Why can I not just have guy friends without them asking me out

[nihilist]

deaduzz every time I make a male friend I make sure to not flirt or do anything but make a small convo and they always turn it sexual or something like take for example made this guy friend for a few weeks he was sexual a few times turned it down i help him form into the looks he wants he asks me to be his gf I reject still friends but I can tell Hes butthurt don’t talk for a few days i get drunk and Hes texting me saying idc about him and obviously Im gna make him feel better so I even offered to date him and I said I loved him out the kindness of my heart and now I’m the one who’s the bad guy

 

[evilkunt]

deaduzz

take a huge guess oh forgot ur a 15 yr old clueless kid

 

[nihilist]

take a huge guess oh forgot ur a 15 yr old clueless kid

but I just want friends

 

[evilkunt]

but I just want friends

get girl friends

 

[Ineedlooksmaxxing]

I even offered to date him and I said I loved him out the kindness of my heart and now I’m the one who’s the bad guy

Yes this is bad and just out right throwing yourself and him under the bus

 

[nihilist]

get girl friends

I do

 

[nihilist]

Yes this is bad and just out right throwing yourself and him under the bus

Um how did I throw us under the bus Hes weird now and I don’t care what people think of me on a looksmaxxing forum it’s online

 

[Decay]

You’re a fucking idiot holy shit

 

[Ineedlooksmaxxing]

Um how did I throw us under the bus Hes weird now and I don’t care what people think of me on a looksmaxxing forum it’s online

you take offense to everything said, i'm saying it's a bad thing to get into something that will end bad, u guys don't have mutual feelings for each other he feels one way you feel another. It will end bad. And guess what u are now the "bad guy" bc u put yourself in that position when u could've just said no.

 

[Darkeningstar]

What does a male gain from being friends with a female? Generally not much

 

[nihilist]

you take offense to everything said, i'm saying it's a bad thing to get into something that will end bad, u guys don't have mutual feelings for each other he feels one way you feel another. It will end bad. And guess what u are now the "bad guy" bc u put yourself in that position when u could've just said no.

Cuz you obviously mean offense what??? when he asked me to be his gf I did say no i said “we both know we would be better friends” and that was the end of it

 

[Ineedlooksmaxxing]

Cuz you obviously mean offense what??? when he asked me to be his gf I did say no i said “we both know we would be better friends” and that was the end of it

U are going on ignore i think.

 

[nihilist]

What does a male gain from being friends with a female? Generally not much

Yeah but our whole relationship was me helping him form his looks which apparently I made him a bad person and changed peoples opinion on him which it was his fault 4 listening to me

 

[nihilist]

U are going on ignore i think.

Ok it’s a forum who cares put me on ignore n***a LOL??

 

[nihilist]

You’re a fucking idiot holy shit

no not rly Im just figuring out people

 

[Decay]

no not rly Im just figuring out people

It takes intelligence to do that.

 

[nihilist]

It takes intelligence to do that.

Ok I finished 9th grade early and I’m studying cs right now for college Im book smart but not like intelligent to understand people or environments mb for trying ?

 

[slopslinger]

ugh u sound like such an energy vampire, keep it simple and consistent. NO MIXED MESSAGES!

 

[nihilist]

ugh u sound like such an energy vampire, keep it simple and consistent. NO MIXED MESSAGES!

What ru talking about i tried to be nice while not trying to give off Im flirting and it didn’t work

 

[slopslinger]

What ru talking about i tried to be nice while not trying to give off Im flirting and it didn’t work

sounds like you've got it figured then, gl