Experience all that matters for SOME men is your appearance

[endlesspotential]

i dont really have someone to vent to, so now im here
long story short, i was really ugly since i was a child, but with age and with working on myself i started looking relatively normal.
no guys ever have approached me and always ignored my existence, if not bullying me
this summer i finally got a boyfriend and i thought everything was great, regardless of how quick everything happend(4m) in my world view
i started trusting him and showing up on my bad days, when im bloated, havent gotten enough sleep, bad hair day etc. these days i felt he wasnt as affectionate to me as always
one day i told him as a joke that he wasnt even looking at me at school before i ascended. he told me that it was obvious, like why would he need an ugly girl.
also got told before that he was a little grossed out with my appearance, cant blame him, me too lol
for reference, in my eyes hes obviously the most handsome man alive, but objectively hes not any better than mtn or so(ik its already above most population)
my goal was ofc to be loved, but i thought i was a little more than my appearance

 

[Тоска́]

Appearance is obviously significant, this is always the case the same way you can most likely accurately judge his appearance and mention it in this post despite wanting to refute it's importance to you, but obviously he did not hate you in entirety, if he could not stand you youd be able to tell if he was just stringing you around for status (if you are not naive and suspicious of him since the improvement). Again, as a physical being obviously it is something to be considered, with entire or guaranteed stability claiming irrelevance to physical attraction being an imaginary, fairy tale byproduct. You are treating his judgment on your appearance in a hyperbolic manner, so on this basis you maybe incompatible; with this ditch him or take him for what he is.

 

[endlesspotential]

Appearance is obviously significant, this is always the case the same way you can most likely accurately judge his appearance and mention it in this post despite wanting to refute it's importance to you, but obviously he did not hate you in entirety, if he could not stand you youd be able to tell if he was just stringing you around for status (if you are not naive and suspicious of him since the improvement). Again, as a physical being obviously it is something to be considered, with entire or guaranteed stability claiming irrelevance to physical attraction being an imaginary, fairy tale byproduct.

i agree, looks is what draws your attention, but personality is what any relationship builds on
if someone just sees you as an accessory then i consider it as a problem

 

[Тоска́]

added onto the first reply a bit, but yeah i understand the sentiment.

 

[milkandkisses]

men will date you even if you look bad bc they can still use you for your body. but they will only respect and cherish you if you look good and is desired by other men

 

[The Dark Passenger]

men will date you even if you look bad bc they can still use you for your body. but they will only respect and cherish you if you look good and is desired by other men

Trve

 

[Beautiful]

Appearance is obviously significant, this is always the case the same way you can most likely accurately judge his appearance and mention it in this post despite wanting to refute it's importance to you, but obviously he did not hate you in entirety, if he could not stand you youd be able to tell if he was just stringing you around for status (if you are not naive and suspicious of him since the improvement). Again, as a physical being obviously it is something to be considered, with entire or guaranteed stability claiming irrelevance to physical attraction being an imaginary, fairy tale byproduct. You are treating his judgment on your appearance in a hyperbolic manner, so on this basis you maybe incompatible; with this ditch him or take him for what he is.

i dont really have someone to vent to, so now im here
long story short, i was really ugly since i was a child, but with age and with working on myself i started looking relatively normal.
no guys ever have approached me and always ignored my existence, if not bullying me
this summer i finally got a boyfriend and i thought everything was great, regardless of how quick everything happend(4m) in my world view
i started trusting him and showing up on my bad days, when im bloated, havent gotten enough sleep, bad hair day etc. these days i felt he wasnt as affectionate to me as always
one day i told him as a joke that he wasnt even looking at me at school before i ascended. he told me that it was obvious, like why would he need an ugly girl.
also got told before that he was a little grossed out with my appearance, cant blame him, me too lol
for reference, in my eyes hes obviously the most handsome man alive, but objectively hes not any better than mtn or so(ik its already above most population)
my goal was ofc to be loved, but i thought i was a little more than my appearance

Tbh idc too much about appearance obviously not gonna date a ltb or nothing but if shes decent looking w good personality then we good.

 

[The Dark Passenger]

i dont really have someone to vent to, so now im here
long story short, i was really ugly since i was a child, but with age and with working on myself i started looking relatively normal.
no guys ever have approached me and always ignored my existence, if not bullying me
this summer i finally got a boyfriend and i thought everything was great, regardless of how quick everything happend(4m) in my world view
i started trusting him and showing up on my bad days, when im bloated, havent gotten enough sleep, bad hair day etc. these days i felt he wasnt as affectionate to me as always
one day i told him as a joke that he wasnt even looking at me at school before i ascended. he told me that it was obvious, like why would he need an ugly girl.
also got told before that he was a little grossed out with my appearance, cant blame him, me too lol
for reference, in my eyes hes obviously the most handsome man alive, but objectively hes not any better than mtn or so(ik its already above most population)
my goal was ofc to be loved, but i thought i was a little more than my appearance

*ALL

 

[Тоска́]

>idc about appearance
>i wont date ltb or nothing
ok yeah dnr

 

[The Dark Passenger]

>idc about appearance
>i wont date ltb or nothing
ok yeah dnr

I was gonna say that.

 

[haibane]

i dont really have someone to vent to, so now im here
long story short, i was really ugly since i was a child, but with age and with working on myself i started looking relatively normal.
no guys ever have approached me and always ignored my existence, if not bullying me
this summer i finally got a boyfriend and i thought everything was great, regardless of how quick everything happend(4m) in my world view
i started trusting him and showing up on my bad days, when im bloated, havent gotten enough sleep, bad hair day etc. these days i felt he wasnt as affectionate to me as always
one day i told him as a joke that he wasnt even looking at me at school before i ascended. he told me that it was obvious, like why would he need an ugly girl.
also got told before that he was a little grossed out with my appearance, cant blame him, me too lol
for reference, in my eyes hes obviously the most handsome man alive, but objectively hes not any better than mtn or so(ik its already above most population)
my goal was ofc to be loved, but i thought i was a little more than my appearance

i get not wanting to be with someone u dont find attractive but if thats the only thing he likes u for thats not a good thing cus it just shows hes willing to dump u for a better looking girl