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I have a disorganized attachment style my therapist said, that may come from my childhood where my parents would give me ice cream and then beat the fuck out of me with a belt. This is why I take any friendly remark, compassion or sympathy towards me as aggression. I've grown dependant on the pain, so I surround myself with people made of thorns.