u can be a total slut becuz u think it's what is aesthetically pleasin n not want men to take that as an invite. im married so i dress like showin ankles is a sin BUT i know women who wanna dress slutty but don't want men to assume that it then meant it was ok to assume that that random guy then had a right to her body. women who do stuff n then complain ab men starin r rare-- theyre chronically online tiktokers who think consensual sex is r**e if they end up regretting it later. actual women who dress like that r aware theyre gonna be stared at. but they still don't want men to be like 'hey baby, let's fuck!'. there's a difference imo