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Why am I such an outsider in everything I do? Even here jfl

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like genuinely i don’t fit in anywhere!!
not at school, not at work, not with my friends, not even on this forum where we’re all supposed to be the same kind of losers (don’t mind me I’m talking shit) jfl!!

i looksmax, i post, i comment and i still feel like i’m watching from outside the glass. anyone else or is it just me!!??? wtf is wrong with my brain omfg
 
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like genuinely i don’t fit in anywhere!!
not at school, not at work, not with my friends, not even on this forum where we’re all supposed to be the same kind of losers (don’t mind me I’m talking shit) jfl!!

i looksmax, i post, i comment and i still feel like i’m watching from outside the glass. anyone else or is it just me!!??? wtf is wrong with my brain omfg
n***a u fit in here pretty well

Just ur own personal issues and insecurities pouring over
 
like genuinely i don’t fit in anywhere!!
not at school, not at work, not with my friends, not even on this forum where we’re all supposed to be the same kind of losers (don’t mind me I’m talking shit) jfl!!

i looksmax, i post, i comment and i still feel like i’m watching from outside the glass. anyone else or is it just me!!??? wtf is wrong with my brain omfg
dw i think u fit in enough
 
like genuinely i don’t fit in anywhere!!
not at school, not at work, not with my friends, not even on this forum where we’re all supposed to be the same kind of losers (don’t mind me I’m talking shit) jfl!!

i looksmax, i post, i comment and i still feel like i’m watching from outside the glass. anyone else or is it just me!!??? wtf is wrong with my brain omfg
but i get what u mean, i'm relatively new to the forum and i feel like sometimes i'm not part of certain things or i'm not good enough for these people.
 
but i get what u mean, i'm relatively new to the forum and i feel like sometimes i'm not part of certain things or i'm not good enough for these people.
Yessss exactly and it’s weird cuz like these are literally js random guys on the internet!! but i still feel like im not measuring up to them somehow!! maybe it has to do with my abused dog personality!!

like why do i care what a guy named “chudmaxxer2004” thinks of me😭
 
Yessss exactly and it’s weird cuz like these are literally js random guys on the internet!! but i still feel like im not measuring up to them somehow!! maybe it has to do with my abused dog personality!!

like why do i care what a guy named “chudmaxxer2004” thinks of me😭
bc ur such a sub 5 loser that this is the most u can do in regards to socializing (my situation)
 
Nah bro i can fix my mindset all i want but if the vibe ain’t there it ain’t there!! Maybe im js too low iq or ND
Just ND

i had the same issue but realized it was just in my head and all my insecurities and shit from the years piling over

just force ur self to be social to everyone and eventually u will learn
 
bc ur such a sub 5 loser that this is the most u can do in regards to socializing (my situation)
Prbly true but atleast i’m here trying instead of pretending i got it all figured out
 
I'm not calling u a sub 5 loser btw im calling myself one, this comment is my own personal experience
Prbly true but atleast i’m here trying instead of pretending i got it all figured out
 
like genuinely i don’t fit in anywhere!!
not at school, not at work, not with my friends, not even on this forum where we’re all supposed to be the same kind of losers (don’t mind me I’m talking shit) jfl!!

i looksmax, i post, i comment and i still feel like i’m watching from outside the glass. anyone else or is it just me!!??? wtf is wrong with my brain omfg
no i feel the exact same way but also its probably just in ur head because u seem to fit in here
 
Just ND

i had the same issue but realized it was just in my head and all my insecurities and shit from the years piling over

just force ur self to be social to everyone and eventually u will learn
Yea fr maybe it is js in my head piling up over the years. and i noticed the same with pregab honestly, i actually feel like a normal person when i’m on it which is crazy because it makes me realize how much anxiety was holding me back the whole time
 
Yea fr maybe it is js in my head piling up over the years. and i noticed the same with pregab honestly, i actually feel like a normal person when i’m on it which is crazy because it makes me realize how much anxiety was holding me back the whole time
It really is ur anxiety and brain prewiring to avoid social situations because of fear of rejection it makes it seem so real

U have to force ur self into social interactions daily for months to start feeling normal without the pre gab

Its okay to mess up and look like a dumb ass at first nobody has 100% perfect interactions
 
It really is ur anxiety and brain prewiring to avoid social situations because of fear of rejection it makes it seem so real

U have to force ur self into social interactions daily for months to start feeling normal without the pre gab

Its okay to mess up and look like a dumb ass at first nobody has 100% perfect interactions
Ur right but easier said than done bro, forcing urself into social situations when your brain is literally wired to dread them isn’t just a willpower thing
 
Ur right but easier said than done bro, forcing urself into social situations when your brain is literally wired to dread them isn’t just a willpower thing
It really is a willpower thing n***a i was in ur position literally shaking sweating just to talk to other people questioning if i even should and not following through with it cause i was too scared you just have to force ur self it becomes easier with practice

fall on ur face a couple times and eventually u will learn
 
curse of being low energy + not intriguing enough for others to notice. i suffer from it as well. not much to do, if you want to "be yourself" all the time. you have to jester a bit and get someone to notice you, and after a certain period of time, you can fall back to your normal state and they'll be fine with it
 
I feel like that everywhere too. Like I don’t feel like people hate me or anything, just that I’m not included
 

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