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Okay so I'm in my final year of school, and for context things are going pretty well right now. Just finished the first week.

But we got 2 issues.

Issue number 1 is..


In my 3rd period class, I met this girl, and I think she might be one of the most beautiful people I've ever seen.
She's got a wonderful smile, a gentle voice, and she has these adorable freckles as well as the most gorgeous hazel eyes I've seen. And funnily enough actually has a lighter skin tone than me in spite of the fact she's from Syria (I say this because I thought she was Turkish at first lmao)

I could probably go on, but all you need to know is that I have a crush on her.
We'll call her R.


I met her on pretty much the first day of this semester, when I was settling into my 3rd period class. She was one of the last people to walk into the room, and although other people had spots open next to them, she sat next to me.
(I doubt this means anything but it enabled me to actually get to know her a little, so I consider it a good thing)

Then the teacher made us get into groups for icebreakers, so one of the first things I did was turn to my left and ask R if she'd like to be in a group with me. She said yes, and we got like 1 more person in our group from there, with the day going by after that.

Later, about maybe a day or 2 ago I remember the teacher noticed we still had time left in the period after finishing a quiz, so she made us do this debate activity where 2 students come up to the front. Pick a small piece of paper with an animal's name on it from a jar, and attempt to debate which animal would beat which.

Me and this kid Jackson were the only 2 who actually volunteered. He got an elephant while I got a shark.
And after a little debating all you really need to know is that we reached the consensus that the shark gets obliterated on land, and the elephant gets obliterated in the water.

The important part, though, is that after the class ended I used the debate as an opportunity to talk to R some more, because I figured it was a good conversation starter.
And it was! After talking about that for a bit, we started discussing our classes we had. And as we were doing that, I ended up deciding to walk with her all the way to her class.

Which, surprisingly, she seemed alright with.
(And the reason I say that is because I just met her)

Moving on, though. We seem to have made walking & talking after class a regular thing. One problem though is that I've no idea if she's actually comfortable with me, someone she just met last week deciding to walk all the way to her class with her.
She's never addressed it, mind you, and mostly laughs and smiles when we talk on the way there, but you can never really be sure from just guessing.

TL;DR for this part: Met a gorgeous, smart girl in my third period class, I think she's interested in getting to know me but I'm not sure yet.


As for the second..:



So, as some of you may know from my Previous Thread, (go read it if you don't) I know this one girl that may or may not like me. I say that because she gives me pretty mixed messages (see the thread in question if u dunno what I mean)

We'll call her M.

So, after the events of my previous thread on her, M kind of just unadded me on snapchat. Which I thought was "whatever" and just thought she didn't like me anymore.

But at the end of the day today, as I was walking to the front to bike home, I hear someone calling my name, I take an earbud out and turn, and it's M.
She starts asking me how I've been and stuff like that, more or less acting like she didn't unfriend and more or less stop talking to me for months.

Still, I thought it was interesting how this girl with big tits and a fat ass still seemed to want to talk to me, so me and her had a convo about our classes and all that. It was pretty awkward, I'll admit.
Then, I kind of ended the conversation, and she said something that made me kinda laugh, she said "see you later".

What do you mean 'see you later'? Aren't you the same person that would talk to me randomly, and then randomly just ghost me?

But, as I was walking away, I turned back to ask her if she was going to the senior sunrise that was happening on the 7th. (I was already gonna be going there) So when I told her that id be there, she essentially just said "Alright, I'll see you there"



TL;DR for this part: Hot girl that used to talk with me, then ghosted me, once again just starts talking with me like nothing happened. I will admit I am still attracted to her, though. I definitely am.




So now I'm in a dilemma. Because my heart likes R, but my body definitely likes M.


If the ball was in your hands, what would you do?

Comment down below.
 
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why would you ever pick M over R
Never said that

But, there is a chance that R only just wants to be my friend and nothing more.

Or there's a chance M actually just wants to be my friend, and R is romantically interested in me, I don't know.
 
crack both then dip, chad does what chad wants
 
Okay so I'm in my final year of school, and for context things are going pretty well right now. Just finished the first week.

But we got 2 issues.

Issue number 1 is..


In my 3rd period class, I met this girl, and I think she might be one of the most beautiful people I've ever seen.
She's got a wonderful smile, a gentle voice, and she has these adorable freckles as well as the most gorgeous hazel eyes I've seen. And funnily enough actually has a lighter skin tone than me in spite of the fact she's from Syria (I say this because I thought she was Turkish at first lmao)

I could probably go on, but all you need to know is that I have a crush on her.
We'll call her R.


I met her on pretty much the first day of this semester, when I was settling into my 3rd period class. She was one of the last people to walk into the room, and although other people had spots open next to them, she sat next to me.
(I doubt this means anything but it enabled me to actually get to know her a little, so I consider it a good thing)

Then the teacher made us get into groups for icebreakers, so one of the first things I did was turn to my left and ask R if she'd like to be in a group with me. She said yes, and we got like 1 more person in our group from there, with the day going by after that.

Later, about maybe a day or 2 ago I remember the teacher made us do this debate activity where 2 students come up to the front. Pick a small piece of paper with an animal's name on it from a jar, and attempt to debate which animal would beat which.

Me and this kid Jackson were the only 2 who actually volunteered. He got an elephant while I got a shark.
And after a little debating all you really need to know is that we reached the consensus that the shark gets obliterated on land, and the elephant gets obliterated in the water.

The important part, though, is that after the class ended I used the debate as an opportunity to talk to R some more, because I figured it was a good conversation starter.
And it was! After talking about that for a bit, we started discussing our classes we had. And as we were doing that, I ended up deciding to walk with her all the way to her class.

Which, surprisingly, she seemed alright with.
(And the reason I say that is because I just met her)

Moving on, though. We seem to have made walking & talking after class a regular thing. One problem though is that I've no idea if she's actually comfortable with me, someone she just met with week deciding to walk all the way to her class with her.
She's never addressed it, mind you, and mostly laughs and smiles when we talk on the way there, but you can never really be sure from just guessing.

TL;DR for this part: Met a gorgeous, smart girl in my third period class, I think she's interested in getting to know me but I'm not sure yet.


As for the second..:



So, as some of you may know from my Previous Thread, (go read it if you don't) I know this one girl that may or may not like me. I say that because she gives me pretty mixed messages (see the thread in question if u dunno what I mean)

We'll call her M.

So, after the events of my previous thread on her, M kind of just unadded me on snapchat. Which I thought was "whatever" and just thought she didn't like me anymore.

But at the end of the day today, as I was walking to the front to bike home, I hear someone calling my name, I take an earbud out and turn, and it's M.
She starts asking me how I've been and stuff like that, more or less acting like she didn't unfriend and more or less stop talking to me for months.

Still, I thought it was interesting how this girl with big tits and a fat ass still seemed to want to talk to me, so me and her had a convo about our classes and all that. It was pretty awkward, I'll admit.
Then, I kind of ended the conversation, and she said something that made me kinda laugh, she said "see you later".

What do you mean 'see you later'? Aren't you the same person that would talk to me randomly, and then randomly just ghost me?

But, as I was walking away, I turned back to ask her if she was going to the senior sunrise that was happening on the 7th. (I was already gonna be going there) So when I told her that id be there, she essentially just said "Alright, I'll see you there"



TL;DR for this part: Hot girl that used to talk with me, then ghosted me, once again just starts talking with me like nothing happened. I will admit I am still attracted to her, though. I definitely am.




So now I'm in a dilemma. Because my heart likes R, but my body definitely likes M.


If the ball was in your hands, what would you do?

Comment down below.
I’d try and pursue R
 
I do think that's a good idea.


But what do I do on the senior sunrise then? Just avoid M?
Yeah and Mabye try to spend more time with R during it

I think M just wants the attention you used to give her. Nothing good will come out of talking to her
 
I feel like you should jsut forget M and focus on R more. She has more potential icl.

Like for the little time you’ve known her she seems solid and I think it could go far if you invest 100% of willingness there
 
If I were in your shoes I would fuck both
 
don't go for relationships in senior year, have fun as much as u want with friends but don't do serious shit n***a
 
Okay so I'm in my final year of school, and for context things are going pretty well right now. Just finished the first week.

But we got 2 issues.

Issue number 1 is..


In my 3rd period class, I met this girl, and I think she might be one of the most beautiful people I've ever seen.
She's got a wonderful smile, a gentle voice, and she has these adorable freckles as well as the most gorgeous hazel eyes I've seen. And funnily enough actually has a lighter skin tone than me in spite of the fact she's from Syria (I say this because I thought she was Turkish at first lmao)

I could probably go on, but all you need to know is that I have a crush on her.
We'll call her R.


I met her on pretty much the first day of this semester, when I was settling into my 3rd period class. She was one of the last people to walk into the room, and although other people had spots open next to them, she sat next to me.
(I doubt this means anything but it enabled me to actually get to know her a little, so I consider it a good thing)

Then the teacher made us get into groups for icebreakers, so one of the first things I did was turn to my left and ask R if she'd like to be in a group with me. She said yes, and we got like 1 more person in our group from there, with the day going by after that.

Later, about maybe a day or 2 ago I remember the teacher made us do this debate activity where 2 students come up to the front. Pick a small piece of paper with an animal's name on it from a jar, and attempt to debate which animal would beat which.

Me and this kid Jackson were the only 2 who actually volunteered. He got an elephant while I got a shark.
And after a little debating all you really need to know is that we reached the consensus that the shark gets obliterated on land, and the elephant gets obliterated in the water.

The important part, though, is that after the class ended I used the debate as an opportunity to talk to R some more, because I figured it was a good conversation starter.
And it was! After talking about that for a bit, we started discussing our classes we had. And as we were doing that, I ended up deciding to walk with her all the way to her class.

Which, surprisingly, she seemed alright with.
(And the reason I say that is because I just met her)

Moving on, though. We seem to have made walking & talking after class a regular thing. One problem though is that I've no idea if she's actually comfortable with me, someone she just met with week deciding to walk all the way to her class with her.
She's never addressed it, mind you, and mostly laughs and smiles when we talk on the way there, but you can never really be sure from just guessing.

TL;DR for this part: Met a gorgeous, smart girl in my third period class, I think she's interested in getting to know me but I'm not sure yet.


As for the second..:



So, as some of you may know from my Previous Thread, (go read it if you don't) I know this one girl that may or may not like me. I say that because she gives me pretty mixed messages (see the thread in question if u dunno what I mean)

We'll call her M.

So, after the events of my previous thread on her, M kind of just unadded me on snapchat. Which I thought was "whatever" and just thought she didn't like me anymore.

But at the end of the day today, as I was walking to the front to bike home, I hear someone calling my name, I take an earbud out and turn, and it's M.
She starts asking me how I've been and stuff like that, more or less acting like she didn't unfriend and more or less stop talking to me for months.

Still, I thought it was interesting how this girl with big tits and a fat ass still seemed to want to talk to me, so me and her had a convo about our classes and all that. It was pretty awkward, I'll admit.
Then, I kind of ended the conversation, and she said something that made me kinda laugh, she said "see you later".

What do you mean 'see you later'? Aren't you the same person that would talk to me randomly, and then randomly just ghost me?

But, as I was walking away, I turned back to ask her if she was going to the senior sunrise that was happening on the 7th. (I was already gonna be going there) So when I told her that id be there, she essentially just said "Alright, I'll see you there"



TL;DR for this part: Hot girl that used to talk with me, then ghosted me, once again just starts talking with me like nothing happened. I will admit I am still attracted to her, though. I definitely am.




So now I'm in a dilemma. Because my heart likes R, but my body definitely likes M.


If the ball was in your hands, what would you do?

Comment down below.
R
 
don't go for relationships in senior year, have fun as much as u want with friends but don't do serious shit n***a
whitefriendhouse.webp
 
But im concerned abt your lessons how old are you to do a debate over animals?
 
But im conserved abt your lessons how old are you to do a debate over animals?
It was a fun time waster activity lmao.

I should mention we had just gotten done taking a quiz and there was time left before the class ended
 
It was a fun time waster activity lmao.

I should mention we had just gotten done taking a quiz and there was time left before the class ended
100% r just how you talk abt her is almost the opposite to m.”You should take m or both for fun” is stupid bc it won’t be fun for YOU to be with M and be alone at the end
 
100% r just how you talk abt her is almost the opposite to m.”You should take m or both for fun” is stupid bc it won’t be fun for YOU to be with M and be alone at the end
True. I was already thinking this myself but I wanted a second opinion on it.

I also made this on the off-chance that either R just isn't looking for a relationship with me, or M isn't, etc
I don't know their motivations
 
True. I was already thinking this myself but I wanted a second opinion on it.

I also made this on the off-chance that either R just isn't looking for a relationship with me, or M isn't, etc
I don't know their motivations
Don’t look for a relationship and take the one that says yes first.Take R,she’s worth your time and let the rest come naturally
 
Don’t look for a relationship and take the one that says yes first.Take R,she’s worth your time and let the rest come naturally
True True.

i only wonder if I'm worth Her time.

And anyway asides from that
I got other problems to work on
 
True True.

i only wonder if I'm worth Her time.

And anyway asides from that
I got other problems to work on
Don’t sell yourself under your worth,take the girl you like and not the girl you can 100% have she won’t make your broblems worse but maby make you happier,M won’t
 
Don’t sell yourself under your worth,take the girl you like and not the girl you can 100% have she won’t make your broblems worse but maby make you happier,M won’t
Thank you bro
❤️
 
Don’t sell yourself under your worth,take the girl you like and not the girl you can 100% have she won’t make your broblems worse but maby make you happier,M won’t
Don’t look for a relationship and take the one that says yes first.Take R,she’s worth your time and let the rest come naturally
I also wonder if I should try getting her on instagram.

I think I've seen her account before but idk if now is a good time to send her a follow and if it'd even work
 
I also wonder if I should try getting her on instagram.

I think I've seen her account before but idk if now is a good time to send her a follow and if it'd even work
It would be weirder to don’t follow her.You guys had a good conversation ,sit next to each other and will get friends.If she likes you she’ll be happy .It’s the easiest step you can do bc it’s not obvious at all.You could have just saw her account by accident and follow it bc you know eachother and at school it will diverting the relationship instantly on a friend base(first step) without talking about it
 
It would be weirder to don’t follow her.You guys had a good conversation ,sit next to each other and will get friends.If she likes you she’ll be happy .It’s the easiest step you can do bc it’s not obvious at all.You could have just saw her account by accident and follow it bc you know eachother and at school it will diverting the relationship instantly on a friend base(first step) without talking about it
I sent a follow
 
R 100% better option "big tits" is nothing compared to genuine romantic interest and feelings M sounds like she is trying to get attention from you especially with the way she unadded you then talked to you like nothing changed after not talking for ages.
 
R 100% better option "big tits" is nothing compared to genuine romantic interest and feelings M sounds like she is trying to get attention from you especially with the way she unadded you then talked to you like nothing changed after not talking for ages.
R 100% better option "big tits" is nothing compared to genuine romantic interest and feelings M sounds like she is trying to get attention from you especially with the way she unadded you then talked to you like nothing changed after not talking for ages.
I agree
 
Okay so I'm in my final year of school, and for context things are going pretty well right now. Just finished the first week.

But we got 2 issues.

Issue number 1 is..


In my 3rd period class, I met this girl, and I think she might be one of the most beautiful people I've ever seen.
She's got a wonderful smile, a gentle voice, and she has these adorable freckles as well as the most gorgeous hazel eyes I've seen. And funnily enough actually has a lighter skin tone than me in spite of the fact she's from Syria (I say this because I thought she was Turkish at first lmao)

I could probably go on, but all you need to know is that I have a crush on her.
We'll call her R.


I met her on pretty much the first day of this semester, when I was settling into my 3rd period class. She was one of the last people to walk into the room, and although other people had spots open next to them, she sat next to me.
(I doubt this means anything but it enabled me to actually get to know her a little, so I consider it a good thing)

Then the teacher made us get into groups for icebreakers, so one of the first things I did was turn to my left and ask R if she'd like to be in a group with me. She said yes, and we got like 1 more person in our group from there, with the day going by after that.

Later, about maybe a day or 2 ago I remember the teacher noticed we still had time left in the period after finishing a quiz, so she made us do this debate activity where 2 students come up to the front. Pick a small piece of paper with an animal's name on it from a jar, and attempt to debate which animal would beat which.

Me and this kid Jackson were the only 2 who actually volunteered. He got an elephant while I got a shark.
And after a little debating all you really need to know is that we reached the consensus that the shark gets obliterated on land, and the elephant gets obliterated in the water.

The important part, though, is that after the class ended I used the debate as an opportunity to talk to R some more, because I figured it was a good conversation starter.
And it was! After talking about that for a bit, we started discussing our classes we had. And as we were doing that, I ended up deciding to walk with her all the way to her class.

Which, surprisingly, she seemed alright with.
(And the reason I say that is because I just met her)

Moving on, though. We seem to have made walking & talking after class a regular thing. One problem though is that I've no idea if she's actually comfortable with me, someone she just met last week deciding to walk all the way to her class with her.
She's never addressed it, mind you, and mostly laughs and smiles when we talk on the way there, but you can never really be sure from just guessing.

TL;DR for this part: Met a gorgeous, smart girl in my third period class, I think she's interested in getting to know me but I'm not sure yet.


As for the second..:



So, as some of you may know from my Previous Thread, (go read it if you don't) I know this one girl that may or may not like me. I say that because she gives me pretty mixed messages (see the thread in question if u dunno what I mean)

We'll call her M.

So, after the events of my previous thread on her, M kind of just unadded me on snapchat. Which I thought was "whatever" and just thought she didn't like me anymore.

But at the end of the day today, as I was walking to the front to bike home, I hear someone calling my name, I take an earbud out and turn, and it's M.
She starts asking me how I've been and stuff like that, more or less acting like she didn't unfriend and more or less stop talking to me for months.

Still, I thought it was interesting how this girl with big tits and a fat ass still seemed to want to talk to me, so me and her had a convo about our classes and all that. It was pretty awkward, I'll admit.
Then, I kind of ended the conversation, and she said something that made me kinda laugh, she said "see you later".

What do you mean 'see you later'? Aren't you the same person that would talk to me randomly, and then randomly just ghost me?

But, as I was walking away, I turned back to ask her if she was going to the senior sunrise that was happening on the 7th. (I was already gonna be going there) So when I told her that id be there, she essentially just said "Alright, I'll see you there"



TL;DR for this part: Hot girl that used to talk with me, then ghosted me, once again just starts talking with me like nothing happened. I will admit I am still attracted to her, though. I definitely am.




So now I'm in a dilemma. Because my heart likes R, but my body definitely likes M.


If the ball was in your hands, what would you do?

Comment down below.
what's ur gpa bro mines bad its 2.38. I'm not stupid like genuinely yesterday on the math map test I skimmed through and answer quickly( not just random clicking for most) I literally only randomly clicked 10 questions and still got average to above in all of the math topics. also I am crazy when it comes to breaking down peoms or writing stories. historys alr. maths alr but still its just only cause I have a hard time tracking assignments and shit
 
what's ur gpa bro mines bad its 2.38. I'm not stupid like genuinely yesterday on the math map test I skimmed through and answer quickly( not just random clicking for most) I literally only randomly clicked 10 questions and still got average to above in all of the math topics. also I am crazy when it comes to breaking down peoms or writing stories. historys alr. maths alr but still its just only cause I have a hard time tracking assignments and shit
Idfk
 
No idea if I'll actually get a follow back or even accepted
If you don’t at lest you know were you stand without getting rejected in rl.But she won’t bc you could also just follow her as a friend
 
Did she follow back?
 
Okay so I'm in my final year of school, and for context things are going pretty well right now. Just finished the first week.

But we got 2 issues.

Issue number 1 is..


In my 3rd period class, I met this girl, and I think she might be one of the most beautiful people I've ever seen.
She's got a wonderful smile, a gentle voice, and she has these adorable freckles as well as the most gorgeous hazel eyes I've seen. And funnily enough actually has a lighter skin tone than me in spite of the fact she's from Syria (I say this because I thought she was Turkish at first lmao)

I could probably go on, but all you need to know is that I have a crush on her.
We'll call her R.


I met her on pretty much the first day of this semester, when I was settling into my 3rd period class. She was one of the last people to walk into the room, and although other people had spots open next to them, she sat next to me.
(I doubt this means anything but it enabled me to actually get to know her a little, so I consider it a good thing)

Then the teacher made us get into groups for icebreakers, so one of the first things I did was turn to my left and ask R if she'd like to be in a group with me. She said yes, and we got like 1 more person in our group from there, with the day going by after that.

Later, about maybe a day or 2 ago I remember the teacher noticed we still had time left in the period after finishing a quiz, so she made us do this debate activity where 2 students come up to the front. Pick a small piece of paper with an animal's name on it from a jar, and attempt to debate which animal would beat which.

Me and this kid Jackson were the only 2 who actually volunteered. He got an elephant while I got a shark.
And after a little debating all you really need to know is that we reached the consensus that the shark gets obliterated on land, and the elephant gets obliterated in the water.

The important part, though, is that after the class ended I used the debate as an opportunity to talk to R some more, because I figured it was a good conversation starter.
And it was! After talking about that for a bit, we started discussing our classes we had. And as we were doing that, I ended up deciding to walk with her all the way to her class.

Which, surprisingly, she seemed alright with.
(And the reason I say that is because I just met her)

Moving on, though. We seem to have made walking & talking after class a regular thing. One problem though is that I've no idea if she's actually comfortable with me, someone she just met last week deciding to walk all the way to her class with her.
She's never addressed it, mind you, and mostly laughs and smiles when we talk on the way there, but you can never really be sure from just guessing.

TL;DR for this part: Met a gorgeous, smart girl in my third period class, I think she's interested in getting to know me but I'm not sure yet.


As for the second..:



So, as some of you may know from my Previous Thread, (go read it if you don't) I know this one girl that may or may not like me. I say that because she gives me pretty mixed messages (see the thread in question if u dunno what I mean)

We'll call her M.

So, after the events of my previous thread on her, M kind of just unadded me on snapchat. Which I thought was "whatever" and just thought she didn't like me anymore.

But at the end of the day today, as I was walking to the front to bike home, I hear someone calling my name, I take an earbud out and turn, and it's M.
She starts asking me how I've been and stuff like that, more or less acting like she didn't unfriend and more or less stop talking to me for months.

Still, I thought it was interesting how this girl with big tits and a fat ass still seemed to want to talk to me, so me and her had a convo about our classes and all that. It was pretty awkward, I'll admit.
Then, I kind of ended the conversation, and she said something that made me kinda laugh, she said "see you later".

What do you mean 'see you later'? Aren't you the same person that would talk to me randomly, and then randomly just ghost me?

But, as I was walking away, I turned back to ask her if she was going to the senior sunrise that was happening on the 7th. (I was already gonna be going there) So when I told her that id be there, she essentially just said "Alright, I'll see you there"



TL;DR for this part: Hot girl that used to talk with me, then ghosted me, once again just starts talking with me like nothing happened. I will admit I am still attracted to her, though. I definitely am.




So now I'm in a dilemma. Because my heart likes R, but my body definitely likes M.


If the ball was in your hands, what would you do?

Comment down below.
I would honestly just maybe crack R and keep it onto eh low to then maybe have something with M
 
That will 100% not work and why would he even leave r for m
Maybe just have a lil side thing with r tot hen settle down with M
 
Did she follow back
 
Did she follow back
nah. There's a chance i only followed someone that happened to have the same name as her/she just doesn't check insta, lmao.

But it also could be that she just doesn't wanna follow me back and isnt interested
 

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