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Most of us use this forum for many hours a day, every day. Many people also don’t interact much with others in real life or simply don’t leave their rooms. This makes it easier for us to believe most of what we read here, especially regarding relationships as you're not able to make a judgment by yourself about what is surounding you . Looks start to seem as important as people here claim, partly because you barely touch grass. It also leads to believing in outdated standards (at least in the West), such as the importance of virginity. When I was a virgin, I didn’t want to lose my virginity to someone who wasn’t one obviously. But it’s strange that some of you expect a virgin when you aren’t one yourselves. The same goes for body count ;in major cities, most people don’t really care unless it’s unusually high (for this age range, maybe over five). It’s normal for 16yo to expect others to be virgins, but if you’re older and trying to find a woman your age who is a virgin and willing to sleep with you outside of marriage you’re being delusional .
As for looks, they obviously matter, but for some of you, it might be a coping mechanism. If you’re awkward and don’t make an effort to socialize, then yes, you’d need to be exceptionally attractive to get attention. But with basic social skills and a bit of charm, you can easily find someone within your range. Some of you are just "stacysexual" and tend to overestimate yourselves. No matter how good you look if you're an absolute weirdo and an empty shell you will not do good in life . Being hot will make you able to smash but nobody is willing to date a boring useless person .
I can't speak for all of you as this forum is international but this is the case in most places that are not third world countries.
As for looks, they obviously matter, but for some of you, it might be a coping mechanism. If you’re awkward and don’t make an effort to socialize, then yes, you’d need to be exceptionally attractive to get attention. But with basic social skills and a bit of charm, you can easily find someone within your range. Some of you are just "stacysexual" and tend to overestimate yourselves. No matter how good you look if you're an absolute weirdo and an empty shell you will not do good in life . Being hot will make you able to smash but nobody is willing to date a boring useless person .
I can't speak for all of you as this forum is international but this is the case in most places that are not third world countries.