Being extremely shy around females

[Deleted Member 87595]

The more prettier they are, the more uncomfortable I am. Whenever some attractive female is standing, walking or sitting near me, my hearts beats more, I feel nervous and have no guts to look at them.

I don't know why I am so uncomfortable around them. I feel so sick.

 

[Ghoultune]

Just imagine them doing something dishonorable

 

[Deleted Member 87595]

Just imagine them doing something dishonorable

That's even when they don't bother me

 

[Deleted Member 47925]

It's because you look at women like objects, they are only interesting when they are attractive so thus you question your capability of perusing a conversation.

 

[imareasonableman]

what worked for me is try to ignore it, like you don't even care. remember that they're human too btw. and just hang out with more women. how many female friends do you have? idk why you see them as gods or smt.

 

[Nenestar]

Well, it's gonna be a bigger loss if you fail at seducing/befriending her. Quite simple, no?

 

[Deleted Member 87595]

what worked for me is try to ignore it, like you don't even care. remember that they're human too btw. and just hang out with more women. how many female friends do you have? idk why you see them as gods or smt.

I don't have female friends. I used to interact with females only for some work or enquiry. I did had female friends at kindergarten to 1st grade

 

[emocel]

i just ignore them and try not to stand too close by accident, but thats like something that applies for everyone

 

[Deleted Member 87595]

i just ignore them and try not to stand too close by accident, but thats like something that applies for everyone

Doesn't help even if i don't try to look at them. Even if they are close to me during walks, I feel so tense

 

[Almighty Sigma Wolf]

Seems normal