anyone else live off distractions?

[angelsvoid]

the only way to get over something or even someone is to replace it with someone else.
works like a charm until it’s the same thing with the next person, like a loop over and over.
how to cope with this?
i don’t think it’s healthy as i can never really find distractions and when i do on the rare occasion im stuck with it for a looooong time.
and this how it goes
i don’t really find joy in anything else and i really need something to get my mind off everything

 

[copevictim]

I just collect a bunch of hobbies so I'm always occupied and don't have the time or capacity to think about what I'm distracting myself from

 

[Slut]

the only way to get over something or even someone is to replace it with someone else.
works like a charm until it’s the same thing with the next person, like a loop over and over.
how to cope with this?
i don’t think it’s healthy as i can never really find distractions and when i do on the rare occasion im stuck with it for a looooong time.
and this how it goes
i don’t really find joy in anything else and i really need something to get my mind off everything

Idk do drugs or something

 

[angelsvoid]

I just collect a bunch of hobbies so I'm always occupied and don't have the time or capacity to think about what I'm distracting myself from

what hobbies do you have??
even if i’m occupied the thought always lingers and i have nostalgic limerence
like it’s always in the back of my head, even when communicating with someone else

 

[angelsvoid]

Idk do drugs or something

🫩, any recs lol?
i’ve tried smoking n shit but idk

 

[Slut]

🫩, any recs lol?
i’ve tried smoking n shit but idk

Idk I’m not much of a junkie, opioids would probably be your best bet but literally any rec drug will help

 

[angelsvoid]

Idk I’m not much of a junkie, opioids would probably be your best bet but literally any rec drug will help

i’m only 14 i don’t wanna fuck myself
uo really aswell

 

[yazub]

the only way to get over something or even someone is to replace it with someone else.
works like a charm until it’s the same thing with the next person, like a loop over and over.
how to cope with this?
i don’t think it’s healthy as i can never really find distractions and when i do on the rare occasion im stuck with it for a looooong time.
and this how it goes
i don’t really find joy in anything else and i really need something to get my mind off everything

yes i live off of distractions and i have my whole life

once everything goes silent I get pessimistic and begin to hate everything about my life

so usually around when its time to sleep

 

[chudlite67]

the only way to get over something or even someone is to replace it with someone else.
works like a charm until it’s the same thing with the next person, like a loop over and over.
how to cope with this?
i don’t think it’s healthy as i can never really find distractions and when i do on the rare occasion im stuck with it for a looooong time.
and this how it goes
i don’t really find joy in anything else and i really need something to get my mind off everything

yeah im good at this

 

[copevictim]

what hobbies do you have??
even if i’m occupied the thought always lingers and i have nostalgic limerence
like it’s always in the back of my head, even when communicating with someone else

chess, drawing and journaling are the things that I've consistently done to distract myself but things like sports, painting, running, learning a language, baking + cooking, collecting things that make you happy are really good hobbies too
journaling is very underrated but more just dumping your thoughts onto paper, doesnt have to be coherent at all
if all else fails go on lexapro and numb yourself out

 

[angelsvoid]

yes i live off of distractions and i have my whole life

once everything goes silent I get pessimistic and begin to hate everything about my life

so usually around when its time to sleep

hm yeah it's tiring

 

[angelsvoid]

chess, drawing and journaling are the things that I've consistently done to distract myself but things like sports, painting, running, learning a language, baking + cooking, collecting things that make you happy are really good hobbies too
journaling is very underrated but more just dumping your thoughts onto paper, doesnt have to be coherent at all
if all else fails go on lexapro and numb yourself out

I'd lwk do all this shit but I'm a perfectionist and having a bad tempter, I used to draw as a kid and lost it all.
but like if I'm baking + cooking, drawing or writing and mess up I'd js strach the whole process and give up
and journaling would prob get found by my mom and next think yk I'm in an asylum
and yeah will prob try
I only smoke tbh

 

[v3daddy]

just study biochemistry in your free time

 

[angelsvoid]

just study biochemistry in your free time

too much work

 

[aspiringpslgodess]

the only way to get over something or even someone is to replace it with someone else.
works like a charm until it’s the same thing with the next person, like a loop over and over.
how to cope with this?
i don’t think it’s healthy as i can never really find distractions and when i do on the rare occasion im stuck with it for a looooong time.
and this how it goes
i don’t really find joy in anything else and i really need something to get my mind off everything

real shit

 

[beeftripe]

i

the only way to get over something or even someone is to replace it with someone else.
works like a charm until it’s the same thing with the next person, like a loop over and over.
how to cope with this?
i don’t think it’s healthy as i can never really find distractions and when i do on the rare occasion im stuck with it for a looooong time.
and this how it goes
i don’t really find joy in anything else and i really need something to get my mind off everything

used to do this until i realized that i was a slut(shocking!?) and people hated me

 

[angelsvoid]

i

used to do this until i realized that i was a slut(shocking!?) and people hated me

damn brah how can you be a slut?
depends how fast you switch people tho ig

 

[beeftripe]

damn brah how can you be a slut?
depends how fast you switch people tho ig

yeah i js switched rlly fast it was fun but makes you feel like shit

 

[Galgenbruder]

Work out and smoke cigarettes

 

[angelsvoid]

yeah i js switched rlly fast it was fun but makes you feel like shit

probably that’s why with me it takes kinda years to find another person to obsess over and yeah it drains the life out of you

 

[angelsvoid]

Work out and smoke cigarettes

i already smoke

 

[beeftripe]

probably that’s why with me it takes kinda years to find another person to obsess over and yeah it drains the life out of you

ikr its so tiring and its only superficial like you still feel like a shell ykwim? but i guess fake joy is better than none at all but then you remember they hate you and die of embarrassment

 

[angelsvoid]

ikr its so tiring and its only superficial like you still feel like a shell ykwim? but i guess fake joy is better than none at all but then you remember they hate you and die of embarrassment

yeah im a negativistic so i always see the bad stuff and im kinda scared of the ending, i try to hide the sadness from the person before but yeah