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Ask me literally anything AMA

unknownturk1c said:
People my age in there are mostly drunks, night club mfers.

Since i quit all of it, I can't seem to find a lot of people like me, although I can't say I'm not getting invites, a lot of people wants me around for some reason but I just can't find a reason to be there.

I am not like them anymore.
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i’m not saying you need to do the same ( cause i’m like you ) but fr if you want to be the popular guy with all girl on your feet you need to be like them 😂 they just looking us like weird insecure sad men
 
iblame.fWHR said:
i’m not saying you need to do the same ( cause i’m like you ) but fr if you want to be the popular guy with all girl on your feet you need to be like them 😂 they just looking us like weird insecure sad men
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Haha, nah man, I am not looking for any girls. I do get offers time to time by girls my age but I don't really have time for all that.

Hell, I barely have time for my own parents. Growing up sucks bro.
 
unknownturk1c said:
Yeah, I get you man.

Some things just get more difficult every single day.

And I completely understand your burnout, it is quite valid.

I was like that a lot but somehow turned the tables right around with the right mindset. Who would have thought?

The answer I was looking for was within me all along. I didn't need the people I was with. I was my own answer to be honest.
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A story of what set me down a spiral a little bit back in 2022, had other stuff going on but did make me kinda melt then. Pretty much I bailed one of my friends out of a kinda abusive relationship, she got him to try all sorts of drugs and alcohol and he became quite suicidal so I got him out. Was hairy though since she was the leader of the group kinda, she wasn’t so nice to me after, so yeah that wasn’t nice admittedly.
 
Kaari said:
A story of what set me down a spiral a little bit back in 2022, had other stuff going on but did make me kinda melt then. Pretty much I bailed one of my friends out of a kinda abusive relationship, she got him to try all sorts of drugs and alcohol and he became quite suicidal so I got him out. Was hairy though since she was the leader of the group kinda, she wasn’t so nice to me after, so yeah that wasn’t nice admittedly.
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That's a HORRIBLE thing to go through brother.

I'm glad you pulled out when you could.

THAT kind of relationship? I'd rather marry a stone or some shit, nah fuck that.

I am not getting hooked up into anything for someone that barely gives a shit.
 
unknownturk1c said:
That's a HORRIBLE thing to go through brother.

I'm glad you pulled out when you could.

THAT kind of relationship? I'd rather marry a stone or some shit, nah fuck that.

I am not getting hooked up into anything for someone that barely gives a shit.
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I tried to help people relentlessly back in the day, got me in A LOT of bother though, I just didn’t know when to quit and let people walk all over me. Of course I made mistakes but that mistreatment amongst other things made me very bitter I won’t lie to you.
 
Kaari said:
I tried to help people relentlessly back in the day, got me in A LOT of bother though, I just didn’t know when to quit and let people walk all over me. Of course I made mistakes but that mistreatment amongst other things made me very bitter I won’t lie to you.
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Yep, burning your own candle to light other's up is like nothing different than being suicidal.

If someone doesn't want help or looks like they want help, you don't go for it. Hell, you should even think twice these days before helping, met so many douchebags.

But I feel that kindness in you, trying to help and all, i get that there is nothing wrong with that.

You just gotta rotate that energy to something that actually is good for you. :)
 
unknownturk1c said:
Yep, burning your own candle to light other's up is like nothing different than being suicidal.

If someone doesn't want help or looks like they want help, you don't go for it. Hell, you should even think twice these days before helping, met so many douchebags.

But I feel that kindness in you, trying to help and all, i get that there is nothing wrong with that.

You just gotta rotate that energy to something that actually is good for you. :)
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Yeah man in hindsight I overextended way too much, made their battles become my battles but honestly that’s not healthy. If people want to self destruct there’s only so much I can do, made me quite cold I guess.

People are good deep down though and I want to foster the best things and make things comfortable for them, but I can’t be doing that at the cost of my own sanity, especially considering I took it badly when things did blow up in my face.
 
Kaari said:
Yeah man in hindsight I overextended way too much, made their battles become my battles but honestly that’s not healthy. If people want to self destruct there’s only so much I can do, made me quite cold I guess.

People are good deep down though and I want to foster the best things and make things comfortable for them, but I can’t be doing that at the cost of my own sanity, especially considering I took it badly when things did blow up in my face.
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Incase of emergencies like gas leaks, there are signs that says "Wear the gas mask yourself first, then others." that kind of vibe is most of our lives are about.

If you are helping everyone out before even thinking about yourself, even if you keeping doing it you will start to become insane and eventually those good will turn into bad and then the people you worked so hard for, helped so much will eventually turn on you.

There's a limit of what we can do and what we can help about, sometimes you just gotta let go of the things beyond your control. You are your own fuel not for everyone else, you feel me?
 
unknownturk1c said:
Incase of emergencies like gas leaks, there are signs that says "Wear the gas mask yourself first, then others." that kind of vibe is most of our lives are about.

If you are helping everyone out before even thinking about yourself, even if you keeping doing it you will start to become insane and eventually those good will turn into bad and then the people you worked so hard for, helped so much will eventually turn on you.

There's a limit of what we can do and what we can help about, sometimes you just gotta let go of the things beyond your control. You are your own fuel not for everyone else, you feel me?
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Yeah I feel you man, meh for stuff I’ve done I’m guess I’m in this weird grey area of being too good to be truly bad but far from good enough to be truly good either, so I’m just stuck in this moral limbo I don’t really belong anywhere in. Sucks but what are you go gonna do eh?
 
Kaari said:
Yeah I feel you man, meh for stuff I’ve done I’m guess I’m in this weird grey area of being too good to be truly bad but far from good enough to be truly good either, so I’m just stuck in this moral limbo I don’t really belong anywhere in. Sucks but what are you go gonna do eh?
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I'm not really so different than you.

At least you tried to help others even at the cost of yourself. Me? I barely gave a shit for anyone almost my whole life.

I did help people like you but I never overdo it. I wasn't the ideal person when i was younger and I did lose myself a few good people.

I don't even get a phone call anymore these days other than my parents sometimes, like you I do not know where i belong either.

I'll have to figure that out when I am finally doing my career i guess because at some point I have to belong somewhere to make a living and earn more people.
 
unknownturk1c said:
I'm not really so different than you.

At least you tried to help others even at the cost of yourself. Me? I barely gave a shit for anyone almost my whole life.

I did help people like you but I never overdo it. I wasn't the ideal person when i was younger and I did lose myself a few good people.

I don't even get a phone call anymore these days other than my parents sometimes, like you I do not know where i belong either.

I'll have to figure that out when I am finally doing my career i guess because at some point I have to belong somewhere to make a living and earn more people.
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Yeah I feel you man, I’m just a complete recluse. I went to the extreme of helping others to just trying to manipulate and use others pretty much. I used to be kinda popular man, not crazy but I got by. Life leads you down dark places though man, not else much you can do.

Career wise though I might have turned a corner, can’t say too much but it’s volunteer work but if I do well I might land something and make money out of it, which would be super cool.
 
Kaari said:
Yeah I feel you man, I’m just a complete recluse. I went to the extreme of helping others to just trying to manipulate and use others pretty much. I used to be kinda popular man, not crazy but I got by. Life leads you down dark places though man, not else much you can do.

Career wise though I might have turned a corner, can’t say too much but it’s volunteer work but if I do well I might land something and make money out of it, which would be super cool.
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Proud of you man, real proud.

Whatever will get you by.

I hope everything ends up in your favor.
 
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Would you eat this for 500$ ?
 
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Would you wear this in public for 24 hours for 50$?
 
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