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hiii!!
I notice a lot that girls who are relatively average when it comes to attractive guys either get used by them or stay in long term relationships with them.
Obviously this depends if ur in a more affluent area where people are generally more attractive. If ur not that’s on u; tell ur parents to make more money

Anyways, here’s how some very basic advice on how to get/stay w these.
1. Have standards for urself and him.
Dont post urself w ur ass out. It looks desperate and only attracts that.
Don’t sleep w anyone unless ur dating for a few months. And even after ur man should still chase u everyday.
Don’t beg for his attention.
He should WILLINGLY want to be with you and buy you things. I attached photos of two bouquets from different men. The red roses (current bf) actually asked me what I wanted and knew my taste. The other one just picked it up at a florist. I didn’t ask or even have dates. It’s a given I’ll have flowers every 2 weeks.
2. Don’t be boring. Attend events. I would attend rugby games last year and became good friends w/ them and even talked to some of them. You can find the men you want by where you go. Learn skills. Personally, I like to go horse riding or fly. I’m getting my privates pilot license rn.
3. If ur genuinely ugly or 2 boring for a guy; u probs should looksmaxx. If no one has ever approached u and they’re at least an mtn ur done for.
I notice a lot that girls who are relatively average when it comes to attractive guys either get used by them or stay in long term relationships with them.
Obviously this depends if ur in a more affluent area where people are generally more attractive. If ur not that’s on u; tell ur parents to make more money
Anyways, here’s how some very basic advice on how to get/stay w these.
1. Have standards for urself and him.
Dont post urself w ur ass out. It looks desperate and only attracts that.
Don’t sleep w anyone unless ur dating for a few months. And even after ur man should still chase u everyday.
Don’t beg for his attention.
He should WILLINGLY want to be with you and buy you things. I attached photos of two bouquets from different men. The red roses (current bf) actually asked me what I wanted and knew my taste. The other one just picked it up at a florist. I didn’t ask or even have dates. It’s a given I’ll have flowers every 2 weeks.
2. Don’t be boring. Attend events. I would attend rugby games last year and became good friends w/ them and even talked to some of them. You can find the men you want by where you go. Learn skills. Personally, I like to go horse riding or fly. I’m getting my privates pilot license rn.
3. If ur genuinely ugly or 2 boring for a guy; u probs should looksmaxx. If no one has ever approached u and they’re at least an mtn ur done for.