It won’t stop when i stop using social media, they still have a picture etc
You are confusing a Sunk Cost with an Active Liability.
The picture is just data on a server. It has zero mass. It cannot punch you. It cannot drain your bank account.
You are the one doing the damage. You are manually engaging a stress response to fight a war that is already over. You are burning collagen, holding water, and tanking your testosterone to pay interest on a debt you cannot settle.
Robert Sapolsky covered this in his work on Zebras. A zebra runs from a lion, escapes, and immediately eats grass. It has zero overhead. It does not worry if the lion still has its scent.
You are running from a JPEG. You are staying in biological liquidation mode 24/7 over pixels.
Declare bankruptcy on the opinion of the internet. Treat the threat like spam mail and delete the mental notification. It is the only way to stop the inflation of your cortisol.
I broke down the financial logic of this error here. Stop paying the tax.