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Discussion What to do when girl has crush on u but seems careless about u

mogger111

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Like we were talking about girls and relanshionships "if u want other girls iam not stopping u, u can find a lot of girls eventually ." I said if i wanted other girls i would talk to them but i like to talk to u now. But then she says she is open towards relanshionsip not now cause she aint feeling strong emotions yet and that she likes me but treat this now as "we are just talking but maybe you could change that in future into something more but iam not guaranting anything" then she says "i dont even know if the relanshionsip is possible for me now what if it does not work" which caused me to feel doubt so i asked her for clear answer and she said she is open about it in future if she develops feelings...iam like man the fuck shut your ass up why do you say different things everytime ? Idk if i should even put my energy into this, should i get over this? I dont love her but i have strong crush on her after few weeks
 
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mogger111 said:
Like we were talking about girls and relanshionships "if u want other girls iam not stopping u, u can find a lot of girls eventually ." I said if i wanted other girls i would talk to them but i like to talk to u now. But then she says she is open towards relanshionsip not now cause she aint feeling strong emotions yet and that she likes me but treat this now as "we are just talking but maybe you could change that in future into something more but iam not guaranting anything" then she says "i dont even know if the relanshionsip is possible for me now" which caused me to feel doubt so i asked her for clear answer and she said she is open about it if she develops feelings...iam like man the fuck shut your n***a ass up idk if i should even put my energy into this, should i fuck this? I dont love her but i have strong crush on her after few weeks
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U make this up bookie
 
mogger111 said:
Yeah, she doesnt need to love me or be in relanshionsip to show clear signs of interests besides rare moments
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She might like you in a non romantic or non sexual way. Her saying she's not ready for a relationship right now is a very very classic way women turn down men. It's frustrating because it's misleading but she's telling you she won't enter a relationship with you so I wouldn't put anymore energy into her emotionally.
 
Randomized Shame said:
She might like you in a non romantic or non sexual way. Her saying she's not ready for a relationship right now is a very very classic way women turn down men. It's frustrating because it's misleading but she's telling you she won't enter a relationship with you so I wouldn't put anymore energy into her emotionally.
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She says everytime something different , but most often that she just dont have feelings for me right now enough for dating with me but would date me maybe later in future if it will change after more time getting to know each other, yeah maybe ... She definitely finds me hot tho physically at least i know that for sure.
 
N30N said:
Pretty sure that's happened to me before but you just have to leave it.
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It is hopeless ? Do u think like they aint sure they want u or they just like the attention? Hard to read when niga is bipolar like this. When do u think most girls starts to catch feelings ? Or its individual
 
mogger111 said:
I said if i wanted other girls i would talk to them but i like to talk to u now. But then she says she is open towards relanshionsip not now cause she aint feeling strong emotions yet and that she likes me but treat this now as "we are just talking but maybe you could change that in future into something more but iam not guaranting anything"
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move on, girls will really only love you if they are to really initiate their love and interest into you. I wasted 5 months with some frauded mtb bc of this shit.
 
osteochondromyxoma said:
move on, girls will really only love you if they are to really initiate their love and interest into you. I wasted 5 months with some frauded mtb bc of this shit.
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I feel like a cuck tbh when i was the one who initiated. Also i mog her into oblivion but , she has really good personality for me, thats why this sucks
 
you ask her out if she says no u ask her out again.Be low inhib and dgaf.like i did
 
mogger111 said:
Like we were talking about girls and relanshionships "if u want other girls iam not stopping u, u can find a lot of girls eventually ." I said if i wanted other girls i would talk to them but i like to talk to u now. But then she says she is open towards relanshionsip not now cause she aint feeling strong emotions yet and that she likes me but treat this now as "we are just talking but maybe you could change that in future into something more but iam not guaranting anything" then she says "i dont even know if the relanshionsip is possible for me now what if it does not work" which caused me to feel doubt so i asked her for clear answer and she said she is open about it in future if she develops feelings...iam like man the fuck shut your ass up why do you say different things everytime ? Idk if i should even put my energy into this, should i get over this? I dont love her but i have strong crush on her after few weeks
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Been there, move on

Randomized Shame said:
She might like you in a non romantic or non sexual way. Her saying she's not ready for a relationship right now is a very very classic way women turn down men. It's frustrating because it's misleading but she's telling you she won't enter a relationship with you so I wouldn't put anymore energy into her emotionally.
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☝️ Put this guy in the mods team asap @Dean
 
evilkunt said:
you ask her out if she says no u ask her out again.Be low inhib and dgaf.like i did
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iam always low inhib but i was TOO inhib and mad when i was talking about her with her , i have not find a woman , with same personality, values and humor like this for years. She is a virgin too and never had a boyfriend. Kinda sucks
 
mogger111 said:
iam always low inhib but i was TOO inhib and mad when i was talking about her with her , i have not find a woman , with same personality, values and humor like this for years. She is a virgin too and never had a boyfriend. Kinda sucks
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you care about her too much.The way to is not give a shit about them
 
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