Orobas
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Raising standards for a partner.
Raising standards and looking for a partner who is better than you is actually mateguarding. The more similar you are to your partner the easier it is to create intimacy and relationship success.
Dating
The longer you date someone the more flaws and irritations you create. Also mateguarding. Date short, date equal, commit fast.
Gossip
Gossiping about your partner is talking yourself out against your partner and bringing in people who don’t know what is going on into your decision making. It’s also a form of venting that will create irritation against your partner. You will devalue your partner by this form of venting and thus create a negative perception that will weaken your bond
Mateguarding
Raising standards and looking for a partner who is better than you is actually mateguarding. The more similar you are to your partner the easier it is to create intimacy and relationship success.
Dating
The longer you date someone the more flaws and irritations you create. Also mateguarding. Date short, date equal, commit fast.
Gossip
Gossiping about your partner is talking yourself out against your partner and bringing in people who don’t know what is going on into your decision making. It’s also a form of venting that will create irritation against your partner. You will devalue your partner by this form of venting and thus create a negative perception that will weaken your bond
Mateguarding