any other ugly girls over-sexualize themselves in hopes someone will finally love them

[TonyDr]

even guys around my looksmatch just want me for my body none of them even try to get to know me

That's the neat part : you hold that standard and don't break it to anybody, even to the most gl man ever you want so bad

 

[snoopy12]

your parents cant fucking force you its your life your decisions your choice to love whoever you want

im just not willing to lose my entire life for a boy
its more complicated than that

 

[snoopy12]

That's the neat part : you hold that standard and don't break it to anybody, even to the most gl man ever you want so bad

in that case im never gonna find a guy
literally no boys my age want girls with high standards like that

 

[foidslayer]

Girls are sensitive u gotta treat them with a bit of jazz and pazazz. You will realise one day you can't treat them the same as the dudes.

i feel liked girls get lied to much more leading to worse insecurities and more self conciouseosnensess (idk how to spell it)

 

[foidslayer]

in that case im never gonna find a guy
literally no boys my age want girls with high standards like that

you’re worth more than the negative thoughts in your head bradar legit you don’t have to prove your value for someone to love you the right people will appreciate you exactly as you are and besides im sure u have much more in life than caring about what incels think

 

[snoopy12]

i feel liked girls get lied to much more leading to worse insecurities and more self conciouseosnensess (idk how to spell it)

thats my issue
people irl tell me im cute or pretty all the time but getting rated here and how i get treated by guys just shows me that everything im told is a lie and that im not pretty enough to be genuinely loved

 

[Deleted Member 105302]

im just not willing to lose my entire life for a boy
its more complicated than that

thats true but in the future if you really love someone and want to be with them till you die your going to have to either choose your family or that guy/or convince your parents to approve of him. It is complicated and i do wish you luck

 

[tonisworld]

That's the neat part : you hold that standard and don't break it to anybody, even to the most gl man ever you want so bad

Cause ur still young. No normal guy in their right mind wanna settle this early. Just hold on a bit. But, have you met my boy @emeraldpilled? He said he wants you for who you are not just your exterior. He said you beauty is inside and out. What a guy this emerald

 

[TonyDr]

in that case im never gonna find a guy
literally no boys my age want girls with high standards like that

Did you live in an area when you need to wait for marriage or what ?

 

[snoopy12]

thats true but in the future if you really love someone and want to be with them till you die your going to have to either choose your family or that guy/or convince your parents to approve of him. It is complicated and i do wish you luck

i'd always choose my family
its not even just them, its my whole community, faith, and life
i cant ruin my families reputation like that and put all my siblings and cousins at risk of never getting married bc they know about the family name from me

 

[Deleted Member 105302]

in that case im never gonna find a guy
literally no boys my age want girls with high standards like that

you will true love is priceless and even if it takes a long time you will find someone

 

[foidslayer]

thats my issue
people irl tell me im cute or pretty all the time but getting rated here and how i get treated by guys just shows me that everything im told is a lie and that im not pretty enough to be genuinely loved

i never saw you but im sure you arent ugly, besides this is a bp looksmaxxing forum that has the highest standards possible. ltns irl are capable of being loved for who they are so dont stress it

 

[snoopy12]

Cause ur still young. No normal guy in their right mind wanna settle this early. Just hold on a bit.

i guess

 

[tonisworld]

thats my issue
people irl tell me im cute or pretty all the time but getting rated here and how i get treated by guys just shows me that everything im told is a lie and that im not pretty enough to be genuinely loved

There are genuine fridge freezers being loved. It's not your looks. It's the age. Just wait.

 

[Thebird]

na tbh

Why are you here

 

[snoopy12]

Did you live in an area when you need to wait for marriage or what ?

no lit the opposite
ppl in my community are expected to wait but people i know from my town and stuff kinda just see girls as objects for sex like we dont really matter to them

 

[Deleted Member 105302]

i'd always choose my family
its not even just them, its my whole community, faith, and life
i cant ruin my families reputation like that and put all my siblings and cousins at risk of never getting married bc they know about the family name from me

good point, but if a guy really loved you and knew abt the circumstances he would be willing to change for your familys approval

 

[snoopy12]

i never saw you but im sure you arent ugly, besides this is a bp looksmaxxing forum that has the highest standards possible. ltns irl are capable of being loved for who they are so dont stress it

i know im not ugly but im not pretty enough for a guy to look at me and like fall in love or something

 

[Deleted Member 78476]

Why are you here

idk my reply was so useless I wish I could be useful

 

[foidslayer]

i know im not ugly but im not pretty enough for a guy to look at me and like fall in love or something

no human is that ugly, and even if you believe so looks wont last forever. We'll all grow old and wrinkly

 

[tonisworld]

i know im not ugly but im not pretty enough for a guy to look at me and like fall in love or something

Third times a charm ill stop tagging after swear. @emeraldpilled

 

[Thebird]

idk my reply was so useless I wish I could be useful

no I am saying it as you’re probably not ugly your soul is way too pure

 

[snoopy12]

good point, but if a guy really loved you and knew abt the circumstances he would be willing to change for your familys approval

yes, my ex loved me enough for that
but its not just that my parents dont want it
its putting a bad name for my entire extended family which is really important in my community
if i kept going out with him and someone from my community saw me out with a black guy thats already enough for nobody to let their sons marry me or even my sister

 

[snoopy12]

Third times a charm ill stop tagging after swear. @emeraldpilled

hes cute im not edating tho

 

[Deleted Member 105302]

i know im not ugly but im not pretty enough for a guy to look at me and like fall in love or something

if a guy loved you he wouldn't just fall in love at first sight logically that's just lust at first sight, yes your looks matter but if he loved you he would stay throughout your changes and guide you trough your problems. that's what a relationship is.

 

[snoopy12]

if a guy loved you he wouldn't just fall in love at first sight logically that's just lust at first sight, yes your looks matter but if he loved you he would stay throughout your changes and guide you trough your problems. that's what a relationship is.

except that they can find another girl who's prettier so why would they stay for me

 

[foidslayer]

if a guy loved you he wouldn't just fall in love at first sight logically that's just lust at first sight, yes your looks matter but if he loved you he would stay throughout your changes and guide you trough your problems. that's what a relationship is.

Most relationships are honestly "love"-wrapped lust. Especially in teenage years

 

[Deleted Member 105302]

except that they can find another girl who's prettier so why would they stay for me

because people who actually love don't do that stupid shit

 

[TonyDr]

no lit the opposite
ppl in my community are expected to wait but people i know from my town and stuff kinda just see girls as objects for sex like we dont really matter to them

Greatest patriarchy trick i ever saw is making women believe that giving them what they (the men) want without any signs of commitment will be called liberation.

I could be useful

You are dw

i know im not ugly but im not pretty enough for a guy to look at me and like fall in love or something

Building promixity with a guy, developping feelings overtime by spending time together

 

[tonisworld]

hes cute im not edating tho

He said he willing to fly to you

except that they can find another girl who's prettier so why would they stay for me

You can say that about u too tho. Everyone can find someone who's a bit taller a bit hotter a bit richer. It's those bonds u create where it snot worth losing them if u do go looking got someone else.

 

[snoopy12]

Most relationships are honestly "love"-wrapped lust. Especially in teenage years

literally half the girls i know have boyfriends who i can tell genuinely love them its so sad for me to see

 

[snoopy12]

because people who actually love don't do that stupid shit

thats the point nobody can love me that much

 

[foidslayer]

literally half the girls i know have boyfriends who i can tell genuinely love them its so sad for me to see

bruh you'll be fine a year or so ago i fell inlove with an ltb that cucked me with idk how much guys. if an ltb can pull so can you

 

[snoopy12]

Greatest patriarchy trick i ever saw is making women believe that giving them what they (the men) want without any signs of commitment will be called liberation.

You are dw

Building promixity with a guy, developping feelings overtime by spending time together

yeah but i mean no guys are willing to build "proximity" with me unless im willing to fuck them immediately

 

[Deleted Member 78476]

no I am saying it as you’re probably not ugly your soul is way too pure

You are dw

thank you both ver much

 

[foidslayer]

yeah but i mean no guys are willing to build "proximity" with me unless im willing to fuck them immediately

Then you're surrounding yourself with the wrong crowd unfortunately

 

[Deleted Member 105302]

thats the point nobody can love me that much

somebody will you just have to wait don't waste your time dating random people take time to analyze them see who they are you still are young dont worry

 

[snoopy12]

Then you're surrounding yourself with the wrong crowd unfortunately

i probably am but i go to an all girls school so i dont really know guys i dont have much options

 

[TonyDr]

except that they can find another girl who's prettier so why would they stay for me

I saw sometimes girls at work who are more objectively beautiful than my fiancée, and still don't want to know them more than a customer

 

[snoopy12]

I saw sometimes girls at work who are more objectively beautiful than my fiancée, and still don't want to know them more than a customer

thats so cute omfg

 

[foidslayer]

i probably am but i go to an all girls school so i dont really know guys i dont have much options

I'd say look around find those instagram random gcs they make in your country (every country has those and theyre usually mixed female and males) make friends with them, get to know them, fit in with them and get followers that you know from them and youll find people to date. I'd advice making sure the group has mostly good-mannered people so you dont go to a worse path

 

[tonisworld]

I saw sometimes girls at work who are more objectively beautiful than my fiancée, and still don't want to know them more than a customer

Cause ur girl is pretty still and she's all those other things on top right?

 

[snoopy12]

I'd say look around find those instagram random gcs they make in your country (every country has those and theyre usually mixed female and males) make friends with them, get to know them, fit in with them and get followers that you know from them and youll find people to date. I'd advice making sure the group has mostly good-mannered people so you dont go to a worse path

idk if they have that in the US ive never heard of that

 

[foidslayer]

idk if they have that in the US ive never heard of that

They exist sm more in the US than anywhere else

 

[foidslayer]

Cause ur girl is pretty still and she's all those other things on top right?

Loyalty isnt hard

 

[snoopy12]

They exist sm more in the US than anywhere else

huh interesting
im in gcs for possible colleges i might go to next year but most of the ppl dont live close by i wont see them till school starts in august

 

[TonyDr]

yeah but i mean no guys are willing to build "proximity" with me unless im willing to fuck them immediately

I will speak for myself but i could still sleep with a girl on the 1st date (if i was single ofc) and still pursuing her after, especially if i like her personality and her vibe, her pov about life etc

Ik it's not the same with all guys, but still, stand your ground and expect commitment before anything sexual

 

[Deleted Member 105302]

@yasycat true love is priceless its not limerence or obsession in fact have of those relationships that are romanticzed based on those topics fail because of that. If a guy loves you he will tell you what you do is wrong and help you. He wont let you self destruct or call yourself ugly. He wont leave the relationship after one fight and he will talk about his feelings no matter how wrong or right he is. Someone who loves you WILL wait for you. Love at first sight is bs. its just two people finding each other attractive with one look. No personality no feelings nothing just your face, they don't even know a single fact about you.

 

[Deleted Member 105302]

i probably am but i go to an all girls school so i dont really know guys i dont have much options

pace yourself find new friends new people

 

[snoopy12]

@yasycat true love is priceless its not limerence or obsession in fact have of those relationships that are romanticzed based on those topics fail because of that. If a guy loves you he will tell you what you do is wrong and help you. He wont let you self destruct or call yourself ugly. He wont leave the relationship after one fight and he will talk about his feelings no matter how wrong or right he is. Someone who loves you WILL wait for you. Love at first sight is bs. its just two people finding each other attractive with one look. No personality no feelings nothing just your face, they don't even know a single fact about you.

i found him i had that guy and i couldnt even be with him its just miserable
all that stuff is true but its just my circumstances that make it so terrible