Why does my mom have such fragile masculinity

[Tear]

I bought a watch for cheaper and in the description it said “for women” but I cross checked everything and made sure it was the same model and it’s literally unisex and my mother had a huge tantrum about it.

She also stole my dad’s pink shirts (they were salmon colored) and threw them out.

I low-key cant buy any looksmaxxing products until Im out of the house because then she’ll have a huge tantrum about it.

 

[Tear]

One time she threw out black jeans SHE bought because she thought it was going to make us goth

 

[h_7]

your parent's lowkey an iqlet

 

[Tear]

your parent's lowkey an iqlet

Nah shes smart. Just book smart. And shes partly messed up because of her dad

 

[h_7]

Nah shes smart. Just book smart. And shes partly messed up because of her dad

mb i meant eqlet


sorry about that

 

[junebug]

I bought a watch for cheaper and in the description it said “for women” but I cross checked everything and made sure it was the same model and it’s literally unisex and my mother had a huge tantrum about it.

She also stole my dad’s pink shirts (they were salmon colored) and threw them out.

I low-key cant buy any looksmaxxing products until Im out of the house because then she’ll have a huge tantrum about it.

my mom was mad because I wanted this type of wallet,

as opposed to something like this:

She deemed the former "too masculine"

It's a fucking wallet.

 

[batluvr158]

Nah shes smart. Just book smart. And shes partly messed up because of her dad

she lacks emotional intelligence, generational trauma definitely

 

[Tear]

my mom was mad because I wanted this type of wallet,
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as opposed to something like this:
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She deemed the former "too masculine"

It's a fucking wallet.

Oh my goodness

No I was literally talking about getting a new wallet (because mines Velcro rn and it’s kind of loud) and I was joking about making sure it didn’t say “for women”

 

[Tear]

she lacks emotional intelligence, generational trauma definitely

For sure. She is wasian and I never really liked my grandpa. Hes white but would tell her that she was ugly and that she was more pleasant with makeup on and threatened to disown her if she tried going Stanford which is where she was trying to go.

I also heard about this one story where he took floss out of the trashcan and yelled at her for using too much floss

 

[giga.mia]

my mom was mad because I wanted this type of wallet,
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as opposed to something like this:
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She deemed the former "too masculine"

It's a fucking wallet.

Ridiculous
What’s up with this phenomenon of parents with this fragility

 

[batluvr158]

For sure. She is wasian and I never really liked my grandpa. Hes white but would tell her that she was ugly and that she was more pleasant with makeup on and threatened to disown her if she tried going Stanford which is where she was trying to go.

I also heard about this one story where he took floss out of the trashcan and yelled at her for using too much floss

i have a similar situation with my own mother and my grandmother (eqlets), best thing to do is try to get them into therapy ngl, or cut them off

 

[Tear]

nah she would never go to therapy. I think that’s the reason I want to be financially Independent so much right now.

I still love my mom but shes gotta fix some of her issues. Shes nice but shes said some really terrible things to me I’ll never forget

 

[batluvr158]

nah she would never go to therapy. I think that’s the reason I want to be financially Independent so much right now.

I still love my mom but shes gotta fix some of her issues. Shes nice but shes said some really terrible things to me I’ll never forget

I kinda get it, u def need some space and should try moving out at some point

 

[Tear]

I kinda get it, u def need some space and should try moving out at some point

Yeah. It’s weird because I always see guys getting super along with their mom and I feel strange because I feel like I’m a bad son for not getting along as well with mine.

Still better than having a “boy mom” though.

 

[junebug]

Ridiculous
What’s up with this phenomenon of parents with this fragility

she hates the way I wear my socks because it's too "manly". I give up

 

[Tear]

she hates the way I wear my socks because it's too "manly". I give up

What.

I can’t even picture how a guy wears socks vs a women.

 

[giga.mia]

What.

I can’t even picture how a guy wears socks vs a women.

Fr since when did that ever have gender roles lmfao

 

[negativ]

Nah shes smart. Just book smart. And shes partly messed up because of her dad

You will.come.to realize she's neither book smart or street smart