I feel like "force" is kind of strong. Just because they get upset and whine about it, it doesn't mean you're "forced" to do anything. It's nice/socially encouraged to address people the way they want to be addressed but you can technically call anyone anything you want any time you want.
The consequences are primarily social, and if you're under the assumption these people have an agenda or are trying to groom people into doing something why would you be concerned about the social consequences?
If I think some dude is a pervert I'm not gonna be nice to him Lol