Despite what the title says this wasn't much of a first date at all, keep in mind the girl I was out with asked me first. Pretty much it was planned to take place tomorrow, I agreed and decided to do my washing today and wear the clothes tomorrow. Little did I know I would be met with a text at 8:01am telling me that she wanted to go out today because she 'accidentally' made plans for tomorrow (I went to bed at around 3am last night because I thought that I would be able to sleep in today). I message her what time she was planning to go out (hoping that I'd at least be able to get a few extra hours of sleep) turns out she was already on the bus DESPITE our plans clearly being 11am. I quickly get out of bed and wash my clothes, putting them on while their still half wet, I look in the mirror and realize I look like ass because I'm off 5 hours of sleep. I jump on the bus and head over the our meeting place, despite me being extremely nervous and uncomfortable (mainly because my shirt and shorts were still damp but also because I knew I looked like shit however I didn't want to leave her waiting and run the risk of her leaving) I go to the food court (where we were meant to meet) and see her sitting with another girl (which I later found out it was her friend who she brang) I had ZERO idea that she would be bringing someone and if I did I would bring one of my mates in order to make it a two man. I shrug it off however since I assume that I was the main person she was here to see oh boy was I wrong. She kept talking about her ex for the first 10 minutes of this as we make our way to the arcade, again I shrug this off. We get to the arcade and everything goes fine at first, they both have money and so do I so we all get our cards and start playing, little did I know I would look like the biggest fan ever this whole time. Pretty much the girl I was going out with spent the whole time talking to her friend, I tried to talk to her however it would become really awkward with her friend around as it was clear she would much rather be with her friend then me, I'm serious at this point I wanted to cry because of how awkward it was and it was nothing like I imagined so I pretty much spent the whole time following them around while they were doing shit. We were there for around 40 minutes, most of that time she spent with her friend, making zero attempt to interact with me whatsoever. When we left I was extremely thankful to get out of there as it was pretty much just an awkwardness hell, she then comes up to me and asks where the bus bays are (It was 10:20 and I had arrived at 9:32) I directed her to the bus bay along with her friend, can you guess who was the one who said bye? Her friend, not the girl I was meant to be going out there with, the girl who I had known for like an hour. I then made my way to the food court and ate my lunch by myself (at 10:30) in a room full of people, the worst part was I had to call my mum and ask her to pick me up because the bus I was meant to catch was the only one which went to my house was at 3:10 I thought this wouldn't be an issue because I believed we would stay there longer but apparently that wasn't the case. After I get home I check her snap maps because I didn't believe that she went straight home after 50 minutes, turns out that she had went to two different shopping centres after telling me she was going home I'm not an incel or anything because of this I'm just extremely disappointed because I really liked this girl but the same couldn't be said for me.
I'm just so done
I'm just so done
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