Whats worse having a good relationship then a bad breakup or being an incel for that period

[Anna]

I mean like, lets say u have a 2 year relationship then an extremely painful breakup

Or be an incel for the 2 year period

Who is worse off in the end?

 

[Anna]

@hazyfuture

 

[Deleted Member 88313]

I mean like, lets say u have a 2 year relationship then an extremely painful breakup

Or be an incel for the 2 year period

Who is worse off in the end?

incel

 

[Anna]

incel

Do u think it makes a difference in the end?

Do u think the pain/loneliness can be compared?

 

[emeraldpill]

If you can choose then it’s not incel

 

[Deleted Member 88313]

Do u think it makes a difference in the end?

Do u think the pain/loneliness can be compared?

if you never get in a relationship it is lonely but not as painful because it is just the absence of something not losing something

 

[Anna]

If you can choose then it’s not incel

I am not talking about myself here

I mean a truecel in this scenario

 

[emeraldpill]

I am not talking about myself here

I mean a truecel in this scenario

Relationship of course

 

[Deleted Member 88313]

I mean like, lets say u have a 2 year relationship then an extremely painful breakup

Or be an incel for the 2 year period

Who is worse off in the end?

after the breakup can you get in another relationship?

 

[Anna]

if you never get in a relationship it is lonely but not as painful because it is just the absence of something not losing something

Exactly, I have been wondering if the memories u get/good times u have with someone in a relationship is even worth it if u know u will break up eventually

 

[Anna]

after the breakup can you get in another relationship?

Im not talking abt the aftermath lol, i just mean in the 2 year period

 

[perculez]

1st one cause its gonna take a long time to get over

 

[Deleted Member 88313]

Exactly, I have been wondering if the memories u get/good times u have with someone in a relationship is even worth it if u know u will break up eventually

I think it’s fine if you end on good terms and you don’t still love them and want them back
there are people I’m not friends with anymore but that doesn’t mean I wish we were never friends I still appreciate the memories

 

[</3]

I mean like, lets say u have a 2 year relationship then an extremely painful breakup

Or be an incel for the 2 year period

Who is worse off in the end?

probably the 2 year relationship, youll learn a lot

 

[Anna]

probably the 2 year relationship, youll learn a lot

i remember when u used to rep