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More or less everything you’ve learnt about the blackpill is true.
Maybe not in an overt way and not nearly as exaggerated if you live in this echo chamber but it forms the backdrop of almost every interaction.
But what I wanna talk about today is the importance of social fluency.
You can be an hmtn-lhtn and that’s a sweet spot for appeal as a teen.
But the truth is uglier dudes with nothing going on for them on the looks side will outperform you if they’re more social.
If you’re a rotter here it might seem as if post ascension you’ll attract girls just by existence.
And sure, that has happened (albeit rarely).
I cannot stress enough how looks alone won’t get you success (realistic ascensions).
The NTpill is very very real.
And honestly it makes stuff worse.. If you somewhat ascend and look good yet still get no bitches it can be a huge hit.
You have to reach out to girls as a guy even if you look good in your head.
Do not listen to the cope here.
A girl can give you IOI’s but almost all girls want the guy to approach.
Do not think of reaching out to women as an activity where you’re lowering yourself.
It’s really just a numbers game
Maybe not in an overt way and not nearly as exaggerated if you live in this echo chamber but it forms the backdrop of almost every interaction.
But what I wanna talk about today is the importance of social fluency.
You can be an hmtn-lhtn and that’s a sweet spot for appeal as a teen.
But the truth is uglier dudes with nothing going on for them on the looks side will outperform you if they’re more social.
If you’re a rotter here it might seem as if post ascension you’ll attract girls just by existence.
And sure, that has happened (albeit rarely).
I cannot stress enough how looks alone won’t get you success (realistic ascensions).
The NTpill is very very real.
And honestly it makes stuff worse.. If you somewhat ascend and look good yet still get no bitches it can be a huge hit.
You have to reach out to girls as a guy even if you look good in your head.
Do not listen to the cope here.
A girl can give you IOI’s but almost all girls want the guy to approach.
Do not think of reaching out to women as an activity where you’re lowering yourself.
It’s really just a numbers game
