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Serious back in another depressive era again

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i hope your ok tho twin
 
actually this is why
awh I'm sorry, finding relationships is hard but you got this vro ❤️

if that's you in ur avi finding a girl shouldn't be too difficult esp if your looks match with your personality
 
awh I'm sorry, finding relationships is hard but you got this vro ❤️

if that's you in ur avi finding a girl shouldn't be too difficult esp if your looks match with your personality
thats zario, but im lhtn and 6'1 and the nicest guy but im actually a mental person on thr inside and insecure as fuck so i self sabotage everything
 
the nicest guy but im actually a mental person on thr inside and insecure as fuck so i self sabotage everything
I understand this sm, some girls know how to handle guys like that tho. as long as you don't do anything too "stupid" and learn how to manage your emotions to a certain degree (as in treating the girl right and apologizing for your mix ups) you should be fine. it's good to acknowledge what you need to fix so once you work on yourself you'll be fine. don't overthink it, as someone who self sabotages a LOT overthinking and constantly reminding yourself what's "wrong" with you it's gonna make things worse. when you find a girl who understands you, your insecurities won't be a problem and maybe she'll help you work thru it and show you that there's nothing to be insecure about. does this make sense?

ok I'm not the best at giving advice but I hope things get better for you ^_^
 
I understand this sm, some girls know how to handle guys like that tho. as long as you don't do anything too "stupid" and learn how to manage your emotions to a certain degree (as in treating the girl right and apologizing for your mix ups) you should be fine. it's good to acknowledge what you need to fix so once you work on yourself you'll be fine. don't overthink it, as someone who self sabotages a LOT overthinking and constantly reminding yourself what's "wrong" with you it's gonna make things worse. when you find a girl who understands you, your insecurities won't be a problem and maybe she'll help you work thru it and show you that there's nothing to be insecure about. does this make sense?

ok I'm not the best at giving advice but I hope things get better for you ^_^
awh thanks sm your a greattherapist and i definetley hear you but i feel like im harassing any girl i speak too its awful but ill keep trying but it does get to a point where i keep getting hurt over and over i dont believe there is a possibility
 
awh thanks sm your a greattherapist and i definetley hear you but i feel like im harassing any girl i speak too its awful but ill keep trying but it does get to a point where i keep getting hurt over and over i dont believe there is a possibility
hmm I see, instead of feeling like you're "harassing" them see if they're also into you. im not saying you're doing this but forcing yourself to get a girl to stay in a talking stage is for sure gonna lead to self sabotage. don't focus on getting into dating right away it's going to happen sooner than later if you sense a girl isn't into you then stop contacting her and maybe find a girl that gravitates towards you first.

ill keep trying but it does get to a point where i keep getting hurt over and over i dont believe there is a possibility
you should take a break and focus on yourself for a bit, it's not good to jump into dating when there's a lot on your mind. personally whenever i've dated someone when I was going through something it ALWAYS lead into me getting ghosted or I ghosted them so yes you're going to continue getting hurt if you don't try to work on yourself. if you cant understand yourself how can you understand your partner? from the things you've told me it seems like you do wanna get better and probably want to find someone that'll help you heal certain things (I'm assuming, correct me if I'm wrong) there's always a possibility tho and I believe that you'll find someone, you're a fun person to talk to and I bet other people see that too ^^ (if you act the same irl obvi)

like i've said before you got this mud ❤️
 
Rotting while depressed only makes it worse. Go outside or something
 
Rotting while depressed only makes it worse. Go outside or something
right, taking walks, going to parks, alone time at the gym, bike rides etc etc outdoor activity in general helps a LOT

if he's into sports he should try that too when it gets warmer
 
Rotting while depressed only makes it worse. Go outside or something
right, taking walks, going to parks, alone time at the gym, bike rides etc etc outdoor activity in general helps a LOT

if he's into sports he should try that too when it gets warmer
being in the cold winter northen canada makes it all 10x worse, i usually get depressed this time of year always
 
holy I didn't see this part but thank yew I try to be helpful when I'm in a good mood
this was actually really nice you didnt have to do all that but its super helpful and i willlisten to it tysm ❤️‍🩹
 
this was actually really nice you didnt have to do all that but its super helpful and i willlisten to it tysm ❤️‍🩹
awh yw yw, if you ever need to talk abt something just pm me ^^
 

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