what's the point of asking for advice if you're not going to take it

[nomi]

"idk...I can't do that" "but I like doing this" "but that's too hard" "i don't feel like doing that" "that's not going to help" ohmygod shut the fuck up and continue soaking your problems if you're not going to listen to what i'm saying

so you're going to ask for advice but cut me off every couple seconds to ask a question? not everyone is going to tell you what you wanna hear

why is talking to people so hard

 

[cl wannabe]

"idk...I can't do that" "but I like doing this" "but that's too hard" "i don't feel like doing that" "that's not going to help" ohmygod shut the fuck up and continue soaking your problems if you're not going to listen to what i'm saying

so you're going to ask for advice but cut me off every couple seconds to ask a question? not everyone is going to tell you what you wanna hear

why is talking to people so hard

em nigas talk just for talking, if they aint take it then ignore em mfs

 

[nomi]

em nigas talk just for talking, if they aint take it then ignore em mfs

I hate attention seeking people sm there's no point of asking for help if they're gonna force you to validate them

 

[cl wannabe]

I hate attention seeking people sm there's no point of asking for help if they're gonna force you to validate them

same, they should be executed

 

[Galvatron]

 

[SevenColorCrystalBall]

I hate attention seeking people sm there's no point of asking for help if they're gonna force you to validate them

Forcing people to validate you is a natural and based response tbh

 

[nomi]

Forcing people to validate you is a natural and based response tbh

wanting to get validated is fine, it helps with motivation to do better but constantly finding ways to force your way into getting validated without working on yourself is stupid. as in not wanting to do better so you resort to looking for people to normalize shitty decisions/unhealthy habits (or mental state in general)

i'm not going to make someone feel better about themselves when they're a horrible person

"yeah I know you like sexually assaulting people but things always get better, hopefully you won't do that anymore !! "
dramatic example but yeah in similar situations those type of people shouldn't be coddled into thinking what they're doing is normal

 

[SevenColorCrystalBall]

wanting to get validated is fine, it helps with motivation to do better but constantly finding ways to force your way into getting validated without working on yourself is stupid. as in not wanting to do better so you resort to looking for people to normalize shitty decisions/unhealthy habits (or mental state in general)

i'm not going to make someone feel better about themselves when they're a horrible person

"yeah I know you like sexually assaulting people but things always get better, hopefully you won't do that anymore !! "
dramatic example but yeah in similar situations those type of people shouldn't be coddled into thinking what they're doing is normal

Fair but its also as natural as looking for water, people just act like attention seeking is some horribly dysgenic and monstrous thing

 

[nomi]

people just act like attention seeking is some horribly dysgenic and monstrous thing

not rlly but it is annoying

 

[grey]

jeez lady

 

[miss larpette]

"idk...I can't do that" "but I like doing this" "but that's too hard" "i don't feel like doing that" "that's not going to help" ohmygod shut the fuck up and continue soaking your problems if you're not going to listen to what i'm saying

so you're going to ask for advice but cut me off every couple seconds to ask a question? not everyone is going to tell you what you wanna hear

why is talking to people so hard

 

[nomi]

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