Discussion Aura vs Good Looks

[Roxas]

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I really do think people confuse looks with aura way too much on .com

Good looking is more like if you take someone in an image and analyze them feature by feature. Aura is how they actually come across in real life once they start moving/talking/reacting to things.

There are people that look insane in photos but in real life feel kind of mid because you can tell they’re very self-aware the whole time.

Then there are dudes that aren’t even HTN facially but everyone notices them the second they walk in.

Compare:

attractive guy constantly trying to impress / checking reactions

vs

average looking guy who’s just completely comfortable

Most people end up reading the second guy as having more presence.

Aura is basically:
- low insecurity
- emotional control
- not approval-seeking
- comfortable taking up space

 

[Roxas]

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I really do think people confuse looks with aura way too much on .com

Good looking is more like if you take someone in an image and analyze them feature by feature. Aura is how they actually come across in real life once they start moving/talking/reacting to things.

There are people that look insane in photos but in real life feel kind of mid because you can tell they’re very self-aware the whole time.

Then there are dudes that aren’t even HTN facially but everyone notices them the second they walk in.

Compare:

attractive guy constantly trying to impress / checking reactions

vs

average looking guy who’s just completely comfortable

Most people end up reading the second guy as having more presence.

Aura is basically:
- low insecurity
- emotional control
- not approval-seeking
- comfortable taking up space

@duch

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I really do think people confuse looks with aura way too much on .com

Good looking is more like if you take someone in an image and analyze them feature by feature. Aura is how they actually come across in real life once they start moving/talking/reacting to things.

There are people that look insane in photos but in real life feel kind of mid because you can tell they’re very self-aware the whole time.

Then there are dudes that aren’t even HTN facially but everyone notices them the second they walk in.

Compare:

attractive guy constantly trying to impress / checking reactions

vs

average looking guy who’s just completely comfortable

Most people end up reading the second guy as having more presence.

Aura is basically:
- low insecurity
- emotional control
- not approval-seeking
- comfortable taking up space

@Duchesse it’s working now

 

[genio]

So js being neurotypical = aura

 

[Roxas]

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I really do think people confuse looks with aura way too much on .com

Good looking is more like if you take someone in an image and analyze them feature by feature. Aura is how they actually come across in real life once they start moving/talking/reacting to things.

There are people that look insane in photos but in real life feel kind of mid because you can tell they’re very self-aware the whole time.

Then there are dudes that aren’t even HTN facially but everyone notices them the second they walk in.

Compare:

attractive guy constantly trying to impress / checking reactions

vs

average looking guy who’s just completely comfortable

Most people end up reading the second guy as having more presence.

Aura is basically:
- low insecurity
- emotional control
- not approval-seeking
- comfortable taking up space

In order to win in a room full of confidence you’ve must have both

 

[Roxas]

So js being neurotypical = aura

Even being neurodivergent can mean aura but I think the key is mastering body language

 

[Roxas]

In order to win in a room full of confidence you’ve must have both

Looks and aura

 

[genio]

Even being neurodivergent can mean aura but I think the key is mastering body language

Neurodivergent n*****s wouldnt be able to master body language and every minor mannerism a neurotypical person would

 

[victorique]

So js being neurotypical = aura

It is a mix of that and other things that he explained ig

 

[Roxas]

Neurodivergent n*****s wouldnt be able to master body language and every minor mannerism a neurotypical person would

Probably true

 

[Roxas]

It is a mix of that and other things that he explained ig

Many stuffs