APPROACHING MEN ?& in 2026

[Duchess]

bro how do I approach men as a barista at my new job I keep seeing this guy who's got that patrick bateman clothing style and even though he's kinda mtn in the face w acne he dosent dress like wannabe hood guys in my area and has a AP royal oak so it makes him htn to me

like he was talking about crypto with his friend and thats stuff that i know but im lowkey scared to break into discussions and look like some annoying woman

 

[𐲀 𐲢 𐲠 𐲀 𐲇 𐲰]

give him free drinks

 

[Thebird]

bro how do I approach men as a barista at my new job I keep seeing this guy who's got that patrick bateman clothing style and even though he's kinda mtn in the face w acne he dosent dress like wannabe hood guys in my area and has a AP royal oak so it makes him htn to me

like he was talking about crypto with his friend and thats stuff that i know but im lowkey scared to break into discussions and look like some annoying woman

DONT

 

[Duchess]

DONT

OK I WONT IM TOO SCARED ANYWAYS

 

[Thebird]

OK I WONT IM TOO SCARED ANYWAYS

YEAH MOIDS ARE TOO SCARY ANYWAYS

 

[BigDihDiddy]

bro how do I approach men as a barista at my new job I keep seeing this guy who's got that patrick bateman clothing style and even though he's kinda mtn in the face w acne he dosent dress like wannabe hood guys in my area and has a AP royal oak so it makes him htn to me

like he was talking about crypto with his friend and thats stuff that i know but im lowkey scared to break into discussions and look like some annoying woman

n***a i thought guys approached women all the time in that job tho pretty much any first move u make will be good

Most women want guys to approach so n*****s are more flattered by approach and compliments than women

 

[Duchess]

YEAH MOIDS ARE TOO SCARY ANYWAYS

BC FR if i get rejected i would never recover so i cant risk it

 

[Thebird]

BC FR if i get rejected i would never recover so i cant risk it

You will recover and you won’t get rejected just do it

 

[Duchess]

n***a i thought guys approached women all the time in that job tho pretty much any first move u make will be good

Most women want guys to approach so n*****s are more flattered by approach and compliments than women

yes but guys like this must get approached all the time by stacies bro idk if i was a stacy id approach guys like this

 

[Monsieur Meow]

Don't approach yet js give him a hint idkk

 

[FaceIQ]

yes but guys like this must get approached all the time by stacies bro idk if i was a stacy id approach guys like this

Autistic take

 

[FaceIQ]

bro how do I approach men as a barista at my new job I keep seeing this guy who's got that patrick bateman clothing style and even though he's kinda mtn in the face w acne he dosent dress like wannabe hood guys in my area and has a AP royal oak so it makes him htn to me

like he was talking about crypto with his friend and thats stuff that i know but im lowkey scared to break into discussions and look like some annoying woman

Get his number from someone and send him pics

 

[Duchess]

Don't approach yet js give him a hint idkk

im learning to make hearts on lattes jfl

 

[Krusty]

I actually dont have an idea how to approach anyone

 

[Duchess]

Autistic take

idk bro do i look like i know how males work

 

[Duchess]

Get his number from someone and send him pics

this is the discord e-whore method wtf

 

[Monsieur Meow]

im learning to make hearts on lattes jfl

That's a good start

 

[FaceIQ]

this is the discord e-whore method wtf

Text him and tell him that you were too scared to approach him irl

 

[Monsieur Meow]

Okay what if you just go and sit with him and start talking ab crypto he'll either be very scared or get super attracted

 

[Monsieur Meow]

Does he come order in front of ur face?

 

[DivineBreadEnjoyer]

Okay what if you just go and sit with him and start talking ab crypto he'll either be very scared or get super attracted

That would be so awesome I love hearing about topics that are Intressting but not in a way that I would really seek the information idk if that makes sense but yes

 

[Monsieur Meow]

That would be so awesome I love hearing about topics that are Intressting but not in a way that I would really seek the information idk if that makes sense but yes

Yeah and it's good in this situation cz op knows a lot ab the topic and the guy is interested in it asw

 

[Kultist666]

yes but guys like this must get approached all the time by stacies bro idk if i was a stacy id approach guys like this

guys like that don't get much attention from foids.give it a try you would regret it later if you didnt approach him.Im sure he would be happy

 

[Duchess]

Okay what if you just go and sit with him and start talking ab crypto he'll either be very scared or get super attracted

Yeah but how do u even start a discussion bout this. usually people come to me to talk so I have no idea how to start convos thats my issue

 

[Monsieur Meow]

I would probably stalk him and admire him from afar but never talk to him

 

[Duchess]

Does he come order in front of ur face?

Yeah and we have weird eye contact where idk if its normal, if hes looking at a acne on my face so I get worried and look away like a nd moron

 

[Duchess]

I would probably stalk him and admire him from afar but never talk to him

Thats what Im doing I probably look so creepy I always feel like a predator when im interested in a guy JFL

 

[Monsieur Meow]

Yeah but how do u even start a discussion bout this. usually people come to me to talk so I have no idea how to start convos thats my issue

I have no idea I wish I could help u
Would smth like 'ive heard u mention crypto a lot..etc" be weird

 

[Monsieur Meow]

Yeah and we have weird eye contact where idk if its normal, if hes looking at a acne on my face so I get worried and look away like a nd moron

Don't look away I think js smile like a little bit and I don't think he's looking at ur acne at least in a weird wa cz he has acne too
Do u tell the customers to enjoy their drinks

 

[homiespidyhatesjuice]

bro how do I approach men as a barista at my new job I keep seeing this guy who's got that patrick bateman clothing style and even though he's kinda mtn in the face w acne he dosent dress like wannabe hood guys in my area and has a AP royal oak so it makes him htn to me

like he was talking about crypto with his friend and thats stuff that i know but im lowkey scared to break into discussions and look like some annoying woman

guve him a gold rep

 

[𐲀 𐲢 𐲠 𐲀 𐲇 𐲰]

guve him a gold rep

holy shit ur a genius

 

[homiespidyhatesjuice]

holy shit ur a genius

fr

 

[Duchess]

Don't look away I think js smile like a little bit and I don't think he's looking at ur acne at least in a weird wa cz he has acne too
Do u tell the customers to enjoy their drinks

I mean not rly usually I don't have lots of time to discuss when I finish making the latte which is about 30 seconds of time to say stuff. I had 30 seconds last time where I hesitated on complimenting his watch and saying I have the same female verison of it at home (which I do, but I wouldnt believe if some barista in a mom and pops café if one told me they have this watch)so i js said nothing

 

[comptax]

lowkey i feel like women approaching men can be risky

there r lots of men that would entertain you even if they’re not truly interested bc they’re going for a hook up or enjoy the novelty of a woman hitting on them

maybe try to give him signals like smile a lot or something

 

[Duchess]

lowkey i feel like women approaching men can be risky

there r lots of men that would entertain you even if they’re not truly interested bc they’re going for a hook up or enjoy the novelty of a woman hitting on them

maybe try to give him signals like smile a lot or something

exactly. I am not looking to just hook up personally I'm not that kind of person. I would mainly like to just get to know him lol. I feel like going out of ur way to talk to men gives off the wrong impression. My friend approaches guys lots and she fucks everyone jfl (no judgment wish I had the confidence but i could never do hook ups)

 

[Monsieur Meow]

I mean not rly usually I don't have lots of time to discuss when I finish making the latte which is about 30 seconds of time to say stuff. I had 30 seconds last time where I hesitated on complimenting his watch and saying I have the same female verison of it at home (which I do, but I wouldnt believe if some barista in a mom and pops café if one told me they have this watch)so i js said nothing

Nex time say itttt
That's one way u can start talking to him

 

[Monsieur Meow]

Compliment his watch 100%

 

[comptax]

exactly. I am not looking to just hook up personally I'm not that kind of person. I would mainly like to just get to know him lol. I feel like going out of ur way to talk to men gives off the wrong impression. My friend approaches guys lots and she fucks everyone jfl (no judgment wish I had the confidence but i could never do hook ups)

yeah u gotta be careful with men

good luck though!

 

[Duchess]

Compliment his watch 100%

I'll do this (watch him somehow never come back now that I plan to talk to him lol)

 

[Monsieur Meow]

I'll do this (watch him somehow never come back now that I plan to talk to him lol)

RIGHT
let's hope he does come tho
How many times did he come so far

 

[Duchess]

RIGHT
let's hope he does come tho
How many times did he come so far

2-3 times but it might have been more bc I rarely work

 

[Monsieur Meow]

2-3 times but it might have been more bc I rarely work

Okay hopefully u see him soon
I wish all the best for u
Update us then

 

[HeavyMetalGoth]

Just go up and talk to him on your break
Just be low inhib
what are you like ltb or something?