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Are my standards high

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I want a handsome, tall, white collar, classy man in his 20s-40s with perfect etiquette, good education. He speaks in full sentences with no slang, wears niche fragrance like Pegasus by Parfums de Marly. He doesn't go clubbing. He isn't trendy. He is not woke or liberal. He styles his hair nicely, dresses well. He will never have a buzz cut, wolf cut, mod cut, or perm. Ideally he should be a doctor because I have a fetish for them. He doesn't believe in 50/50 but has established financial boundaries (he would not allow me to step all over him and he wouldn't give me his credit card information out of nowhere, which invades his own boundaries)

These are image examples of males I find attractive. They fit my ideal. I used to like Alain Delon a lot until he passed away, then I began liking the 2nd man. I currently have a crush on the 1st man

 
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I want a handsome, tall, white collar, classy man in his 20s-40s with perfect etiquette, good education. He speaks in full sentences with no slang, wears niche fragrance like Pegasus by Parfums de Marly. He doesn't go clubbing. He isn't trendy. He is not woke or liberal. He styles his hair nicely, dresses well. He will never have a buzz cut, wolf cut, mod cut, or perm. Ideally he should be a doctor because I have a fetish for them. He doesn't believe in 50/50 but has established financial boundaries (he would not allow me to step all over him and he wouldn't give me his credit card information out of nowhere, which invades his own boundaries)

These are image examples of males I find attractive. They fit my ideal. I used to like Alain Delon a lot until he passed away, then I began liking the 2nd man. I currently have a crush on the 1st man

Yes
 
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I want a handsome, tall, white collar, classy man in his 20s-40s with perfect etiquette, good education. He speaks in full sentences with no slang, wears niche fragrance like Pegasus by Parfums de Marly. He doesn't go clubbing. He isn't trendy. He is not woke or liberal. He styles his hair nicely, dresses well. He will never have a buzz cut, wolf cut, mod cut, or perm. Ideally he should be a doctor because I have a fetish for them. He doesn't believe in 50/50 but has established financial boundaries (he would not allow me to step all over him and he wouldn't give me his credit card information out of nowhere, which invades his own boundaries)

These are image examples of males I find attractive. They fit my ideal. I used to like Alain Delon a lot until he passed away, then I began liking the 2nd man. I currently have a crush on the 1st man

What would you rate yourself, let’s start with that
 
What would you rate yourself, let’s start with that
I won't be showing my face here unless to female or gay/asexual male users

I am considered looksmatched with the two men I showed
 
I was LTB-low MTB in the past because of medical problems. My true rating is between high MTB and low HTB.
If that’s true, you won’t have much trouble pulling men like this
 
If that’s true, you won’t have much trouble pulling men like this
I have an easy time on dating apps

Since I have female hair loss (doing treatment for that) and laser complications, I have to fraud with makeup
 
I have an easy time on dating apps

Since I have female hair loss (doing treatment for that) and laser complications, I have to fraud with makeup
Tbh any girl above subhuman has dating apps on easy mode. It’s only a flex when it’s a guy. Back when I was single I used to flex that shit left and right

That’s fine, even with fraud if you’re high mtb+ it still wouldn’t be that hard to pull the kind of guy you want. The issue is that there’s barely any of them like that these days
 
Tbh any girl above subhuman has dating apps on easy mode. It’s only a flex when it’s a guy. Back when I was single I used to flex that shit left and right

That’s fine, even with fraud if you’re high mtb+ it still wouldn’t be that hard to pull the kind of guy you want. The issue is that there’s barely any of them like that these days
come on man, dont lie to her
 
Tbh any girl above subhuman has dating apps on easy mode. It’s only a flex when it’s a guy

That’s fine, even with fraud if you’re high mtb+ it still wouldn’t be that hard to pull the kind of guy you want. The issue is that there’s barely any of them like that these days
Hmm, I don't know. I know an LTB (can DM you) and she never matches with Chads. I have many times. They are usually stupid and vapid

It's not only about physical appearance. Personality is tremendously important too, intelligence even more
 
She’s only lying to herself if she claiming to be a higher rating than she really is. Me telling her this ain’t gonna change her circumstances if she’s lying
It's fine. I don't like his energy, so I'm not taking him seriously.

I can tell you are a nice, reasonable person though
 
Hmm, I don't know. I know an LTB (can DM you) and she never matches with Chads. I have many times. They are usually stupid and vapid

It's not only about physical appearance. Personality is tremendously important too, intelligence even more
Not true, I’ve seen CL n*****s trip over low mtbs but they had body halo

And let’s not cope with personality. Dating apps is 95% looks
 
I don't like dating apps either way, and I'm usually reserved especially around men
I see

Anyway, let’s just stick to what I said originally

If your statement’s true, you won’t have an issue. It’s finding them that’s gonna be hard. Bc I’ll be honest, I don’t see guys like that around
 
I see

Anyway, let’s just stick to what I said originally

If your statement’s true, you won’t have an issue. It’s finding them that’s gonna be hard. Bc I’ll be honest, I don’t see guys like that around
I do find it peculiar how I'm looksmatched with the two men I have posted, and still being told I am "entitled"
 
I do find it peculiar how I'm looksmatched with the two men I have posted, and still being told I am "entitled"
Judging from the nature of the post and the fact you’re asking if your standards were too high, ppl were gonna think you’re not good looking enough for the type you’re looking for

Kinda makes sense, it’s like asking if those guys are out of your league
 
Judging from the nature of the post and the fact you’re asking if your standards were too high, ppl were gonna think you’re not good looking enough for the type you’re looking for

Kinda makes sense, it’s as like asking if those guys are out of your league
I see. I do have low self-esteem due to my past health problems negatively affecting my appearance.

Either way, I have some remorse over posting this. I should have restricted it to private messages. The male users here are already insecure enough. There is a woman out there who will like them and make them happy.
 
Also, I don't think local plastic surgeons in my city would take too kindly to having their pictures from 10-20 years ago posted on a forum like this, haha.

The first man that I showed has gone grey and gained weight... he is in his 60s now
 
want a handsome, tall, white collar, classy man in his 20s-40s with perfect etiquette, good education. He speaks in full sentences with no slang, wears niche fragrance like Pegasus by Parfums de Marly. He doesn't go clubbing. He isn't trendy. He is not woke or liberal. He styles his hair nicely, dresses well. He will never have a buzz cut, wolf cut, mod cut, or perm. Ideally he should be a doctor because I have a fetish for them. He doesn't believe in 50/50 but has established financial boundaries (he would not allow me to step all over him and he wouldn't give me his credit card information out of nowhere, which invades his own boundaries)
Pathetic
 
I won't be showing my face here unless to female or gay/asexual male users

I am considered looksmatched with the two men I showed
i’m gay show me
 
your physical standards are not that high (maybe), but your post is embarrassing

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