Would you continue looksmaxxing if

[000x6:::]

Someone loved you and loved each and every one of your flaws?

Would you want to continue changing yourself?

Would you keep those flaws if they complimented and adored a lot of them?

 

[Luffy]

I mean I hate myself and my face so I don’t think I’ll be happy with the same face I have now
But Mabye said partner can help me cope with my flaws
Idrk tbh

 

[Because123456]

Someone loved you and loved each and every one of your flaws?

Would you want to continue changing yourself?

Would you keep those flaws if they complimented and adored a lot of them?

There is a very strong possibility theyre just lying, especially if it’s a woman

 

[000x6:::]

There is a very strong possibility theyre just lying, especially if it’s a woman

Yeah, but hypothetically, let's say they aren't. Sure, it's possible. But what if

 

[Because123456]

Yeah, but hypothetically, let's say they aren't. Sure, it's possible. But what if

Then yeah I’d definitely stop

 

[appealgod123]

Someone loved you and loved each and every one of your flaws?

Would you want to continue changing yourself?

Would you keep those flaws if they complimented and adored a lot of them?

No i wouldnt stop jfl

My life doesn’t revolve around that woman specifically I’ll still need to interact with other people

 

[Luffy]

Yeah, but hypothetically, let's say they aren't. Sure, it's possible. But what if

I had to come back
I once had a girl that thought of me in the way you described. She was almost like a soulmate to me, we could talk for week on end with no break, we shared common interest, and we were perfect for each other. Yet I messed it up with my own insecurities by being scared to open up to her and show her my true feelings. I was scared how others would react to us, I was scared that I would get broken, I was scared that I wouldn’t be good enough for her. This lead her to leave me bc she wasn’t getting the same treatment that she was giving me. I regret this now and I wish that I could have been more of a man and showed her who I truly was.

 

[000x6:::]

I had to come back
I once had a girl that thought of me in the way you described. She was almost like a soulmate to me, we could talk for week on end with no break, we shared common interest, and we were perfect for each other. Yet I messed it up with my own insecurities by being scared to open up to her and show her my true feelings. I was scared how others would react to us, I was scared that I would get broken, I was scared that I wouldn’t be good enough for her. This lead her to leave me bc she wasn’t getting the same treatment that she was giving me. I regret this now and I wish that I could have been more of a man and showed her who I truly was.

I am very sorry to hear about that. Sadly, things of this nature happen a lot. Insecurity can spiral into many categories towards how we treat people: control, distance, lashing out, and no reciprocating, etc. It's best to learn and carry on with the lesson. It's good to recognize what went wrong and it's even better to see and analyze what you can work towards to fix it. I truly wish you the best when it comes to what's happening in your life currently. Learn what you need to learn but do not let it kill you.

 

[SevenColorCrystalBall]

Nope, if such a thing was possible I'd just chill out and savor it.

Someone loved you and loved each and every one of your flaws?

Would you want to continue changing yourself?

Would you keep those flaws if they complimented and adored a lot of them?

 

[Luffy]

I am very sorry to hear about that. Sadly, things of this nature happen a lot. Insecurity can spiral into many categories towards how we treat people: control, distance, lashing out, and no reciprocating, etc. It's best to learn and carry on with the lesson. It's good to recognize what went wrong and it's even better to see and analyze what you can work towards to fix it. I truly wish you the best when it comes to what's happening in your life currently. Learn what you need to learn but do not let it kill you.

Thank you for your kind words. And yes I have been moving on for the past few months and honestly I go on streaks were I totally forget about her and don’t car anymore. And at times, like now, my whole life seems to crash down on itself and she becomes the center of my attention. Ik it is the past and I have accepted that, now I just try my best to better myself and be the best I can for the next girl I care about

 

[Br4va]

Yes because it’s for my own sanity

 

[000x6:::]

Yes because it’s for my own sanity

Sense of control you think?

 

[Br4va]

Sense of control you think?

I just want to ascend for myself

 

[Zygos]

no i do not looksmaxx to find love or for women, if that was the case i could stop right now.

 

[000x6:::]

I just want to ascend for myself

I think it's all societal. Technically it's never really for oneself in the extent of surgery or maybe drugs. If everybody got told they look like a 10/10 every single day, I don't think anyone would want to change. Maybe only if it damaged health like eating really bad food?

Idk just a theory

 

[Br4va]

I think it's all societal. Technically it's never really for oneself in the extent of surgery or maybe drugs. If everybody got told they look like a 10/10 every single day, I don't think anyone would want to change. Maybe only if it damaged health like eating really bad food?

Idk just a theory

I guess. I still would find ways to complain when looking at myself

 

[Pentatonic]

I have a nice relationship and its coming close to 2 years. To be honest i know this wouldnt happen without looksmaxxing, No shit im not perfect nobody really is. But the flaws here and there does get tolarated when you are above a level in looks. By the end i still looksmax the same amount i got it as a habit

 

[highappealgod064221]

Someone loved you and loved each and every one of your flaws?

Would you want to continue changing yourself?

Would you keep those flaws if they complimented and adored a lot of them?

Yes because nothing ever lasts forever and I would inevitably fuck up and they wouldn’t love me anymore.

 

[selank]

Someone loved you and loved each and every one of your flaws?

Would you want to continue changing yourself?

Would you keep those flaws if they complimented and adored a lot of them?

Yes cause u will still get treated like shit by everyone else.

 

[Byro]

Someone loved you and loved each and every one of your flaws?

Would you want to continue changing yourself?

Would you keep those flaws if they complimented and adored a lot of them?

No I looksmax for myself

 

[dontcallthemfoidsbro]

I think it might make it somewhat easier to live with myself but honestly in the end I don't believe the love of someone else could overshadow the hatred I'd feel looking in the mirror. I'd keep looksmaxxing for myself.

 

[Kitsune]

Yes

I know that she will break up with me eventually

 

[HelvetAyegba]

Someone loved you and loved each and every one of your flaws?

Would you want to continue changing yourself?

Would you keep those flaws if they complimented and adored a lot of them?

i think her appriciating me for my flaws would surely give me confort and make me chillout a bit, but it would not sway me away from trying to improve at every chance i get