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A lot of you have onetises, I've been in the same situation up until last year. They're two types of onetises. Mine was where she was my onetis, yet she was also into me, but the situation was difficult (older + kid and husband), so that's the reason why things didn't progress and remained at the onetis stage.
The other type is where it's one sided. It's basically over because that's not how love works. If she's not into you and she doesn't even pay attention to you then it's never gonna work out and you can't do anything about it. It's simply impossible to trigger feelings if she's unresponsive.
With all this in mind, onetises are cucked. I'm basically trying to make the point that it's a toxic dynamic that's really bad for your mental health. Mutual love at first sight mogs to oblivion and I'm glad to be experiencing it. Not liking anyone also mogs onetises because less stress and overall better mindset
The other type is where it's one sided. It's basically over because that's not how love works. If she's not into you and she doesn't even pay attention to you then it's never gonna work out and you can't do anything about it. It's simply impossible to trigger feelings if she's unresponsive.
With all this in mind, onetises are cucked. I'm basically trying to make the point that it's a toxic dynamic that's really bad for your mental health. Mutual love at first sight mogs to oblivion and I'm glad to be experiencing it. Not liking anyone also mogs onetises because less stress and overall better mindset


