Ageism

[Looktothemax]

I look to be in my mid 20s on social media (in real life I can pass for a little younger) but I'm facing ageism because I keep getting asked "are you married?" "do you have kids" question and getting judged by it from men. I'm wondering will facial countouring or a facelift make me look like a teenager so that I can avoid this type of ageism?? It's really hindering me mentally and socially. I don't like this conservative crowd who thinks that the only purpose in life for a woman is marriage and children, which is something I have no interest in doing in this lifetime

 

[Whitepill]

I have 2 questions
1.) do you have facial hair
2.) are you overweight?
These two extremely impact whether you need it or not

 

[Looktothemax]

I have 2 questions
1.) do you have facial hair
2.) are you overweight?
These two extremely impact whether you need it or not

Nope, I have a very low bodyfat percentage. I am a size 0. I have NO facial hair whatsoever. In real life, I attract teenagers but on social media I am still getting clocked as an adult woman. I am a brownskin black woman and wonder if that plays apart? I know we are under pressure to hold the community down. But I am currently lightening my skin and have already lightened a few shades to a carmel tone. My goal is pale skin

 

[Whitepill]

Nope, I have a very low bodyfat percentage. I am a size 0. I have NO facial hair whatsoever. In real life, I attract teenagers but on social media I am still getting clocked as an adult woman. I am a brownskin black woman and wonder if that plays apart? I know we are under pressure to hold the community down. But I am currently lightening my skin and have already lightened a few shades to a carmel tone. My goal is pale skin

Is your skin just aged/sun damaged? That’s confusing

 

[Looktothemax]

Is your skin just aged/sun damaged? That’s confusing

I get the IV drip every week and take skin lightening pills. My skin looks really good but I am brownskinned. I haven't reached my goal of pale skin yet, I am still on a journey. I have an upcoming appointment with a Medspa about fillers/botox etc.

 

[Whitepill]

I get the IV drip every week and take skin lightening pills. My skin looks really good but I am brownskinned. I haven't reached my goal of pale skin yet, I am still on a journey. I have an upcoming appointment with a Medspa about fillers/botox etc.

I think fillers/botox is a good option then if you have tried everything else

 

[Looktothemax]

I think fillers/botox is a good option then if you have tried everything else

What about facial contouring? I want something more permanent

 

[Whitepill]

What about facial contouring? I want something more permanent

That’s a good option too

 

[Whitepill]

Another one if you need it are PDO Threads, I heard those are good but can be difficult to use

 

[Looktothemax]

Another one if you need it are PDO Threads, I heard those are good but can be difficult to use

Can I get a technician to do it for me?

 

[Whitepill]

Can I get a technician to do it for me?

Potentially?? I don’t think I’ve seen people get technicians for PDOs but it’s probably possible

 

[Looktothemax]

Potentially?? I don’t think I’ve seen people get technicians for PDOs but it’s probably possible

I would need a professional to do this

 

[Ben07]

Send pic cant help you otherwise.

 

[sigma]

ignore those people
if you have wrinkles take care of them
why skin lightening? black skin does not look bad, only when it is jaundiced

 

[Looktothemax]

ignore those people
if you have wrinkles take care of them
why skin lightening? black skin does not look bad, only when it is jaundiced

There are too many harmful stereotypes and when I start socializing with people they weaponize them against me

 

[Wilk]

I look to be in my mid 20s on social media (in real life I can pass for a little younger) but I'm facing ageism because I keep getting asked "are you married?" "do you have kids" question and getting judged by it from men. I'm wondering will facial countouring or a facelift make me look like a teenager so that I can avoid this type of ageism?? It's really hindering me mentally and socially. I don't like this conservative crowd who thinks that the only purpose in life for a woman is marriage and children, which is something I have no interest in doing in this lifetime

The main objective of social hierarchy is to create positive neurological stimulu on those who enslave themselfs to obey it and to punish those who do not. The most far away you can be from it, the most free and simultaneously happy you can be. It have been common for philosophers and other considerably smart people to not have children or partners, and to isolate themselfs from the stupidity of the masses