women give me headache

[Deleted member 49549]

I need to stop calling her everyday

she's been getting into mini arguments with her parents

and I say like along the lines of nothing you can really do so just detach yourself from the emotional aspect of it for a second and focus about the task and how fast you need to do it to escape it.

try to give her a new perspective to look at it

like she just had to take the dogs out and starting crying

like if you do something so easy wrong just expect something to be said about it.

you already know it is coming so just ignore it once it does happen

or just do it right in the first place

then she said "you don't get it" when I have been through shit too

but like c'mon girl you just got to take out the dogs

not really an issue if your parents said you did it wrong because you realistically did, like she only let them out for 30 seconds and took them back inside once she seen that they didn't shit right away...

eugh shits exhausting

guys give me some High T music to listen

 

[Kaari]

I need to stop calling her everyday

she's been getting into mini arguments with her parents

and I say like along the lines of nothing you can really do so just detach yourself from the emotional aspect of it for a second and focus about the task and how fast you need to do it to escape it.

try to give her a new perspective to look at it

like she just had to take the dogs out and starting crying

like if you do something so easy wrong just expect something to be said about it.

you already know it is coming so just ignore it once it does happen

or just do it right in the first place

then she said "you don't get it" when I have been through shit too

but like c'mon girl you just got to take out the dogs

not really an issue if your parents said you did it wrong because you realistically did, like she only let them out for 30 seconds and took them back inside once she seen that they didn't shit right away...

eugh shits exhausting

guys give me some High T music to listen

Look man, I’ve been through similar stuff. At the end of the day they love drama man, sadly it’s a headache which comes with the territory.

I can provide you some high T music as well if you want, my suggestions might be cagefuel to others though lol.

 

[Clone]

 

[Saint cloUder]

kys misogynist

 

[Deleted member 49549]

my suggestions might be cagefuel to others though lol.

I appreciate it man, I'm open to listening to new types of music

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

That is my biggest pet peeve. Had a friend in school who constantly whined Abt having to clean her cat's litter box and the fights she would get into with her mom Abt it. Like ... If those r the "big fights" u get into at home then consider yourself lucky. And cleaning the litter box is on the same level of letting the dogs out it's literally seconds to a few minutes of your life suck it up

 

[BimaxLaser]

Fakecel fuck you

 

[Deleted member 49549]

kys misogynist

I love women

f****t

 

[Saint cloUder]

I love women

f****t

die

 

[Deleted member 49549]

That is my biggest pet peeve. Had a friend in school who constantly whined Abt having to clean her cat's litter box and the fights she would get into with her mom Abt it. Like ... If those r the "big fights" u get into at home then consider yourself lucky. And cleaning the litter box is on the same level of letting the dogs out it's literally seconds to a few minutes of your life suck it up

nah fr

but I can understand how simple shit like that can get exaggerated with mental disorders

like I'm not sure if this is relatable any but she is Bi-polar and borderline and so was my mom so I already know how to tread around these types of personalities even though I would rather not (she is perfect in every other aspect besides that so It's alright ((for the moment at least))

anyway you just want to basically just bomb them with "everything is okay and it's not your fault" bullshit and then be avoidant for about 30 minutes and then they will talk to you and then love bomb you

it's a very predictable game but it is exhausting


but they take things way too personally and then way too harsh

 

[Kaari]

anyway you just want to basically just bomb them with "everything is okay and it's not your fault" bullshit and then be avoidant for about 30 minutes and then they will talk to you and then love bomb you

it's a very predictable game but it is exhausting

Heh, you figured out the meta, I feel you on that.

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

nah fr

but I can understand how simple shit like that can get exaggerated with mental disorders

like I'm not sure if this is relatable any but she is Bi-polar and borderline and so was my mom so I already know how to tread around these types of personalities even though I would rather not (she is perfect in every other aspect besides that so It's alright ((for the moment at least))

anyway you just want to basically just bomb them with "everything is okay and it's not your fault" bullshit and then be avoidant for about 30 minutes and then they will talk to you and then love bomb you

it's a very predictable game but it is exhausting

Ahh shit I know what u mean. My best friend is borderline. Before she was diagnosed it was so difficult around her sometimes. She'd say really violent shit, spent some time in the mental hospital, etc. Esp when we were like hormonal 14 year olds. Now she's diagnosed and is much better at recognizing her symptoms. She recognizes when she's in the wrong. She's also on meds so that helps. But I definitely get having to tell them "everything is okay it's not youre fault" it's exhausting to be on the other side of it when the other person can't really predict their own behaviors and reactions to things. Also I can't imagine having a mom like that man. Kudos to u

 

[Whitepill]

Same tbh
Annoying ass people