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Why do i hate public crowded spaces and why do i hate people

gaviniguess

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Today my school had a game and j was invited and decided to go despite hating crowds and being perceived by the general public but I went and got ice cream and randomly it just hit "you didn't pay you could just go home" and I did but why did I randomly just get sad out of nowhere and want to go home any other person would be enjoying it and cheering for the team but all I could do is stare at the game and omfg they had me on the jumbotron I just put my head down
 
Today my school had a game and j was invited and decided to go despite hating crowds and being perceived by the general public but I went and got ice cream and randomly it just hit "you didn't pay you could just go home" and I did but why did I randomly just get sad out of nowhere and want to go home any other person would be enjoying it and cheering for the team but all I could do is stare at the game and omfg they had me on the jumbotron I just put my head down
How old are you? If you are an adult, then you are underdeveloped
 
I relate but not really Im pissed rn
 
Today my school had a game and j was invited and decided to go despite hating crowds and being perceived by the general public but I went and got ice cream and randomly it just hit "you didn't pay you could just go home" and I did but why did I randomly just get sad out of nowhere and want to go home any other person would be enjoying it and cheering for the team but all I could do is stare at the game and omfg they had me on the jumbotron I just put my head down
avoiding people stopps shit like that
 
Are you wasting your life if you hate social outings you still can have a job and be successful just make yourself as invisible as possible and
Yeah I don’t want to do that, lol. It’s over.
 
Today my school had a game and j was invited and decided to go despite hating crowds and being perceived by the general public but I went and got ice cream and randomly it just hit "you didn't pay you could just go home" and I did but why did I randomly just get sad out of nowhere and want to go home any other person would be enjoying it and cheering for the team but all I could do is stare at the game and omfg they had me on the jumbotron I just put my head down
Don't sweat it. A lot of people don't like stupid games.
 
Today my school had a game and j was invited and decided to go despite hating crowds and being perceived by the general public but I went and got ice cream and randomly it just hit "you didn't pay you could just go home" and I did but why did I randomly just get sad out of nowhere and want to go home any other person would be enjoying it and cheering for the team but all I could do is stare at the game and omfg they had me on the jumbotron I just put my head down
Social anxiety, I used to have it so bad but I think choosing to do things that you enjoy helps it and realizing that your life is legit a 2 second memory to other people. if they judge you that is on them, ppl will judge you no matter what so let it happen . And everybody’s perception of you is entirely different of who u rlly are, you can’t control how other people think. I used to get so caught up on what people thought of me that I missed out on so many things and I realized how pointless that was and i didn’t get to enjoy the things I liked.
 
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Social anxiety, I used to have it so bad but I think choosing to do things that you enjoy helps it and realizing that your life is legit a 2 second memory to other people. if they judge you that is on them, ppl will judge you no matter what so let it happen . And everybody’s perception of you is entirely different of who u rlly are, you can’t control how other people think. I used to get so caught up on what people thought of me that I missed out on so many things and I realized how pointless that was and i missed out on so many opportunities.
Yea I might be overthinking because of the past
 
Hey now, this isn't a very supportive environment!! Let the man share his feelings!
 
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And it's in fucking off topic you say this everytjme but it's I off topic off it's not to do with looksmaxxing
N**ga it gets to a point when ur on a forum complaining about every single thing in your life.
Remember when u was complaining about not losing weight on someone’s thread about their recovery and struggles with an eating disorder? Maybe stop wallowing in a pool of self pity and you’ll progress lmaoo
 
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N**ga it gets to a point when ur on a forum complaining about every single thing in your life.
Remember when u was complaining about not losing weight on someone’s thread about their recovery and struggles with an eating disorder? Maybe stop wallowing in a pool of self pity and you’ll progress lmaoo
But you don't have to look at it, if I'm venting too much I won't but you don't have to look at all it's your choice to click on it notice how I stopped talking about my personal life on other threads I only do it on my own it's because I can say what I want on my posts and it's your choice to look or ignore
 
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N**ga it gets to a point when ur on a forum complaining about every single thing in your life.
Remember when u was complaining about not losing weight on someone’s thread about their recovery and struggles with an eating disorder? Maybe stop wallowing in a pool of self pity and you’ll progress lmaoo
And I already apologized for that and I haven't even mentioned weight in so long I just use the off topic feature because with looksmaxxing people say really weird things and terminology here I don't understand but I see other people tall about different things so I do the same
 
But you don't have to look at it, if I'm venting too much I won't but you don't have to look at all it's your choice to click on it notice how I stopped talking about my personal life on other threads I only do it on my own it's because I can say what I want on my posts and it's your choice to look or ignore
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Today my school had a game and j was invited and decided to go despite hating crowds and being perceived by the general public but I went and got ice cream and randomly it just hit "you didn't pay you could just go home" and I did but why did I randomly just get sad out of nowhere and want to go home any other person would be enjoying it and cheering for the team but all I could do is stare at the game and omfg they had me on the jumbotron I just put my head down
its natural to hate crowds mate
humans were never supposed to live in a high population density like this

also , heres what to do for now :
workout a little , read the bible , find some good songs , ask me if you want some song recommendations.
 
oh? , like you're a man for lashing out on some kid who's got issues?
how about you learn to criticize like a real man? , instead of being vague as a bitch.

instead of picking on strangers to make you feel better about yerself
You're 32 n***a go take care of your family or sum arguing with teenagers online, pathetic bitch
 
Do you have social anxiety, are you agoraphobic, are you thinking about what other people are thinking about you and constantly being worried about being judged? Bro, you need to start small then and move on from there. Instead of avoiding those situations, just run with it
 
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Do you have social anxiety, are you agoraphobic, are you thinking about what other people are thinking about you and constantly being worried about being judged? Bro, you need to start small then and move on from there. Instead of avoiding those situations, just run with it
I do have that but yes and I'll start doing that like trying to block it out thanks for the advice
 
oh? , like you're a man for lashing out on some kid who's got issues?
how about you learn to criticize like a real man? , instead of being vague as a bitch.

instead of picking on strangers to make you feel better about yerself
fr stop being so negative, he sounds really negati - oh - oh right, I forgot for a second this is a forum with with some people who just do that all day.
 
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But I mean, prob 97bahater is right as well, cause like assuming your not that attractive (idk what u look like whoever posted this) you'd have negative feedback and so you brain would ofc avoid social situations? idk I'm not an expert
Idk what I am
 
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fr stop being so negative, he sounds really negati - oh - oh right, I forgot for a second this is a forum with with some people who just do that all day.
I alr just told them to delete my account I don't know any forums but I choose to ask these type of questions because some people give good advice or support but it's mostly weirdos so I don't wanna be here
 
I alr just told them to delete my account I don't know any forums but I choose to ask these type of questions because some people give good advice or support but it's mostly weirdos so I don't wanna be here
That’s almost like it’s the whole point. Ofc it’s gonna be mostly weirdos, it’s people trying to improve their looks bc they’re trying to be treated better by society after realizing being ugly is shit. You simply don’t wanna be here bc people are telling you straight up and aren’t validating you like u want. Take action to change your life
 
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That’s almost like it’s the whole point. Ofc it’s gonna be mostly weirdos, it’s people trying to improve their looks bc they’re trying to be treated better by society after realizing being ugly is shit. You simply don’t wanna be here bc people are telling you straight up and aren’t validating you like u want. Take action to change your life
I don't want validation
 
go to the Paddocks, drink beers, So Teeny; Rodger that, Pry viktory from your hands. Harass, shoot Clay pidgeons with hutching Bolts. it's very simple.
 

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