its sad to say but u cant help ppl who dont want to be helped, most of them also very well know the consequences. a lot of ppl crave, idolize, and praise different mental disorders. usually for women its the ones that can be romanticized, signal fragility or femininity, and can pull ppl in to want to give them attention or ‘save’ them rather than scaring them off. so ull often see “i have anxiety and im sensitive and have ana” rather than “i have BPD rage episodes” “im schizophrenic and get thoughts of wanting to kill ppl”