Am I the asshole? 🤔

[Deleted Member 106781]

She asked me what would I say if she got pregnant right now, and I said “I would tell you to abort it, and I wouldn’t be very supportive of her giving birth to it.”

She’s fifteen fyi. She started going on a rant about how that’s not a healthy answer and how she wouldn’t appreciate a friend telling her that because she’s already going through stress.

But, Im not gonna sugar coat shit just cause you’re pregnant. I said if she gave birth I would help with the child I would just be disappointed w/ her decision.

Was I being an asshole?

 

[andrewbeta98]

She asked me what would I say if she got pregnant right now, and I said “I would tell you to abort it, and I wouldn’t be very supportive of her giving birth to it.”

She’s fifteen fyi. She started going on a rant about how that’s not a healthy answer and how she wouldn’t appreciate a friend telling her that because she’s already going through stress.

But, Im not gonna sugar coat shit just cause you’re pregnant. I said if she gave birth I would help with the child I would just be disappointed w/ her decision.

Was I being an asshole?

I'm not pro abortion but you were not asshole

 

[Deleted Member 106781]

I'm not pro abortion but you were not asshole

I’m thinking about apologizing to her but idrk what to say.

 

[brizi is jester]

She asked me what would I say if she got pregnant right now, and I said “I would tell you to abort it, and I wouldn’t be very supportive of her giving birth to it.”

She’s fifteen fyi. She started going on a rant about how that’s not a healthy answer and how she wouldn’t appreciate a friend telling her that because she’s already going through stress.

But, Im not gonna sugar coat shit just cause you’re pregnant. I said if she gave birth I would help with the child I would just be disappointed w/ her decision.

Was I being an asshole?

I mean Ur being clear that u don't want a child. Not an asshole

 

[Deleted Member 106781]

I mean Ur being clear that u don't want a child. Not an asshole

Yeah but it wasn’t about me being pregnant it was about her being pregnant.

 

[brizi is jester]

I’m thinking about apologizing to her but idrk what to say.

Say sum shit like"my bad for what I said earlier, I just didn't like the thought of having a child so young" sum NT Shi like that

 

[brizi is jester]

Yeah but it wasn’t about me being pregnant it was about her being pregnant.

Oh I read it wrong I thought she was Ur gf

 

[Deleted Member 106781]

Oh I read it wrong I thought she was Ur gf

LMAOOOO

 

[Byro]

She asked me what would I say if she got pregnant right now, and I said “I would tell you to abort it, and I wouldn’t be very supportive of her giving birth to it.”

She’s fifteen fyi. She started going on a rant about how that’s not a healthy answer and how she wouldn’t appreciate a friend telling her that because she’s already going through stress.

But, Im not gonna sugar coat shit just cause you’re pregnant. I said if she gave birth I would help with the child I would just be disappointed w/ her decision.

Was I being an asshole?

Absolutely not. Having a child at 15-16 is completely detrimental for not only the mother and also the baby and the family around it as the financial aid possible for the child will have to leech from the parents or the father. Not to mention the father is most likely going to be terrified and end up a deadbeat. By no means do I like abortion but speaking honestly here it’s the most logical answer

 

[jest]

nta. its not like youre telling her to get one or you wont be her friend or something, you were honest with her

 

[True Spaniard]

In what way did you say it like calm or marking your ground

 

[SevenColorCrystalBall]

I'm not pro abortion but you were not asshole

I'm very pro-abortion but depending on how he said it seems like he might be

 

[TFC]

She asked me what would I say if she got pregnant right now, and I said “I would tell you to abort it, and I wouldn’t be very supportive of her giving birth to it.”

She’s fifteen fyi. She started going on a rant about how that’s not a healthy answer and how she wouldn’t appreciate a friend telling her that because she’s already going through stress.

But, Im not gonna sugar coat shit just cause you’re pregnant. I said if she gave birth I would help with the child I would just be disappointed w/ her decision.

Was I being an asshole?

DNR, and yes

 

[brizi is jester]

I'm very pro-abortion but depending on how he said it seems like he might be

Kirky wouldn't like u

 

[Byro]

I'm very pro-abortion but depending on how he said it seems like he might be

I don’t think so. Being realistic here having a child at that age is so fucking stupid

 

[SevenColorCrystalBall]

I don’t think so. Being realistic here having a child at that age is so fucking stupid

But depending on how he said it, she might want to do it even more since she doesn't sound like she's thinkng rationally, you need to be careful if you try to help people like that

 

[Deleted Member 106781]

But depending on how he said it, she might want to do it even more since she doesn't sound like she's thinkng rationally, you need to be careful if you try to help people like that

I’m a girl. And she was saying it to joke and see our reaction.

 

[Deleted Member 106781]

In what way did you say it like calm or marking your ground

I said it calmly but I was a bit shocked she asked us that so maybe I said it bit aggressively.

 

[Deleted Member 106781]

Absolutely not. Having a child at 15-16 is completely detrimental for not only the mother and also the baby and the family around it as the financial aid possible for the child will have to leech from the parents or the father. Not to mention the father is most likely going to be terrified and end up a deadbeat. By no means do I like abortion but speaking honestly here it’s the most logical answer

That’s the main reason I said to abort it but I didn’t specify as to why.