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I need to stop expecting people to be happy for me when I do the bare minimum
people that know me are happy for me when I tell them I perform basic tasks because they know most of the time I just ldar
but when I meet new people (like my roommate) and go "yay I actually tidied my desk and did my laundry today!!" they're just like ...okay?
which is fair I guess, I shouldn't expect praise for doing something that's literally expected of me.

constantly reminded of the "omg you people can't do anything" post when I fail a task like this
 
I need to stop expecting people to be happy for me when I do the bare minimum
people that know me are happy for me when I tell them I perform basic tasks because they know most of the time I just ldar
but when I meet new people (like my roommate) and go "yay I actually tidied my desk and did my laundry today!!" they're just like ...okay?
which is fair I guess, I shouldn't expect praise for doing something that's literally expected of me.

constantly reminded of the "omg you people can't do anything" post when I fail a task like this
the same thing has happened to me but it sucks cuz it just reminds me of how much of a lazy bum i am.
 

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