Here is my lukewarm take on this topic as a girl who has observed many of my friends relationships- looks are never the deciding factor. I know it’s a common thing for people to say “girls only want a 6’4 guy” and it’s pretty far from actuality. Many girls really just want a guy who’s a bit taller than them who has one unique feature (some don’t really even care) but at the end of the day it’s how well you click with that person. Every girl has her own preferences, as guys my friend finds attractive is different from my type but you can’t rely on just a pretty face to make rough life decisions, and some are even scared that when they’re carrying a baby their partner will leave them or think they’re unattractive then. Usually the dynamic is a lowkey awkward dude who is crazy about his girl, and that will be the deciding factor in pulling a baddie. Im not discrediting that looks factor into relationships since you don’t want to end up with someone who you don’t actually find attractive but I’m pretty sure that bar is a lot lower than you think. There’s three criteria that need to be met: you need to make your partner feel secure, have a way to communicate, and remember the little details. If you’ve got a good sense of humor you’ll end up pulling whoever you want.
I’m so sorry for this essay but I do feel kinda passionate about it.