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Why do I get absolutely no male attention irl

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wowowowowowowowowowoww said:
I've never been asked out or confessed to by a guy... Is it because no guys find me attractive? 😢 Or could it be something in my behavior? Pls give me some advice because it's really lowering my self esteem 😒
(I'm 14 yr old female if that matters)
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because ur chopped
 
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Guys are afraid of rejection, women can be real bitches and some men get ruined by a bad experience with a woman, women aren't usually direct with the way they hurt people they do it in a sneaky way and men know this so they won't approach.
 
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Randomized Shame said:
I mean, I'm not sure. There's not a lot of information to go off of, and nobody here knows you in real life. You should be asking your friends or family or people who know you.
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Yea ur right.. I'm asking for common reasons why guys wouldn't be interested in a girl tho, are they any behaviors that girls do that make guys stop being Interested in them?
 
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wowowowowowowowowowoww said:
Yea ur right.. I'm asking for common reasons why guys wouldn't be interested in a girl tho, are they any behaviors that girls do that make guys stop being Interested in them?
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Usually gross things like farting, belching, wiping boogers on your sleeves,chewing with the mouth open are an instant turn off.
 
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wowowowowowowowowowoww said:
Yea ur right.. I'm asking for common reasons why guys wouldn't be interested in a girl tho, are they any behaviors that girls do that make guys stop being Interested in them?
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It depends what kind of attention you want from men.

In middle and high school, there isn't much you can do because they're environments primarily focused on studying, not socialization. In regards of optimizing your social chances, you would need to be apart of an after school activity or club, or to have an activity you consistently do on the weekend. Jimmy from school might not be approaching you because you only have 15 minutes between classes and you two don't share a club together.

If I were 14 again, I would just focus on my studies, not going to lie. Being approached and all of this stuff means literally nothing at your age. If you don't want to just focus on your studies, which I think is fair for a kid, I would look at what you deem aesthetical flaws in your appearance and see if there's anything you can do in the meantime and see if that helps. If you have acne, for example, I would just try to focus on treating your acne and see if it increases your chances of being approached.
 
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I'm gonna drop something here that you might not like or anyone else for that matter but whatever, I looked at your photos and not knowing you you dont look approachable, you look like you might bite somebody's head off at anytime, you're far from ugly, you just have a snobbish look to your face, if I met you on the street a quick assumption about you would be that you're a mean person, this is probably all it is, you just dont look approachable.

You could probably remedy this by smiling more, and when you talk to people smile more ( Idont know if you do now because I only have the pictures to go by).
 
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johnvee84 said:
I'm gonna drop something here that you might not like or anyone else for that matter but whatever, I looked at your photos and not knowing you you dont look approachable, you look like you might bite somebody's head off at anytime, you're far from ugly, you just have a snobbish look to your face, if I met you on the street a quick assumption about you would be that you're a mean person, this is probably all it is, you just dont look approachable.

You could probably remedy this by smiling more, and when you talk to people smile more ( Idont know if you do now because I only have the pictures to go by).
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I smile a lot, I just don't in the pictures cuz I feel it makes me look silly 😭 people know me as the funny/weird/autistic girl so I don't think they think I'm snobbish at all 🥲
 
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wowowowowowowowowowoww said:
I've never been asked out or confessed to by a guy... Is it because no guys find me attractive? 😢 Or could it be something in my behavior? Pls give me some advice because it's really lowering my self esteem 😒
(I'm 14 yr old female if that matters)
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its not because ur 'too hot and theyre afraid to approach u' like some comments are saying, ur 14
in reality its probably if ur quiet / u don't talk a lot.
 
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here’s some advice I’m going to give you two task and I guarantee if you aren’t a sub five foid you will get attention. NTMaxxing is typically a cope but since you’re a foid you need to be social. Two, skincare or makeup you either need to get good skin or start frauding your skin with makeup you should get good with this.
 
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Do you have any tattoos?
 
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