atlastranquility ༘⋆༄.°⋆
why blend in when you were born to stand out?
“looks don’t matter” yea to YOU. if you’re naturally attractive/only “glew up” through puberty then obviously you’d find looksmaxxing/bp to be “useless” because you’ve been granted pretty privilege all your life
I hate when people say this to visibly unattractive people too, an htn/htb may be able to pull someone in the lower tiers but it would never work the other way around.
and even if someone considered “ugly” dates sm1 attractive and said attractive person loves them for who they are, they’d always get backlash or hear shit about them for being ugly, especially when and if they break up. I would rather be lonely for the rest of my life then break up with someone attractive and know all their friends are saying shit behind my back ab me like, “bro what possessed you to date that thing.”
“Looks aren’t everything! Personality over looks!” may be true to some extent but let’s be honest, very few people are gonna date an ltn/b purely because of personality. and as I said before, you’d deal with their friends (and randoms too lwk) on yo ass because they think ur a charity case
outside of the dating atmosphere, being attractive can highly assist you in non-romantic relationships too. even if you’re considered “weird”/“awkward”, or perhaps ND with noticeable ND traits, if people view you as attractive there’s a less of a chance of them pitying you. People will see sm1 conventionally attractive and think on a conscious or subconscious level, “oh, they’re a normal person. Maybe a little quiet/awkward, but they chill.”
And if you’re not attractive, they’ll most likely see you as weird unless u mask easy I guess
Whether people want to believe or not, looks will always play a CRUCIAL role in how you are perceived and treated.
this was more a ramble so I apologize if it sounds redundant/choppy, js something I’ve had on my mind for awhile
I hate when people say this to visibly unattractive people too, an htn/htb may be able to pull someone in the lower tiers but it would never work the other way around.
and even if someone considered “ugly” dates sm1 attractive and said attractive person loves them for who they are, they’d always get backlash or hear shit about them for being ugly, especially when and if they break up. I would rather be lonely for the rest of my life then break up with someone attractive and know all their friends are saying shit behind my back ab me like, “bro what possessed you to date that thing.”
“Looks aren’t everything! Personality over looks!” may be true to some extent but let’s be honest, very few people are gonna date an ltn/b purely because of personality. and as I said before, you’d deal with their friends (and randoms too lwk) on yo ass because they think ur a charity case
outside of the dating atmosphere, being attractive can highly assist you in non-romantic relationships too. even if you’re considered “weird”/“awkward”, or perhaps ND with noticeable ND traits, if people view you as attractive there’s a less of a chance of them pitying you. People will see sm1 conventionally attractive and think on a conscious or subconscious level, “oh, they’re a normal person. Maybe a little quiet/awkward, but they chill.”
And if you’re not attractive, they’ll most likely see you as weird unless u mask easy I guess
Whether people want to believe or not, looks will always play a CRUCIAL role in how you are perceived and treated.
this was more a ramble so I apologize if it sounds redundant/choppy, js something I’ve had on my mind for awhile
guess I can't anymore