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[Deleted Member 76483]

I get complimented way more often on my appearance and I get one comment negatively and it upsets me way more how does that work

 

[rancid]

idk

 

[Deleted Member 76483]

idk

Thanks bud

 

[anberllin]

I get complimented way more often on my appearance and I get one comment negatively and it upsets me way more how does that work

bc it’s probably a comment that you feel is true. you probably spend your time thinking about it and that’s why it effects you so much. but if more ppl compliment than not i wouldn’t listen to one bad comment

 

[Deleted Member 76483]

bc it’s probably a comment that you feel is true. you probably spend your time thinking about it and that’s why it effects you so much. but if more ppl compliment than not i wouldn’t listen to one bad comment

That makes sense, but this one random chick Ive known for three days called me ugly out of nowhere could she be joking? I get called attractive more often but its brutal.

 

[anberllin]

That makes sense, but this one random chick Ive known for three days called me ugly out of nowhere could she be joking? I get called attractive more often but its brutal.

she most likely said that to rage bait you, that or she’s trying to be mean in a flirty way

 

[Deleted Member 76483]

she most likely said that to rage bait you, that or she’s trying to be mean in a flirty way

Lets hope so

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

When you get a bad comment just delude yourself into the old good comments and be happy

 

[Deleted Member 76483]

When you get a bad comment just delude yourself into the old good comments and be happy

Thats what im doing, works wonders

 

[Deleted Member 76483]

B

 

[wildfrost11]

because making an unsolicited negative comment about someone is rude so its normal you got offended, doesnt necessarily mean u are insecure but it could add to it

 

[0das0ky0]

I get complimented way more often on my appearance and I get one comment negatively and it upsets me way more how does that work

Maybe deep down you know the people complimenting you are not fully telling the truth

 

[Deleted Member 76483]

Maybe deep down you know the people complimenting you are not fully telling the truth

Thanks, yeah that used to be true. I just dont see it being true anymore after IRL experiences Ive had. I just dont understand why she said it

 

[Deleted Member 76483]

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[Deleted Member 76483]

she most likely said that to rage bait you, that or she’s trying to be mean in a flirty way

I infact fact checked today and she said she was joking and looking away whilst blushing so lets get it