Advice, how to improve.

[RottingCarrie]

My hairs greasy cuz i was at work in the back of house instead of front of house.

Nearly everything wrong with me needs surgical help, if anyone can give me non surgical advice thatd help alot, ill prob edit the pics out later though so if u see it later just dm me. Also my face fat is mainly genetic or something cuz its been the same exept for when i was actually fat. Also im aware i look slightly masculine any tips to look more androgynous or feminine? Idk about an actual rating pretty sure its high ltb

 

[Randomized]

New hairstyle would be a good place to start. Do you have an image where your hair is not covering up so much of your face?

 

[RottingCarrie]

New hairstyle would be a good place to start. Do you have an image where your hair is not covering up so much of your face?

Not as recent and still covers a bit,

 

[Hypertrophy]

Not as recent and still covers a bit,
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Could try some hydrocortisone for the nose but it won't do that much, take low dose accutane for that sweet sweet collagen and you could micro needle your undereyes to make them a bit more youthful looking. Get leaner as well

 

[Motivated Dandelions]

With all due respect you’ve looked the exact same since I first met you and it’s been 2 years

This is a looksmaxxing forum, please lock in

 

[DontGoon]

10 reps of 3x sets of loving yourself. What Hypertrophy said, rhinoplasty too, if you want.

 

[RottingCarrie]

With all due respect you’ve looked the exact same since I first met you and it’s been 2 years

This is a looksmaxxing forum, please lock in

My face wont change with most softmaxxes, I do have less face fat though and fixed my body I just dont know wtf to do about my face

 

[RottingCarrie]

With all due respect you’ve looked the exact same since I first met you and it’s been 2 years

This is a looksmaxxing forum, please lock in

Btw this is me around the time I met you I think I look a tiny bit better atleast

 

[rand anon]

Why does any of this matter anyways if ur already in an ltr with someone

 

[RottingCarrie]

Why does any of this matter anyways if ur already in an ltr with someone

Because I hate how I look

 

[rand anon]

Because I hate how I look

Y
and this is prob the few times where self introspection doesn’t help. Ur looks aren’t hindering u in other aspects of life apart from in ur mind

 

[Arya]

My hairs greasy cuz i was at work in the back of house instead of front of house.

Nearly everything wrong with me needs surgical help, if anyone can give me non surgical advice thatd help alot, ill prob edit the pics out later though so if u see it later just dm me. Also my face fat is mainly genetic or something cuz its been the same exept for when i was actually fat. Also im aware i look slightly masculine any tips to look more androgynous or feminine? Idk about an actual rating pretty sure its high ltbView attachment 372861

dont do a side part
how much do you weigh like and height

 

[chaigeekbar]

I think you look good as is! Personally I’ve had facial balancing done and it really boosted my confidence. It’s not as expensive as surgery and the results are immediate!

 

[RottingCarrie]

dont do a side part
how much do you weigh like and height

169cm and like 60kg, i'm currently trying to lose to 56kg again and get back into running

 

[RottingCarrie]

I think you look good as is! Personally I’ve had facial balancing done and it really boosted my confidence. It’s not as expensive as surgery and the results are immediate!

I havent heard of that before ill look into it

 

[Arya]

169cm and like 60kg, i'm currently trying to lose to 56kg again and get back into running

yeah lose some weight go around 52kgs

not much you can really do, change your hair, grow your lashes and brows

well then procedures

 

[RottingCarrie]

Y
and this is prob the few times where self introspection doesn’t help. Ur looks aren’t hindering u in other aspects of life apart from in ur mind

Insecurities, I compare myself to people alot and notice small differences in how im treated vs more attractive people

 

[chaigeekbar]

I havent heard of that before ill look into it

it’s just small amounts of filler in different parts of your face to make you look more symmetrical/enhace certain features. I got under eye filler, cheek filler, chin filler, and lip filler all in one session.

 

[RottingCarrie]

yeah lose some weight go around 52kgs

not much you can really do, change your hair, grow your lashes and brows

well then procedures

52kgs a bit low isnt it? Im pretty sure its underweight and I already have flared ribs. Wouldn't it be better to focus on muscle vs fat mass and body fat percentage?

 

[chaigeekbar]

52kgs a bit low isnt it? Im pretty sure its underweight and I already have flared ribs. Wouldn't it be better to focus on muscle vs fat mass and body fat percentage?

yah I think that’s too low, honestly the weight your at now it’s perfectly healthy!

 

[Arya]

52kgs a bit low isnt it? Im pretty sure its underweight and I already have flared ribs. Wouldn't it be better to focus on muscle vs fat mass and body fat percentage?

then go 55kgs around if youre building muscle

yah I think that’s too low, honestly the weight your at now it’s perfectly healthy!

i mean sure healthy range but losing a bit would look better

 

[rand anon]

Insecurities, I compare myself to people alot and notice small differences in how im treated vs more attractive people

Who r u comparing urself too? I mean if it’s stacies, then yeah they’d prob getting treated better. But unless ur actually getting treated badly, which I doubt cause u aren’t ugly or fat, it’s not worth stressing about

 

[RottingCarrie]

Who r u comparing urself too? I mean if it’s stacies, then yeah they’d prob getting treated better. But unless ur actually getting treated badly, which I doubt cause u aren’t ugly or fat, it’s not worth stressing about

Normal people. Literally every female i see irl and im treated worse than 60-70% of them even if its very slight differences

 

[chaigeekbar]

Normal people. Literally every female i see irl and im treated worse than 60-70% of them even if its very slight differences

sometimes it’s just your environment, I grew up in a small town where the ideal was blonde white girls and I never got the same treatment as them. Once I moved to a more diverse and populated area people started to treat me a whole lot better

 

[rand anon]

Normal people. Literally every female i see irl and im treated worse than 60-70% of them

Yeah I doubt that, unless ur living in la or something. Sounds like ur just in ur head too much

even if its very slight differences

If it’s very slight, then it rly isn’t worth worrying about imo. Only if ur actually getting treated badly would I consider looksmaxxing, in your situation

 

[RottingCarrie]

Yeah I doubt that, unless ur living in la or something. Sounds like ur just in ur head too much

If it’s very slight, then it rly isn’t worth worrying about imo. Only if ur actually getting treated badly would I consider looksmaxxing, in your situation

I live in a smallish town but differences range from someones tone of voice towards me to my coworkers getting double the tips I make

 

[Lydia]

as an androgynous woman myself, i honestly i think you're being way too hard on yourself

from what i can tell, i don't see anything that makes me think you need surgery. the greasy hair and work pics are probably making you look worse than you actually do

if your goal is to look more feminine or androgynous, i'd focus on hair, brows, skincare, accessories and styling first. those things can make a surprisingly big difference

also i wouldn't worry too much about the facial fullness. a softer face doesn't automatically make someone look masculine, and in some cases it can actually help create a more feminine look

i'd wait until you have better photos before seriously considering anything surgical

 

[balenci]

I think you look good as is! Personally I’ve had facial balancing done and it really boosted my confidence. It’s not as expensive as surgery and the results are immediate!

omg i rly want facial balancing

cost?

 

[AttilaFratelloDiDio]

Came here just out of curiosity.... you younger people have a lot of pressure from those stupid social media and are really living out of this world... people are beautiful because they are different and what you're thriving to do is appear all the same. Love who you are and you will have what you want/deserve! I see normal guys/girls trying to improve where is not needed: outside. What you really need to improve is self-confidence on who you really are and how you really are, study and pick a career or simply work an honest job, be nice and not self-centered, stay away from social media... so simple it is. A bit of fat is sexy, little imperfections are sexy (yes also a big nose), self-confidence is sexy, smart is sexy, freedom is sexy... the rest are bs that we leave for clowns on TV and social media.
Have a nice FREE life

 

[doll]

My hairs greasy cuz i was at work in the back of house instead of front of house.

Nearly everything wrong with me needs surgical help, if anyone can give me non surgical advice thatd help alot, ill prob edit the pics out later though so if u see it later just dm me. Also my face fat is mainly genetic or something cuz its been the same exept for when i was actually fat. Also im aware i look slightly masculine any tips to look more androgynous or feminine? Idk about an actual rating pretty sure its high ltbView attachment 372861

lose weight and fix ur hair before asking for advice

 

[chaigeekbar]

omg i rly want facial balancing

cost?

$850 usd

 

[RottingCarrie]

lose weight and fix ur hair before asking for advice

I have like 6kg at most to lose rn im not fat if you read what I said youd see my face fat is genetic

 

[doll]

I have like 6kg at most to lose rn im not fat if you read what I said youd see my face fat is genetic

no such thing, ure just boneless

 

[neurotypicaI]

LOOOOOOOOL

 

[Idontknowbrah]

My hairs greasy cuz i was at work in the back of house instead of front of house.

Nearly everything wrong with me needs surgical help, if anyone can give me non surgical advice thatd help alot, ill prob edit the pics out later though so if u see it later just dm me. Also my face fat is mainly genetic or something cuz its been the same exept for when i was actually fat. Also im aware i look slightly masculine any tips to look more androgynous or feminine? Idk about an actual rating pretty sure its high ltbView attachment 372861

As honest as I can be your lltb

 

[saccharinesaint]

I think you look good as is! Personally I’ve had facial balancing done and it really boosted my confidence. It’s not as expensive as surgery and the results are immediate!

can you tell me more about the facial balancing?

 

[chaigeekbar]

can you tell me more about the facial balancing?

it’s just small amounts of filler in different parts of your face to make you look more symmetrical/enhace certain features. I got under eye filler, cheek filler, chin filler, and lip filler all in one session.

 

[pig]

My hairs greasy cuz i was at work in the back of house instead of front of house.

Nearly everything wrong with me needs surgical help, if anyone can give me non surgical advice thatd help alot, ill prob edit the pics out later though so if u see it later just dm me. Also my face fat is mainly genetic or something cuz its been the same exept for when i was actually fat. Also im aware i look slightly masculine any tips to look more androgynous or feminine? Idk about an actual rating pretty sure its high ltbView attachment 372861

Holy fuck your hideous

 

[RottingCarrie]

no such thing, ure just boneless

Thats related to genetics

 

[RottingCarrie]

Holy fuck your hideous

Im aware

 

[RRM]

My hairs greasy cuz i was at work in the back of house instead of front of house.

Nearly everything wrong with me needs surgical help, if anyone can give me non surgical advice thatd help alot, ill prob edit the pics out later though so if u see it later just dm me. Also my face fat is mainly genetic or something cuz its been the same exept for when i was actually fat. Also im aware i look slightly masculine any tips to look more androgynous or feminine? Idk about an actual rating pretty sure its high ltbView attachment 372861

First foid without infinite smv

 

[RottingCarrie]

As honest as I can be your lltb

How can i look average?

 

[RottingCarrie]

First foid without infinite smv

Wow thats very helpful

 

[RRM]

Wow thats very helpful

Tbh I don’t think you’ve changed at all since like 2024 maybe
You don’t look that bad tho I mean you have a bf too just fix the hair maybe

 

[ascensionangel]

lose weight, get a nose job if possible ASAP, fix your hair, and learn makeup.

 

[RottingCarrie]

Tbh I don’t think you’ve changed at all since like 2024 maybe
You don’t look that bad tho I mean you have a bf too just fix the hair maybe

If I genuinly look the exact same that means weight doesnt do anything for me which genuinly only leaves me with surgery and filler so more than my hair needs changed

 

[RottingCarrie]

lose weight, get a nose job if possible ASAP, fix your hair, and learn makeup.

I dont want advice with makeup im normally too lazy to wear it

 

[RRM]

If I genuinly look the exact same that means weight doesnt do anything for me which genuinly only leaves me with surgery and filler so more than my hair needs changed

Not really I mean you look pretty average to me
Maybe some fillers or implants and some simple changes like eyelashes and make up etc

 

[ascensionangel]

I dont want advice with makeup im normally too lazy to wear it

well do the other things, and no offense but frauding might be the only way to get better for you

 

[RottingCarrie]

well do the other things, and no offense but frauding might be the only way to get better for you

Only fraud that helps me is angle frauding sadly