 

[Stardust_]

Because you are on a app where every swipe is a validation boost for the other. You swipe and have everything good or personally told to you right on their profile. You are better off getting a hobby learning about someone flaws and all instead of taking a chance on a app where you are just used as another fuck buddy till they find someone with a better profile and matched interests.
With these apps flaws aren't expected due to looks and like i said, everything presented without them telling you only displayed.

I just feel like it’s difficult for everybody sometimes and no chance I want to change myself for a guy at all. It has to be accepting me for me now and then improving later

 

[ADAM]

nothing, another 80 years you will be in a grave with worms and centipedes.

im going to live 81 years from now to prove you wrong[i will probaly die at 50 since i take roids]

 

[Schizotypalcel]

I just feel like it’s difficult for everybody sometimes and no chance I want to change myself for a guy at all.

This is an ok mindset, but is there any ascension if you aren't working yourself out mentally for a guy that will finally treat you right? Or will you fall back into old ways and find someone with some sort of distaste for how you carry yourself because you don't want to change for someone that would change for you?

 

[Stardust_]

This is an ok mindset, but is there any ascension if you aren't working yourself out mentally for a guy that will finally treat you right? Or will you fall back into old ways and find someone with some sort of distaste for how you carry yourself because you don't want to change for someone that would change for you?

Why would I expect a man to change for me though that’s my point, I’d rather he accept the here and now, all of me and I think I’d be happier

 

[Schizotypalcel]

Why would I expect a man to change for me though that’s my point, I’d rather he accept the here and now, all of me and I think I’d be happier

I suppose you have a point.
I think when the time comes where you meet someone and change needs to happen for whatever reason you will.
But till then good luck.

Drop dating apps ideally also, they just take the litter out of the real world dating game. Finding someone who doesn't use that shit is ideal and can sprout a conversation in itself and their ideas on it. You can learn a lot by how they view them even if they do use them just by asking.

 

[97baHater]

It won't be the same it's night and day it's really fucking wierd

bih talking like she experienced ts

 

[Deleted Member 62079]

You’ll want more if you’re not lite by the end of the ascension. (Just don’t use social media to avoid this)

Life is considerably easier though in every regard

 

[Stardust_]

I suppose you have a point.
I think when the time comes where you meet someone and change needs to happen for whatever reason you will.
But till then good luck.

Drop dating apps ideally also, they just take the litter out of the real world dating game. Finding someone who doesn't use that shit is ideal and can sprout a conversation in itself and their ideas on it. You can learn a lot by how they view them even if they do use them just by asking.

Well I’m just 50/50 about this looksmaxxing thing because I don’t know if it’s body dysmorphia for me or if I should actually ascend but I feel like I’m harming others now

 

[Schizotypalcel]

Well I’m just 50/50 about this looksmaxxing thing because I don’t know if it’s body dysmorphia for me or if I should actually ascend but I feel like I’m harming others now

I think mental health comes first, if you have results doing things to better your looks it doesn't damage anyone unless you are putting down others doing so somehow.
Body dysmorphia or not, bettering your looks is not a bad thing unless it becomes an unhealthy obsession.

 

[Stardust_]

I think mental health comes first, if you have results doing things to better your looks it doesn't damage anyone unless you are putting down others doing so somehow.
Body dysmorphia or not, bettering your looks is not a bad thing unless it becomes an unhealthy obsession.

That’s true, I don’t want to put anyone down but I just don’t want to be extreme with it

 

[Stardust_]

I suppose you have a point.
I think when the time comes where you meet someone and change needs to happen for whatever reason you will.
But till then good luck.

Drop dating apps ideally also, they just take the litter out of the real world dating game. Finding someone who doesn't use that shit is ideal and can sprout a conversation in itself and their ideas on it. You can learn a lot by how they view them even if they do use them just by asking.

Well I can’t talk to guys outside I go to this autistic group because I want to connect with others and some guys in there are like 59 and talk about trains

 

[ADAM]

Well I can’t talk to guys outside I go to this autistic group because I want to connect with others and some guys in there are like 59 and talk about trains

Probably your looks match anyway

 

[Stardust_]

Probably your looks match anyway

No that guy is beyond weird I can’t deal with him