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A man’s second love

Cobicado said:
This is 100% true @Sovvton. I’m never forgetting that 5y girl or my high school time, I would trade my future wife for them.
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im realising its lowkey a positive i didn't experience true love with my girl
 
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Sexysmokerboy said:
Okay but approach this lightly because I might say the wrong thing. When a woman experiences love she is most likely to abstain from any further pursuiters … take social media, all those “I miss my ex” accounts are ran by women/ girls that want their ex and their ex only. You could even look back at history and see that women abstain themselves from seeing other men whenever their lover left for war… even widows, you see more widowed women stay single than men. A woman struggles physically and mentally if not over their first love so they seek isolation or some sort of way to vent, like the modern woman and social media. A woman will most likely not get into a relationship until she’s 100% over her ex… but don’t get me wrong, many modern women have an energy imbalance and choose to live their life the way a man does. However, I believe that number of women is very low in real life and especially since many woman have be exposed to this fairytale of “happily ever after” or not. To me, this is what first love means to a woman, the extremes only.
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interesting

sounds like the way many bluepilled men thinks just the opposite sex
I know what you mean and I'm not trying to invalidate your view on it

but I call bullshit

but that's just now how many woman in my life operated unfortunately
 
Axii said:
interesting

sounds like the way many bluepilled men thinks just the opposite sex
I know what you mean and I'm not trying to invalidate your view on it

but I call bullshit

but that's just now how many woman in my life operated unfortunately
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Can you elaborate more on what part of it is bullshit?
 
Sovvton said:
im realising its lowkey a positive i didn't experience true love with my girl

gave me relationship experience, breakup experience and was a cheat code to improve stroke game

all without the strings attached after
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Both no strings and strings are a shame. Casual is just disgusting in my opinion and having strings whilst with another person is also just as nasty… but ig that’s the reality of it
 
notsocommonthumb said:
thats not what the average person does, I mean isnt that what this entire thread is about?
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Good point, even religious men do not do that. I know lots of guys who had sex before marriage, whether paid or not. Even if they were strict Wahhabis, they still had degenerate pasts. Part of the reasons why I do not take those Salafist types seriously.
 
Sexysmokerboy said:
Both no strings and strings are a shame. Casual is just disgusting in my opinion and having strings whilst with another person is also just as nasty… but ig that’s the reality of it
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thats kind of fuarked ngl

its cucked if the relationship is your first love but its also meaningless if it wasn't

thats it, ban relationships, divorce and make arranged marriages mandatory
 
Sexysmokerboy said:
Besides the obvious ones, the worst thing a man could do is experience love before you. Being a man’s second “love” after the first one only sets you up for failure and agony. You’re going to build a man from square one only to have him leave you. But lucky for you, he’ll dub you as the girl he’ll never forget, the girl that taught him love.

Men have three types of women in their lives, the one he loves, the one that taught him love, and the one that he settles for. I don’t think I want to be anything to a man.

Over tbh I’m so tired. Give me a word of wisdom @James Othy
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Ur either easily love bombed or talking outta ur ass
 
Sovvton said:
thats kind of fuarked ngl

its cucked if the relationship is your first love but its also meaningless if it wasn't

thats it, ban relationships, divorce and make arranged marriages mandatory
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Already is in my country. Whenever I visit, I always come across people who are eager to find me a wife. I always tell them I don't want to get married yet.
 
Chifuyu said:
Already is in my country. Whenever I visit, I always come across people who are eager to find me a wife. I always tell them I don't want to get married yet.
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lowkey clutch, just stack your bread gymmaxx and then you have insane smv when you go back to your country

you can get yourself the baddest wife!
 
Sexysmokerboy said:
Besides the obvious ones, the worst thing a man could do is experience love before you. Being a man’s second “love” after the first one only sets you up for failure and agony. You’re going to build a man from square one only to have him leave you. But lucky for you, he’ll dub you as the girl he’ll never forget, the girl that taught him love.

Men have three types of women in their lives, the one he loves, the one that taught him love, and the one that he settles for. I don’t think I want to be anything to a man.

Over tbh I’m so tired. Give me a word of wisdom @James Othy
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Any number but the first is nothing special
 
neymar said:
Any number but the first is nothing special
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Now that a man said the exact thing op said I now agree. First crush set the precedent
 
Sovvton said:
lowkey clutch, just stack your bread gymmaxx and then you have insane smv when you go back to your country

you can get yourself the baddest wife!
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I can get married even without having my shit together simply because of my status as a foreign Pakistani. But even without the arranged marriage system I would manage because there's someone from the United States who wants to marry me. It's crazy how I can be truecel and still have options. But so far I have not been interested in those who were and still are interested in me.
 
Chifuyu said:
I can get married even without having my shit together simply because of my status as a foreign Pakistani. But even without the arranged marriage system I would manage because there's someone from the United States who wants to marry me. It's crazy how I can be truecel and still have options. But so far I have not been interested in those who were and still are interested in me.
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Dnr you just hate brown women
 
g4rl1c said:
Now that a man said the exact thing op said I now agree. First crush set the precedent
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Its kinda delusional tho of course it’s gonna feel the best when ur the youngest nd stupidest/ lack experience and knowledge
 
TallSkullpilled said:
What i said is true though ,

Once some part of his face was revealed and a trusted user said his lower third is good .

And chin and lips region was very good
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Actually the worst larper of all fucking time
 
g4rl1c said:
Actually the worst larper of all fucking time
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Don't listen to him. Girls here say I'm average which I do not think is true, I'm below average. They are just too nice to admit I'm a truecel.
 
g4rl1c said:
Dnr you just hate brown women
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If I am ever going to get married, I'm going for a Pakistani. I'm not chasing white women if that is what you're implying. Their cultures, religious beliefs and ways of life differ from mine. Those things matter much more than looks do.
 
Chifuyu said:
Keep coping.
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Bro I'm telling this to give some lifefuel to you and some other brown boys of forum .

But I genuinely mean this man ! Just fukin trust me on this !


Before going to school my dad used to style my shitty hairstyle everyday .

And I literally did nothing in school , just used to sit like a r****d autist but I was just lean facially everytime.


Despite that back than with my experience with girls , I genuinely mogged tf out of I'll go as far as to say 95 percent of guys in my class .

Not talking about 'looks' , but 'experience with girls '

And average guy in international class was ' White' apparently.
 
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TallSkullpilled said:
Bro I'm telling this to maybe give some lifefuel to you and some other brown boys of forum .

But I genuinely mean this man ! Just fukin trust me on this !


Before going to school my dad used to style my shitty hairstyle everyday .

And I literally did nothing in school , just used to sit like a r****d autist but I was just lean facially everytime.


And man I'll swear on this ,
With my experience with girls , I genuinely mogged tf out of I'll go as far as to say 90 percent of guys in my class .

And average guy in international class was ' White' apparently.
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Of course I still beleive in pheno tax , etc .

But I think if one looks 'descent ' than that person will get halo irl regardless of race . Idk.
 
Chifuyu said:
Don't listen to him. Girls here say I'm average which I do not think is true, I'm below average. They are just too nice to admit I'm a truecel.
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Than U are obviously not ugly n##a ! ,

I can tell if u do some softmaxxing here and there you'll look descent. Btw come PM.
 
Sexysmokerboy said:
Besides the obvious ones, the worst thing a man could do is experience love before you. Being a man’s second “love” after the first one only sets you up for failure and agony. You’re going to build a man from square one only to have him leave you. But lucky for you, he’ll dub you as the girl he’ll never forget, the girl that taught him love.

Men have three types of women in their lives, the one he loves, the one that taught him love, and the one that he settles for. I don’t think I want to be anything to a man.

Over tbh I’m so tired. Give me a word of wisdom @James Othy
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Alright girlfriend, let me tell ya all about it.

So there's some good news and some bad news. Usually I'd give the the bad news first but what I'm about to tell you wouldn't come out right if I did that.

The good news is that if a man loves you it trumps any previous love he might have had for anybody else. I guarantee it in every case. You will never have to worry about him comparing you to anyone else. That is if he loves you. Which brings us to the bad news.

In all my experience when a girl/woman loves a man, or just really really likes him, it seems impossible for her to know if he loves her back. Women have no problem at all knowing exactly how some loser who she doesn't really care about feels about her, but when they're infatuated with a man they're all over the place. Now a man might tell you he loves you when he doesn't, either because he's a bastard that just wants sex or because he's confused himself and doesn't know what he wants (doesn't love you but contemplating settling), but if he truly loves you his first love or any subsequent loves won't mean a damn thing. You're all he'll be able to see.
 
Sexysmokerboy said:
That’s not true. I’m saving myself for marriage, I minimize my contact with men to align myself with my desires
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It’ll be hard to find a DKKHV if you aren’t well educated, insanely attractive, and wealthy. Sadly, that still doesn’t completely rid that “second love issue” you’re rambling about, though it’s like that it would.

If you’re not these, either settle or accept that you will likely be alone

I’m going through the same issues as you.
 
James Othy said:
Alright girlfriend, let me tell ya all about it.

So there's some good news and some bad news. Usually I'd give the the bad news first but what I'm about to tell you wouldn't come out right if I did that.

The good news is that if a man loves you it trumps any previous love he might have had for anybody else. I guarantee it in every case. You will never have to worry about him comparing you to anyone else. That is if he loves you. Which brings us to the bad news.

In all my experience when a girl/woman loves a man, or just really really likes him, it seems impossible for her to know if he loves her back. Women have no problem at all knowing exactly how some loser who she doesn't really care about feels about her, but when they're infatuated with a man they're all over the place. Now a man might tell you he loves you when he doesn't, either because he's a bastard that just wants sex or because he's confused himself and doesn't know what he wants (doesn't love you but contemplating settling), but if he truly loves you his first love or any subsequent loves won't mean a damn thing. You're all he'll be able to see.
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Bro came in and dropped a trvthnvke
 
Sexysmokerboy said:
Besides the obvious ones, the worst thing a man could do is experience love before you. Being a man’s second “love” after the first one only sets you up for failure and agony. You’re going to build a man from square one only to have him leave you. But lucky for you, he’ll dub you as the girl he’ll never forget, the girl that taught him love.

Men have three types of women in their lives, the one he loves, the one that taught him love, and the one that he settles for. I don’t think I want to be anything to a man.

Over tbh I’m so tired. Give me a word of wisdom @James Othy
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Not true whatsoever dudes can forget easily
 
Dang switch the lingo around and its classic blackpill, i thought only women settle

But huge jfl you are probably talking about chad not any random guy no wonder they left yo ass
 
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