Being Mysterious>having friends

[DonJuanDeMarco]

Being mysterious.. until ppl start talking to you and there’s nothing interesting there..

Having good social circle is so important

 

[Deleted Member 71100]

Being mysterious.. until ppl start talking to you and there’s nothing interesting there..

Having good social circle is so important

Too high inhib to talk to them for more then a hi, I don’t like making new social circles cuz it hurts

 

[DonJuanDeMarco]

Too high inhib to talk to them for more then a hi, I don’t like making new social circles cuz it hurts

All you have to do is say “Hi. We got any classes together? Introduce yourself and go from there.” If you vibe together then just hang.

Used to be the type of person who would wait until ppl walked up to me and speak. But now I catch ppl looking in my direction a lot of times (prob eager to talk). So I just approach ppl now.

^The more you approach ppl to chat yourself. The better you become at this.
Its a very important skill to have.

 

[Deleted Member 71100]

All you have to do is say “Hi. We got any classes together? Introduce yourself and go from there.” If you vibe together then just hang.

Used to be the type of person who would wait until ppl walked up to me and speak. But now I catch ppl looking in my direction a lot of times (prob eager to talk). So I just approach ppl now.

^The more you approach ppl to chat yourself. The better you become at this.
Its a very important skill to have.

Honestly true I am just to high inhib to pull it off

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

I’m Ltn just have crazy swag , what was your highschool like due to that?

Positive experience: I wasn’t popular with the boys (nd pill or something), some girls had a crush on me (younger, older, whatever), some girls would lurk outside their class to “wait” for me, every morning
Some female teachers would give me compliments from time to time and things like that

 

[DonJuanDeMarco]

Honestly true I am just to high inhib to pull it off

I was there, u just gotta try it out and it might be awkward sometimes. Don’t lose hope!

 

[Deleted Member 71100]

Positive experience: I wasn’t popular with the boys (nd pill or something), some girls had a crush on me (younger, older, whatever), some girls would lurk outside their class to “wait” for me, every morning
Some female teachers would give me compliments from time to time and things like that

Did you have a friend group, also mirin

 

[drchad]

At my school due to me being too high inhib to talk to people i just sit around leaning against walls fake checking my phone, after a week of doing that random people and a group of girls started saying high to me by name every time they see me and acting like friends. Idk if they do that cuz they think im autistic or really cool but either way this mogs making friends

U may just look good/want to be friends or they laughin at u who knows

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

Positive experience: I wasn’t popular with the boys (nd pill or something), some girls had a crush on me (younger, older, whatever), some girls would lurk outside their class to “wait” for me, every morning
Some female teachers would give me compliments from time to time and things like that

Some girls openly flirted with me despite having a boyfriend, and I hardly ever met a girl who claimed to be engaged

 

[Deleted Member 71100]

U may just look good/want to be friends or they laughin at u who knows

I definitely don’t look good might just be sympathy talking

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

Did you have a friend group, also mirin

yes, but small
I would have had many more “numbers” had I been extroverted

 

[drchad]

I definitely don’t look good might just be sympathy talking

I mean why would they randomly know ur name and say wsp unless they knew u in the past

People dont even do that probably making fun of u icl

 

[Lebensmude]

I definitely don’t look good might just be sympathy talking

No no don’t be like me and say no you need those numbers so you can integrate into the wider friend scene and have points of contact. Making connections 101, take advantage of the pity

 

[Deleted Member 71100]

No no don’t be like me and say no you need those numbers so you can integrate into the wider friend scene and have points of contact. Making connections 101, take advantage of the pity

Already left the school I got accepted into better one and I have friends there, Ty tho