What's the reasoning behind wanting to always be alone.

[mermicorn96]

When I'm around people I'm very funny and sociable, I don't have any problem talking with people or having friends and I admit it's fun in the moment, but I almost never want to talk to anyone and I hate hanging out, I only ever want to be alone (most of the time.) Why do I feel like this

 

[True Spaniard]

When I'm around people I'm very funny and sociable, I don't have any problem talking with people or having friends and I admit it's fun in the moment, but I almost never want to talk to anyone and I hate hanging out, I only ever want to be alone (most of the time.) Why do I feel like this

Youre prolly neuro divergent, this also happens to me tho im not very sociable tbh only with my friends

 

[emeraldpill]

Same idk

 

[mermicorn96]

Youre prolly neuro divergent, this also happens to me tho im not very sociable tbh only with my friends

idk its so weird, when I'm actually hanging out or at school I'm super outgoing and likable. When I come back home I enjoy being alone so much more and you would have to drag me out of my house to hangout with someone. Honestly just max out confidence and fake it till u make it

 

[Angel]

embarrassment and insecurity

 

[mermicorn96]

Same idk

atleast we aren't alone in ts

 

[mermicorn96]

embarrassment and insecurity

No I dont really get either of those. I js like peace and quiet and being alone in my thoughts.

 

[True Spaniard]

idk its so weird, when I'm actually hanging out or at school I'm super outgoing and likable. When I come back home I enjoy being alone so much more and you would have to drag me out of my house to hangout with someone. Honestly just max out confidence and fake it till u make it

Btw ive read what you said on other threads, the fact that youre good looking and youre self aware of that just makes you more prone to be out going bc you feel more confident, but once youre on your house and alone you cant fool yourself or your neuronal connections, at the end of the day its all about that, telling you this with total security bc i feel the same, im good looking and i can be likable around ppl i know but once i get home i cant deceive myself no more

 

[mermicorn96]

Btw ive read what you said on other threads, the fact that youre good looking and youre self aware of that just makes you more prone to be out going bc you feel more confident, but once youre on your house and alone you cant fool yourself or your neuronal connections, at the end of the day its all about that, telling you this with total security bc i feel the same, im good looking and i can be likable around ppl i know but once i get home i cant deceive myself no more

Well flip. It is what it is. I do think being like this has upsides aswell tho. You become more emotionally intelligent and independent

 

[LeoK]

I’ve been dealing with this for so long. It just doesn’t get better for me it could be neurodivergence or insecurity , social anxiety

 

[LeoK]

People are always nice to me. It’s just that when I first meet someone I struggle with making eye contact I also just rather be by myself tbh

 

[True Spaniard]

Well flip. It is what it is. I do think being like this has upsides aswell tho. You become more emotionally intelligent and independent

Yeah obv being nd has also a lot of advantages, i can concentrate on a topic i like for a lot more than the average person f.e, and the ones you also mentioned

 

[True Spaniard]

People are always nice to me. It’s just that when I first meet someone I struggle with making eye contact I also just rather be by myself tbh

Dw its normal