what should i do from now? (warning this might be some yap so dont complain)

[sawyer.]

i feel like i reached my max potienial (hmtn mabye) def mtn tho, and i feel like having looksmaxxing/bp as a big part of my life is a waste of time and is turning me more into a wierdo irl. (draining my nt) not to mention i go to the prison like school for a few months before returning to my regular school. I cant talk that much and the school is mostly just randoms and ther are other 20 super strict rules.

I was basiclly forced to quit my sport and i dont really find any video games fun so i feel like i have no hobbies.

i have been going to the gym for a few weeks tho but its kinda hard being skinny and doing this ( 140lbs 5'10) and im 15

idk i just feel kinda lost any advice (pls no trolling)

 

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If you spent all of this time and effort into changing/improving your appearance, and you feel like you reached the cap of that, it makes sense why you don't feel like you should keep draining yourself for no reason. It takes a lot of energy, time and money to do looksmaxxing 'correctly'.

In regards of the gym, you should try consider bulking instead of general weight loss. Not sure if that was your goal with the gym, but you'd be burning muscle if you're working out and not eat enough calories, for example. Bulking would allow your body to build muscle easier.

The next thing would be to work on your personality. Try reading more books, pick up an interesting hobby, etc. Are you saying you're struggling to find a hobby?

 

[sawyer.]

If you spent all of this time and effort into changing/improving your appearance, and you feel like you reached the cap of that, it makes sense why you don't feel like you should keep draining yourself for no reason. It takes a lot of energy, time and money to do looksmaxxing 'correctly'.

In regards of the gym, you should try consider bulking instead of general weight loss. Not sure if that was your goal with the gym, but you'd be burning muscle if you're working out and not eat enough calories, for example. Bulking would allow your body to build muscle easier.

The next thing would be to work on your personality. Try reading more books, pick up an interesting hobby, etc. Are you saying you're struggling to find a hobby?

yes i dont have a hobby at all

reading books is to boring for me i cant socialize at my school (cause i go to alternative school, if u dont know what this is looking it up would help)

the school acually sucks its so boring and sad everyday, idk what im going to do for the summer but my life is extreamely boring rn

regards to the gym im bulking rn cause i wanna put on muscle

 

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yes i dont have a hobby at all

reading books is to boring for me i cant socialize at my school (cause i go to alternative school, if u dont know what this is looking it up would help)

the school acually sucks its so boring and sad everyday, idk what im going to do for the summer but my life is extreamely boring rn

regards to the gym im bulking rn cause i wanna put on muscle

Most hobbies are not interesting at the start. I normally recommend books because it's one of the few free things people can do, e.g., pirating the books online, looking at free ebooks, going to the library, etc. Most other hobbies have a cost of entry.

In the ideal world, where you could be anyone you wanted, what kind of person would you be? If he someone that's charming? Smart? Educated? Funny? etc.

 

[sawyer.]

Most hobbies are not interesting at the start. I normally recommend books because it's one of the few free things people can do, e.g., pirating the books online, looking at free ebooks, going to the library, etc. Most other hobbies have a cost of entry.

In the ideal world, where you could be anyone you wanted, what kind of person would you be? If he someone that's charming? Smart? Educated? Funny? etc.

prob like a influencer that either has money or looks or fame with freinds

 

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prob like a influencer that either has money or looks or fame with freinds

Why don't you make your hobby be building up a social media presence then? Look into the analytics, create content for Instagram or YouTube or Twitch or whatever. See what's trending, see how to improve the content over time, etc.

 

[sawyer.]

Why don't you make your hobby be building up a social media presence then? Look into the analytics, create content for Instagram or YouTube or Twitch or whatever. See what's trending, see how to improve the content over time, etc.

i have no hobbies so what would i post? im not super good looking so i cant rely on that

this is waht i look like btw im 5'10 adn 15

 

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i have no hobbies so what would i post? im not super good looking so i cant rely on that

this is waht i look like btw im 5'10 adn 15View attachment 96278

Well, you would do stuff to make the content. (Using Instagram as an example) If you look at a bunch of Instagram models, they're not really 'interesting' per se. It's photos of them standing outside or with coffee cups or something. Make some skits for Reels. On TikTok, you could just do a bunch of trending sounds/topics. A lot of the content on there is kind of repetitive in nature.

 

[sawyer.]

Well, you would do stuff to make the content. (Using Instagram as an example) If you look at a bunch of Instagram models, they're not really 'interesting' per se. It's photos of them standing outside or with coffee cups or something. Make some skits for Reels. On TikTok, you could just do a bunch of trending sounds/topics. A lot of the content on there is kind of repetitive in nature.

yeha but i dont look good enough to post my face without real funny content

 

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yeha but i dont look good enough to post my face without real funny content

Well like I said you could do skits or something similar. Like, videos you act out as a character or something of that nature.

You don't have to do content creation if you don't want to, but you don't form hobbies by making up a million reasons why you shouldn't do it. If it's something you want to do, then you should do it. It's possible you're overthinking it. There's a lot of creators who post a variety of content that's not based solely off of appearance.

If you don't want to do funny content and just post videos of you swaying to some music or something, you're allowed to do that whether or not you're chad status of hotness.

 

[sawyer.]

Well like I said you could do skits or something similar. Like, videos you act out as a character or something of that nature.

You don't have to do content creation if you don't want to, but you don't form hobbies by making up a million reasons why you shouldn't do it. If it's something you want to do, then you should do it. It's possible you're overthinking it. There's a lot of creators who post a variety of content that's not based solely off of appearance.

If you don't want to do funny content and just post videos of you swaying to some music or something, you're allowed to do that whether or not you're chad status of hotness.

oki dont think i wasnt to post stuff i just lack the creativity drive and confiendece to do it tbh ig ill just go to the gym and bedrot all day